Are you looking for ways to make your relationship more meaningful? Being in a relationship can be very hard these days. There are multiple distractions which often mislead us and make us forget the meaningful people or things in our lives. To be honest, I would rather be on my phone 24/7 doing nothing really meaningful like checking Snapchat and Instagram than have an actual conversation with people.
In a relationship, it’s very easy to lose the vibe you have for each other. There’s work, lack of communication, distance, other guys trying to get your attention unless you are married, which is still very possible. That's why you need these ways to make your relationship more meaningful.
1. Know What You Want
It is very important to know if this is truly what you want, every other thing I would be saying would be meaningless unless you do. You have to know if you are truly into him and you are willing to make this work. This is 2018, you don’t have to be with anyone out of pity, sympathy or whatever thing it is. If it is not love, it’s not worth it. You need to leave to be with someone you really love. And that's one of the best ways to make your relationship more meaningful.
I know you have probably heard people go on and on about how important communication is in a relationship, but people don’t go deep into what kind of communication is most important. You don’t have to be your partner’s best friend. However, you need to talk about deep things, like how you feel, how much you love each other, how you feel about marriage, how good the sex is.
You can’t feel awkward about these things if this is possibly the person you end up getting married to. If you have been in a bad place and you’re trying to work things out, you could ask if he’s willing to do the same and his opinions on how you could get better.
3. Be Open to New Things
If there are some things that could make your relationship better that you haven’t been doing, you could try them. One of those things could be sexting or sex texting. I love sexting with my boyfriend, please do not try this if you are not open to it, because then it just looks forced.
Men love it when their partner is adventurous. When I first started dating my boyfriend we didn’t do that but I decided to spice things up a bit and the response I got was amazing. We got closer and our relationship became even more interesting. I know for sure, he’s more into me because there’s something different everyday.
4. More Time Together
Create a balance between how much time you spend together and how much time you spend apart. You can’t be there all the time and you can't not be there all the time. You missing him or him missing you is a great way to get even more attached. It makes you realize how much you love and want to be with each other.
In addition, spend less time on your phones when you’re together. Spend more time talking, cooking together, playing games, kissing or whatever you two do to have fun.