I think all of us ladies can come to a unanimous agreement on things that make a guy less attractive. You might find a guy who seems to have it all but later on, you might discover things about him that changes the way you look at him. And I am not talking about their dark past or skeletons in their closet but some of their natural tendencies and personality characteristics. Here are the things that make a guy less attractive. Take a look and let us know if you agree!
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1. Addictions
Alcohol, smoking, gambling and don’t even get me started on more serious forms of addiction, are all things that make a guy less attractive. It’s nice to see a man who is in control of himself and doesn’t depend on substances in order to function. A guy who is above the influence automatically appears more responsible and put together, which is very admirable.
2. No Ambitions
A guy with no ambitions, passions or goals is a lost cause. Looks can only take you so far, right ladies? The second you start talking to them and realize that they have no future plans, disappointment automatically sinks in! And I think that goes for anyone, male or female, because ambition, drive or determination is attractive!
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3. Cockiness
A guy may be intelligent, good-looking, successful and ambitious at a first glance but the second he opens his mouth, he can ruin it all with his cockiness. Don’t get me wrong, confidence is absolutely attractive but there is a thin line between confidence and arrogance that should not be crossed!
4. Controlling Tendencies
A guy who is controlling in a relationship is a guy who should be avoided. There should be a certain level of trust and honestly between two people in order for a relationship to work. Plus once a guy is known for his controlling tendencies, his reputation goes down considerably in the eyes of other women!
5. No Hygiene and Care for Health
It is more acceptable for men to be messy than it is for women, but guys should still learn how to take care of themselves. Women always notice when a guy dresses his best, smells good or works out, just as they notice when a guy doesn’t shower or wear fresh clothes.
6. Cheap Men
I completely understand the importance of budgeting and being smart with money in today’s economy. In fact I actually admire a man who knows how to save up instead of throwing his money around, but there are some people who completely hold back from life experiences and act selfish because they are cheap. At the end of the day money is not everything!
7. Immaturity
No woman will get into a serious relationship with a guy who is still stuck in his adolescent phase. Actually I don’t think anyone wants to deal with an inexperienced and childish guy who doesn’t act his age. After all, every woman wants a man and not a boy.
While no guy is perfect and there is no Prince Charming out there, there are still some characteristics in men that most of us are not willing to deal with. These qualities are just repulsive from the start. What are some of the things that make a guy less attractive in your opinion?
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Dorothy: Every single reason is reason enough!
SummerLC: Okay I dated this guy who was everything a girl could want. Sweet, athletic, smart, innocent in terms of sex, and extremely....EXTREMELY attractive. The type of guy girls wait in line to date. Well he was mine:) As we got deeper into the relationship I realized how arrogant and cocky he was. Holy shit this guy was so sure of himself it made me sick. But I decided I could look past that bcuz I cared about him so much. Well as we got even deeper into the relationship he turned into a green monster. Jealousy is what I'm talking about. He would get jealous and angry when I would go out without him or hang out with friends or go to parties without him. Seriously he said I had to "fix that" and take him with me whenever I went out. I talked to him about how space is good in a relationship and he strongly disagreed and said he believes as soon as a girl is in a relationship she shouldn't go to parties or spend as much time with friends. He said that boyfriends are the priority. That freaked me out big time. I couldn't even dance with other people or even in big groups at my prom without him glaring at me like I was doing something wrong. And when I thought it couldn't et worse he became extremely obsessive and possessive fast. Do I dumped him. I couldn't handle it anymore. I couldn't give him the commitment and attention he wanted from me. But he didn't give up. He said that he knew he and I were meant to be and that he would marry me and that his mind was made up. I told him I'm sorry i can't do this. And when I wouldn't answer his calls or texts he legit ran to my house which is a good two miles from him house. He RAN. Too much. I told him I cared about him but it was time to move on. I'm saying all of this bcuz I agree completely that arrogance, jealousy, and neediness are all INSANE turn offs.
Myac2017: When u realize this describes your bf 😧
duje: Men who are followers!
Anna: I think guys who are violent are unattractive
mdog90: @Nova good insight! I totally agree! Thanks for your perspective :)
Lavadee: I agree with Dixieland. My soon to be ex husband belongs to this type of guys. Now he moves to live with a cougar cause I can't be a sugar mommy to him. He is older than me 3 yrs. He is too lazy to help me to build our life together.
Anna: I think they're describing my brother here :O
MSed: I agree with all of them
heather635: I've been dating my boyfriend for a year now, and it is long distance. He has been home for three weeks now and all we have done is gone to the movies, and a couple dinners. I find it insanely unattractive that whenever I get off work and go see him, his parents are in the same place eating snacks and watching TV, while my bf is upstairs playing video games. He is 23 and will be 24 in a month and he still hung up on that stuff. I mean he at least stops playing when I come over, but then when I say we should get out of the house an do something all he wants to do is turn watch movies. He hasn't been going to the gym at all and I've noticed how lazy and a bit chubbier he has become. I don't want to say anything but his laziness is becoming so unattractive to me. Not only that, he is a picky eater and will only eat American or white mex type of food. Even trying something new he has the "I will hate this." I mean these are small things, but it sucks not being able to get air and get outa the house with someone I don't see often, and it sucks that I can't eat my (I'm Philippino) Asian food whenever because he's appalled. Idk maybe I need space but I feel all he's accomplished is becoming lazy and fat. He keeps saying he loves me more than usual, but It's hard For me to return the sayings because I feel he has become unattractive.
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