7 Ways to Thrive in Your Marriage if You're Married to Your opposite ...


Do you ever wonder how to navigate the day to day if you're married to your opposite? Sometimes it can be hard and quite challenging when you butt heads with your lovable spouse on a daily basis because both of you couldn't be more opposite. They say opposites attract and I'm finding this absolutely true for more and more couples! What inspired me to write this article actually is the fact that my husband and I couldn't be more different. So, if you're like me and are married to your opposite, or perhaps you're dating someone with a much different personality than you, then keep reading! Hopefully these tips will help.

1. Realize You Complement Each Other

A good thought to always keep in mind if you're married to your opposite is that you and your spouse complement each other. Where one is weak, the other is strong. I was once told of the image of two hands interlacing- that's how a marriage should look, each person fills in the gaps of the other, making the perfect complement.

Marrying Yourself is Just Boring


@Kanchan couldn't have agreed with you any more. It's kind of hard to figure out what to do with such similarities and differences
I couldn't have loved this article any more. Well said about everything! 😍
i'm not married (yet!) but my boyfriend of 5 years has been majorly hinting that he wants to marry me after college. we are opposites. I talk A LOT and he just a listener. he is self contained and i w...
I appreciate that this article is directed towards what we as women can do, in a healthy way, to APPRECIATE our men. Thanks!
My husband and I are complete opposite or may be too much alike in anger, we both annoy each other. We share a very love hate kinda relationship. So idk hw will get this to work?
I completely disagree that marrying somebody a lot like yourself is boring. I know many couples who divorced because they were opposite and always fighting. Whatever works for you might not work for s...
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