Unfortunately, not all men are trustworthy. Some of them will blatantly lie or play with your feelings to you in order to get in your pants. Since you don't want to end up heartbroken, you have to be careful. Here are a few things a man might say to trick you into sleeping with him:
1. He's Single
Married men will take the rings off of their fingers in order to pretend that they're single, because they know you wouldn't want them if they admitted they were in relationships.
2. He's STD Free
Some men will put your health at risk by lying about their STDs. That's why you should always use protection.
3. He Wants to Date You
He might tell you that he wants to date you, even though he only wants sex, so that you trust him.
4. He Loves You
It's a mean thing to lie about, but some men will pretend to love you in order to get into your pants. After all, most women melt when they hear those three little words.
5. "just the Tip"
This is a huge lie that'll lead straight to sex. Don't believe it.
6. He Just Wants to Cuddle
Don't take your clothes off, just because he claims he wants to feel your skin against his while you cuddle. That's a trick he'll use to initiate sex.
7. He’s a Virgin
If he wants you to think that he's sweet and innocent, he might tell you that he's a virgin.
8. He Wants to Hang out
By now, pretty much everyone knows that "Netflix and chill" is code for sex. So if he asks you over to casually hang out and watch Mad Men, he might have sex on his mind.
9. He's Never Felt This Way
He might pretend that his feelings for you are stronger than they actually are, because he wants you to feel comfortable enough to sleep with him.
10. He Has Blue Balls
Don't feel bad for him when he tells you that you gave him painful blue balls. You don't have to sleep with him to help him. He can take care of the problem on his own, because you don't owe him anything.
11. He's Rich and Famous
Some men will actually pretend to be famous actors or athletes in order to impress women.
12. You’re Beautiful
Obviously, this one isn't a lie. However, he might be complimenting you in order to soften you up, so you agree to have sex.
13. No One else is Home
If he wants to sleep with you, he might pretend that his parents or roommates are out, even though they're still at home.
14. He Wants More than Sex
He might tell you that he wants more than sex, even though that's exactly what he wants.
15. He Deserves Sex
Sex isn't something he can get by buying you flowers and fancy dinners. He only deserves sex once you're ready to have sex.
16. All of His Friends Are Doing It
Don't let him pressure you into doing something you're uncomfortable with. Even if everyone else is sexually active, it doesn't mean you need to follow in their footsteps.
17. You've Been Together for so Long
It doesn't matter if you've been together for three weeks or three years. If you don't want to have sex yet, then don't.
There are plenty of fish in the sea, so don't settle for one that treats you like trash. Has a man ever lied to you in order to sleep with you?
Frequently Asked Questions
- Why do men say certain things to get women into bed?
- Honestly, it's often because they think it will work. Whether it's flattery, sweet talk, or making promises, some guys believe these lines will convince you to sleep with them.
- How can I tell if a guy is genuinely interested or just wants to sleep with me?
- Look for consistency in their actions and words. If he respects your boundaries, invests time in getting to know you, and isn’t just rushing intimacy, he’s likely genuine. If it feels too good to be true or rushed, be cautious.
- What are some common things guys might say to get me into bed?
- Well, they might compliment you excessively, tell you they’ve never felt this way before, or say they’re just looking for something casual if they think that’s what you want to hear. They might also use emotional stories to gain sympathy.
- Are all men like this? Do they all say things just to get laid?
- No, not all men are like this. Many men are honest and respect women’s boundaries. It’s important to use your instincts and judge each person individually rather than assuming all men behave this way.
- How can I protect myself from guys who just want to sleep with me?
- Trust your gut; if something feels off, it probably is. Communicate your boundaries early on, and don't feel pressured to do anything you’re uncomfortable with. Also, take your time to get to know someone before becoming intimate.