7 Things Women Are Insecure about That Men Wont Even Notice ...

By Holly • Nov 15, 2014

There's no need to freak out over your crush potentially noticing little, embarrassing details about yourself, because most of the things women are insecure about men rarely notice. So stop worrying over whether he's going to turn you down, because of one minor flaw. He probably thinks that you're way more beautiful than you give yourself credit for. In order to stop worrying, here are a few common things women are insecure about that men rarely notice:

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1. Your Chipped Nails

He probably won't even notice the color of your nails, let alone whether or not they're chipped. He'll be paying attention to more important things, like the body attached to those nails. Having a botched manicure or pedicure is one of the things women are insecure about, but most men won't even bat an eye at chipped nails. As long as those fingers are intertwined with his, who cares how messy they look?

2. Your Roots

Stop stressing about your roots growing back in, because some men won't even know that you dye your hair. You could be dating him for months, and he'd never know the difference, unless you spelled it out for him. He's more focused on your beautiful face that the top of your head, so don't be embarrassed.

3. Your Stretch Marks

If you're wearing next to nothing, he's not going to be focusing on your stretch marks, moles, or birth marks. He'll be too busy thinking about how lucky he is to have a beautiful woman in front of him. The little things won't matter, because all that matters is you.

4. Your Clothes

You might feel inadequate when all your friends are carrying around Coach bags while you bought something from the thrift shop, but your man won't notice. A bag is a bag to him. If he knew how much other women spent on their wardrobe and purses, he'd be proud of you for being such a good saver.

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5. Your Mascara

Men will notice when you have heavy make-up on, but they don't notice little things like how well your mascara works. Your eyes will look the same to him when you're wearing dollar store cosmetics as you look when you're wearing the most expensive mascara that money can buy. So if you're splurging, do it for yourself, not for him.

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Mascara is all about boosting your confidence and enjoying the flutter of those lovely lashes you know are enhanced to perfection. Sure, he may simply admire the overall sparkle in your eyes, but won't dwell on which brand helped achieve it. The truth is, whether it's a high-end product with a swanky wand or a trusty drugstore buy, the subtleties are often lost in the broader picture. Let your mascara choice be a personal delight, a ritual that makes you feel unstoppable, rather than an attempt to impress.

6. Your Eyebrows

You want your eyebrow game to be on point, but he'll never appreciate how perfectly groomed and symmetrical they are. As long as they aren't way too overgrown or shaved all the way off, he won't notice any difference after you style them. No man is going to choose his next girlfriend based on the precision of her eyebrows, so don't kill yourself over making them look perfect.

7. Your Jewelry

You could be wearing a string of fake diamonds around your neck, and he wouldn't even notice. The only time that men will pay attention to your jewelry is when they're looking at the engagement ring that he picked out for you. Otherwise, he probably won't examine your necklace to see if you bought a replica or the real thing.

Don't let your insecurities destroy your confidence. You're a beautiful, valuable woman, despite all of the things that you consider flaws. What are you most insecure about?

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  • 雨虹

    2014-11-16T11:07:37.110Z

    This article is so wrong , hobos don't care but most well educated men will . It's not because it's free to post u are u say it wrong
  • Dineasha

    2014-11-17T04:45:39.264Z

    Stretch marks!! 😩
  • colleen

    2014-11-16T19:10:01.284Z

    Well I was married to a blue collar guy for 20 years now I am dating a computer programmer for six months a white collar job kind of guy and he notices ALL those things about me and I lov it ! So it keeps you on your toes he comments me all the time on nail color etc
  • Tierra

    2014-11-17T01:06:52.867Z

    Wow this is so not true guys notice these things
  • Splashhhh

    2014-11-16T04:24:24.663Z

    But most them do think about those things
  • Ryna

    2014-11-17T09:03:55.751Z

    I mean yea my bf hes kinda dont care at all abt all things above he officially dont care lol but ya know guys can be sarcastic they make fun of women insecurities sooooo i think its cool for us to always take care of ourself not for just for him to realize for us to us to feel good.
  • Splashhhh

    2014-11-16T04:23:27.708Z

    Oooo they do trust me , there might b ones that dont
  • Julia479

    2014-12-03T07:45:23.775Z

    Lucky me! As my husband didn't notice most of these except when i wear heavy make up. Guys prefer less make up
  • Andra

    2014-11-16T04:36:36.380Z

    @Splashhhh, the ones that DO think or care about those things don't deserve any woman's time or attention.
  • gaby

    2014-11-17T02:01:00.579Z

    Shaving your legs. When i don't do it i feel inscure but guys never notice this. I still shave to feel good on my own skin though.
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