15 Things We Wish Men Knew ...


No predominately-female website would be complete without at least one list of things we wish men knew. Being โ€œthe girl that hangs with the guysโ€, I've heard some rather interesting conversations. Between musings about childhood action figures and video-game strategy tips, I've learned that one thing they want the most is to know what we're thinking. Apparently understanding quantum physics is less confusing than the thoughts of, to quote Grey's Anatomy, โ€œus with the boobsโ€. Well, guys, here's your chance. I'm going to let you in on some of the things we wish men knew. I don't presume to speak for all womankind, but this is what I've observed over the years.

1. Shut up and Listen

This is at the top of every โ€œthings we wish men knewโ€ list I've ever read. While we appreciate your desire to solve our problems, that's not always what we need. Sometimes we just need to talk things out and feel like we've been heard. When we do, try not to drift off into space or mentally draw things on our faces the way you did when you got lectures from your mom. Just listen, respond and get through it.

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LOL Jill I once had a boyfriend who had just as bad PMS as I had, if not worse! He was a great guy, but two "intense" people in a relationship doesn't work. I think most men mean well but simply can...
Gina Harris
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This is something serious.....guys need to read this NOW
Awesome, couldn't of said it any better myself! Another one I think men should remember (maybe this is just an isolated thing that only MY bf is guilty of, but I doubt it), is that just because we'r...
Don't lie, why lie, no matter how small, it's still a lie.
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Well said!
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