If “I love you” are the three most important words in a relationship, “we need to talk” are probably the four most dreaded. As soon as you hear them or see them in a message, your mind goes into overdrive. You spend the time between hearing them and the actual conversation biting your nails, chewing your lip, totally preoccupied by what “we need to talk” about. Here are some of the thoughts that will go through your head.
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1. Dumped
Well, that’s it. He must have finally had enough of me, I’m definitely about to get dumped. I can feel it in my waters!
I think it's because it almost always sounds like bad news, right? It's the uncertainty and the fear that something's wrong. Our minds just go into overdrive, imagining the worst possible scenarios.
Not necessarily. It could be anything from wanting to share some news or even discussing plans. Of course, it’s natural to feel anxious, but it's best to stay calm and hear him out.
Stay calm and breathe. Approach it with an open mind and try not to assume the worst. It helps to remind yourself that communication is key in any relationship – it could be an important conversation that helps you both grow.
I totally get it, that's scary. But remember, honesty is crucial in a relationship. Look at it as a chance to address any issues head-on and figure out a solution together, even if it’s tough.
Absolutely! It’s a two-way street. If you feel there’s something important that needs addressing, don't hesitate to have that conversation. It's all about being open and honest with each other.
2. Maybe Not
Actually, why the hell would he dump me? I’m the best goddamn thing that’s ever happened to him! How dare he even consider it!
I think it's because it almost always sounds like bad news, right? It's the uncertainty and the fear that something's wrong. Our minds just go into overdrive, imagining the worst possible scenarios.
Not necessarily. It could be anything from wanting to share some news or even discussing plans. Of course, it’s natural to feel anxious, but it's best to stay calm and hear him out.
Stay calm and breathe. Approach it with an open mind and try not to assume the worst. It helps to remind yourself that communication is key in any relationship – it could be an important conversation that helps you both grow.
I totally get it, that's scary. But remember, honesty is crucial in a relationship. Look at it as a chance to address any issues head-on and figure out a solution together, even if it’s tough.
Absolutely! It’s a two-way street. If you feel there’s something important that needs addressing, don't hesitate to have that conversation. It's all about being open and honest with each other.
3. Out of His League
Like, he has even said a million times that I am out of his league and he is lucky to have me, so why would he ruin all of that by breaking up with me now?
I think it's because it almost always sounds like bad news, right? It's the uncertainty and the fear that something's wrong. Our minds just go into overdrive, imagining the worst possible scenarios.
Not necessarily. It could be anything from wanting to share some news or even discussing plans. Of course, it’s natural to feel anxious, but it's best to stay calm and hear him out.
Stay calm and breathe. Approach it with an open mind and try not to assume the worst. It helps to remind yourself that communication is key in any relationship – it could be an important conversation that helps you both grow.
I totally get it, that's scary. But remember, honesty is crucial in a relationship. Look at it as a chance to address any issues head-on and figure out a solution together, even if it’s tough.
Absolutely! It’s a two-way street. If you feel there’s something important that needs addressing, don't hesitate to have that conversation. It's all about being open and honest with each other.
4. Future Visions
Oh my god. Laura’s boyfriend dumped her six months ago and now she is 20 pounds heavier and rarely leaves the house. Is that going to be me?
I think it's because it almost always sounds like bad news, right? It's the uncertainty and the fear that something's wrong. Our minds just go into overdrive, imagining the worst possible scenarios.
Not necessarily. It could be anything from wanting to share some news or even discussing plans. Of course, it’s natural to feel anxious, but it's best to stay calm and hear him out.
Stay calm and breathe. Approach it with an open mind and try not to assume the worst. It helps to remind yourself that communication is key in any relationship – it could be an important conversation that helps you both grow.
I totally get it, that's scary. But remember, honesty is crucial in a relationship. Look at it as a chance to address any issues head-on and figure out a solution together, even if it’s tough.
