Nice guys don't actually finish last. Of course, there are some "nice" behaviors we'd prefer for our boyfriends to drop. According to Men's Health, we hate when men do the following things:
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1. Buying You Jewelry
Some men think that any jewelry will do. Of course, that's far from the truth. Unless he buys you something in a color you like, or something that's personalized, receiving jewelry isn't all that thoughtful. We want our men to give us gifts that come from the heart.
2. Trying to Fix Your Problems
When you complain to your man about your friends, you just want him to listen. You don't actually want him to sit down with your friends and put them in their place. He can't fix everything.
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3. Lavishing You with Gifts
It's sweet when he surprises you with your favorite candy bar. However, it's a little off-putting when he buys you a fancy gift every weekend. You don't want him to buy your love. You want him to earn it.
4. Jumping in the Shower without an Invitation
It's sexy to shower together. Of course, you won't always be in the mood for it. That's why you won't be happy if your man jumps into the shower with you without your permission.
5. Checking in on You
It's nice to get a phone call and realize that he's thinking about you. It's not as nice to get ten calls in ten minutes, because he's worried that you're cheating on him.
Do you hate when men do this, or do you actually enjoy it?
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Serene: I actually love these things. To be honest my boyfriend doesn't even do them and I really wish he would
st_cruz: @melissa Not if you're in the middle of shaving
Morgan: The only one i like is the checking in. Long distance is hard so i want ti hear from him all the time
Jeni: The only ones I hate are the shower hopping (that's my time alone as a mom), and the phone calls! I can't go shopping without a call every hour asking if everything is ok, how long I'm going to be and when will I be home. It's annoying!
Priti: I dont hate these things.. Even i love them 😉
Amy: number 2 is so true! I just want him to listen, I don't need advice
Hasnae: I actually love it when my husband does these things
LaDonna: I enjoy all of them too
Shanece_m: What's so bad about these?!?!?
Ashleexo: Personally I enjoy these things. I think it's very cute and thoughtful. Obviously in moderation of course.
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