7 Ways to Stop Obsessing over Your Ex after a Breakup ...

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Considering how easy it is to stalk someone online these days, breakups have become even harder! Guest contributor Kevin Thompson shares his tips on how you can stop obsessing over your ex after a breakup.

Even though it is easy to remove your ex from your life, it’s not so easy to remove him from your thoughts. If you just broke up and you can’t seem to stop obsessing over your ex, then these tips will definitely help you stop the obsession.

1. Cut Him off

Out of sight, out of mind. As long as you keep seeing him and keep talking to him, you are not going to stop thinking about him. Go cold turkey. Remove him from all your social media. Stop calling him. Stop texting him. If he contacts you, ignore him. And don’t try to bump into him at his favorite coffee shop (‘cause that’s not fooling anybody).

Give Him the "I Need Space" Talk

Comments:

hind emh
@Barb im in the same situation here its crazy!!
Brooke
Sometimes I think it's not that you want him back or you're obsessed it's just that need to feel wanted. I find that I do that especially after a breakup going to the same places so that he can see me...
Neecey Beresford
@Cindy, Yes - why is that a problem?
Cindy
It takes time to heal, but i hear to repeat bad habits and things that put u off and annoyed you of your ex helps get you over him, so just remind yourself of those irritating views he had , lok
Cindy
Is this article not written by a guy?? Lol called Kevin ?
Pea Lim
Hi
Barb
Why why do we do that ? I didn't even like him that much when we were together yet now it's like a power play. I want him but he is ignoring me
Neecey Beresford
@Emily, Thank you - it's been changed.
Emily
shouldn't the title be ....stop obsessing....'???
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