7 Types of Male Opinions That Shouldnt Matter to You ...

How Hairy You Should Be • How Your Hair Should Look • How Heavy You Should Be • How Sweet You Should Be • How Prudish You Should Be • More ...

7 Types of Male Opinions That Shouldnt Matter to You ...
By Holly • Apr 3, 2026 MD

It's natural to do little things to try to impress your crush. However, you shouldn't let men control the way you live your life. It's important to do whatever makes you happy, not what you believe will make a man happy. To prove it, here are a few types of male opinions that shouldn't matter to you:

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1. How Hairy You Should Be

There's no law that requires you to shave your underarms or your bikini area. If you don't want to put a razor to your skin, then you don't have to. Most men don't shave any areas below the neck, which means they don't understand how frustrating and time consuming hair removal can be. That's why you shouldn't let them tell you where and when to shave.

2. How Your Hair Should Look

You've probably heard that men only like women with long hair. Even though that's a total lie, it shouldn't make a difference what men think, anyway. If you like the way short hair looks on you, or want to cut it to keep it out of your face, then go for it. Don't worry about what guys are going to say.

3. How Heavy You Should Be

Don't lose weight in order to please a man. If you want to exercise, you should do so for your own well being. You wouldn't tell your boyfriend that he's too thick or thin, so why should you allow your boyfriend to say the same cruel things to you? Your weight is none of his business.

4. How Sweet You Should Be

Some men are stuck in the past and expect women to cater to their beck and call. They think they should behave like a "lady," which means they shouldn't curse or complain or argue. When a woman takes charge and tells them what to do, they'll call her a "bitch." Don't take those words to heart, because some men just aren't comfortable with a woman taking the reigns.

If you're looking to engage your partner in intriguing conversations, why not try some hypothetical questions for couples? These fun queries will not only keep the conversation lively but also stimulate deep thoughts and potentially reveal insights about each other's personality and thought processes.

5. How Prudish You Should Be

Don't let a man tell you how many people you should sleep with before you settle down. Remember what was said in The Breakfast Club: "If you say you haven't, you're a prude. If you say you have you're a slut. It's a trap." There's no way you can win, so you might as well do what makes you the happiest.

6. What You Should Wear

You don't have to stick to wearing styles you know your crush likes. You should wear what you want to wear. Besides, guys can be hypocritical. They love when women wear skimpy dresses and heels, but then they'll call her slutty. That's why you should wear what you're comfortable wearing, whether that means jeans or a tight skirt.

7. What Job You Should Have

Some old-fashioned men believe that a woman's place is in the kitchen, which we all know is ridiculous. Don't let a man tell you that you should be at home raising the kids, that you should know how to cook, or that you should do all of the housework. It's the twenty-first century, after all.

The only opinion that should matter to you is your own. Has a man ever tried to convince you to do any of these things his way?

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  • Sussh

    2015-10-10T11:07:42.645Z

    Exactly !
  • beotchcityxox

    2016-12-13T14:53:53.634Z

    For wearing what you want, it should be at a level of where you feel confident and also respect yourself because people will treat you how you treat yourself. If you don't respect your body, than others won't
  • Antonia

    2015-10-10T10:19:16.968Z

    Zoe and Alfie 💞
  • Mello

    2015-10-10T21:18:47.878Z

    True true 💃🏻
  • Kim

    2015-10-10T20:26:26.200Z

    Other girls can point these out too.
  • fifinuella

    2015-10-11T08:02:17.929Z

    very true... most guys feel it's the girlfriend's duty to cook their meal...For christ sakes we aren't married... why do guys put so much pressure on this?
  • Jennapher

    2015-10-10T17:46:31.636Z

    Nailed it, Holly! Any one or combination of these traits in a guy should be a warning to just say NO, and move on!
  • peony

    2015-10-12T19:18:45.919Z

    Women have unrealistic expectations too
  • Christine

    2015-10-10T21:26:51.900Z

    Zalfieee 😍
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