There are some things you can't change about men and you just have to deal with. If you are with a guy that you think that you can change, you might want to check out my top 7 things you can't change about men! That way, you'll know whether or not you are wasting your time with the guy! So ladies, let's explore some things you can't change about men!
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1. White Lies
Ladies, these little white lies that he tells you are one of the few things you can't change about men. These are typically harmless little lies and when you find out that he lied, you likely aren't even mad about it. Everyone lies sometimes, so don't try to change his habits!
2. Looking at Other Women
Just because your man looks at other women doesn't mean that he's not interested in you. In fact, he's probably comparing other women to how beautiful you are! This is absolutely one of the things you can't change about men. It just happens, just like you look at other men sometimes!
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3. How He Cleans
My BFF is a perfect example of this. I could let him clean the apartment and then, two seconds later, I have to go back over it and clean it all back up. The way a guy cleans is just the way a guy cleans, you really can't change it, but you can teach him good habits!
4. Style
So this one is actually a little debatable. Some guys just have a certain style that they like and that is one of the things you can't change about him, but some guys are open to change. If you don't like his style, why not talk to him about it? It could be just that he doesn't know he's not stylish!
5. Sports
My dad is a huge fan of all sports. It just not something that you can change about him. Some guys are huge sports nuts and yanno, they were probably like that when you met them. So this is one you might have to deal with.
6. Avoiding a Fight
Now, I am so the girl that avoids fights all together. I don't really like to get messy and I'd rather it all just fade away. Are you like that? Probably not, but most men are. This is definitely one of the things you can't change about men all of the time. Sometimes you can and sometimes you can get them to fight with you.
7. Attitude to Sex
Finally ladies, your attitude is almost always going to be different than your boyfriend's idea of sex. He probably wants sex all of the time and is ready for it all of the time. You might not be that way. This is one of the things you can't change about men all of the time, but little by little you might be able to get him out of the mood.
Ladies, just because you are with a guy doesn't mean that you constantly have to try to change him. These are just the top 7 things you can't change about men, I know that there are more out there! What are some of the things you can't change about men that you've tried to change?
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Aliza: so true!
Tesa: On the last one mine is the complete opposite. I could go for it 24/7 but my boyfriend doesn't act that interested most of the time. It worries me sometimes. Am i just not sexy enough?
AJ: I think all ladies could benefit from this info. From my male perspective, I know that there's certain things I'm always going to do out of habit. For instance, just because I look at another female doesn't mean I am dissing my current gf. It's just something out of habit.
kb: The last one is wrong! He NEVER wants sex and I do. It's frustrating!
Zoe: Our relationship hasn't been going so well. I've been trying to change a lot about him lately. I thought it was better to break up because wanting to change a person that much is just disrespectful and probably a sign that it's not working out. Things I wanted him to change were getting a driving license (I have one, I don't want to be the only one driving around all the time), go back to University and stop slacking, get more confidence and stop being so inactive and scared of the big bad world. I probably sound like a super bitch... but it's just so hard. He said he could change, but doing it in such a forceful way is probably not ok. We are still together now. I think I need to either find ways to learn to accept or just break it off...
Karen: My husband told me right @ the beginning of our relationship that he is a work-a-holic, generous to a fault (money is far less important than the feeling he gets helping others),he plays hard & works hard, & he loves working with computers (upgrading & fixing them). He has never sugar coated his quirks &, because he warned me first before we got too far in the relationship, I had nothing to complain about when I became a "sports widow" during the summer every year. he picked up lawnbowling about 5 - 6 years ago so I had to join just so I could spend a little more time with him. lol
shikha: Heather u r awesome <3
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