I think all of us ladies can come to a unanimous agreement on things that make a guy less attractive. You might find a guy who seems to have it all but later on, you might discover things about him that changes the way you look at him. And I am not talking about their dark past or skeletons in their closet but some of their natural tendencies and personality characteristics. Here are the things that make a guy less attractive. Take a look and let us know if you agree!
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1. Addictions
Alcohol, smoking, gambling and don’t even get me started on more serious forms of addiction, are all things that make a guy less attractive. It’s nice to see a man who is in control of himself and doesn’t depend on substances in order to function. A guy who is above the influence automatically appears more responsible and put together, which is very admirable.
2. No Ambitions
A guy with no ambitions, passions or goals is a lost cause. Looks can only take you so far, right ladies? The second you start talking to them and realize that they have no future plans, disappointment automatically sinks in! And I think that goes for anyone, male or female, because ambition, drive or determination is attractive!
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3. Cockiness
A guy may be intelligent, good-looking, successful and ambitious at a first glance but the second he opens his mouth, he can ruin it all with his cockiness. Don’t get me wrong, confidence is absolutely attractive but there is a thin line between confidence and arrogance that should not be crossed!
4. Controlling Tendencies
A guy who is controlling in a relationship is a guy who should be avoided. There should be a certain level of trust and honestly between two people in order for a relationship to work. Plus once a guy is known for his controlling tendencies, his reputation goes down considerably in the eyes of other women!
5. No Hygiene and Care for Health
It is more acceptable for men to be messy than it is for women, but guys should still learn how to take care of themselves. Women always notice when a guy dresses his best, smells good or works out, just as they notice when a guy doesn’t shower or wear fresh clothes.
6. Cheap Men
I completely understand the importance of budgeting and being smart with money in today’s economy. In fact I actually admire a man who knows how to save up instead of throwing his money around, but there are some people who completely hold back from life experiences and act selfish because they are cheap. At the end of the day money is not everything!
7. Immaturity
No woman will get into a serious relationship with a guy who is still stuck in his adolescent phase. Actually I don’t think anyone wants to deal with an inexperienced and childish guy who doesn’t act his age. After all, every woman wants a man and not a boy.
While no guy is perfect and there is no Prince Charming out there, there are still some characteristics in men that most of us are not willing to deal with. These qualities are just repulsive from the start. What are some of the things that make a guy less attractive in your opinion?
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Jade: I hate people, in general, that chew on pens that don't belong to them, and that also just touch/play with their feet when barefoot. It's plain disgusting. Also when they chew with their mouth open, talk with food in their mouths.... People that basically do not have any manners. Also, what's so wrong with covering your mouth when yawning?
Samantha: My girl has 1,3,4,6... I have 7 at times...I'm a woman as well...
socheata: Men who get jealous easily
xOMiaXo: Yes this is happening ATM
Cee: Guy who has no backbone and a wondering eye to the extent other women feel comfortable to touch him in front of you = run fast
Me12: So true about the immature man thing my boyfriends elder then me acts so childish I feel like dumping him
Lisa: i agree with Dixie. like men to be strong on the outside and a soft inside. :)
MSed: Seems like my boy has like...what..4 of the
duje: Men who are followers!
Charmagne: Super true :)
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