Absolutely! It’s a two-way street. If you feel there’s something important that needs addressing, don't hesitate to have that conversation. It's all about being open and honest with each other.
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5. My Fault?
What have I done wrong? Did I do something to hurt his feelings? I don’t remember upsetting him in any way!
I think it's because it almost always sounds like bad news, right? It's the uncertainty and the fear that something's wrong. Our minds just go into overdrive, imagining the worst possible scenarios.
Not necessarily. It could be anything from wanting to share some news or even discussing plans. Of course, it’s natural to feel anxious, but it's best to stay calm and hear him out.
Stay calm and breathe. Approach it with an open mind and try not to assume the worst. It helps to remind yourself that communication is key in any relationship – it could be an important conversation that helps you both grow.
I totally get it, that's scary. But remember, honesty is crucial in a relationship. Look at it as a chance to address any issues head-on and figure out a solution together, even if it’s tough.
Absolutely! It’s a two-way street. If you feel there’s something important that needs addressing, don't hesitate to have that conversation. It's all about being open and honest with each other.
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6. Facebook
Uh oh, maybe he saw those pictures of me from Spring Break ’09 and wants a few explanations about some of the more risqué photos that were taken!
I think it's because it almost always sounds like bad news, right? It's the uncertainty and the fear that something's wrong. Our minds just go into overdrive, imagining the worst possible scenarios.
Not necessarily. It could be anything from wanting to share some news or even discussing plans. Of course, it’s natural to feel anxious, but it's best to stay calm and hear him out.
Stay calm and breathe. Approach it with an open mind and try not to assume the worst. It helps to remind yourself that communication is key in any relationship – it could be an important conversation that helps you both grow.
I totally get it, that's scary. But remember, honesty is crucial in a relationship. Look at it as a chance to address any issues head-on and figure out a solution together, even if it’s tough.
Absolutely! It’s a two-way street. If you feel there’s something important that needs addressing, don't hesitate to have that conversation. It's all about being open and honest with each other.
7. Ex Conversations
Or maybe he came across some wall posts that were shared between me and my ex a while back. We were just being friendly and civil; nothing to get worried about!
I think it's because it almost always sounds like bad news, right? It's the uncertainty and the fear that something's wrong. Our minds just go into overdrive, imagining the worst possible scenarios.
Not necessarily. It could be anything from wanting to share some news or even discussing plans. Of course, it’s natural to feel anxious, but it's best to stay calm and hear him out.
Stay calm and breathe. Approach it with an open mind and try not to assume the worst. It helps to remind yourself that communication is key in any relationship – it could be an important conversation that helps you both grow.
I totally get it, that's scary. But remember, honesty is crucial in a relationship. Look at it as a chance to address any issues head-on and figure out a solution together, even if it’s tough.
Absolutely! It’s a two-way street. If you feel there’s something important that needs addressing, don't hesitate to have that conversation. It's all about being open and honest with each other.
8. Deleted
I knew I should have deleted and blocked my ex from Facebook. Nothing good was ever going to come of getting back in touch with him!
I think it's because it almost always sounds like bad news, right? It's the uncertainty and the fear that something's wrong. Our minds just go into overdrive, imagining the worst possible scenarios.
Not necessarily. It could be anything from wanting to share some news or even discussing plans. Of course, it’s natural to feel anxious, but it's best to stay calm and hear him out.
Stay calm and breathe. Approach it with an open mind and try not to assume the worst. It helps to remind yourself that communication is key in any relationship – it could be an important conversation that helps you both grow.
I totally get it, that's scary. But remember, honesty is crucial in a relationship. Look at it as a chance to address any issues head-on and figure out a solution together, even if it’s tough.
Absolutely! It’s a two-way street. If you feel there’s something important that needs addressing, don't hesitate to have that conversation. It's all about being open and honest with each other.
9. Sex Thing
Oh, wait, is it a sex thing? Does he want to talk about maybe spicing things up in the bedroom department?
I think it's because it almost always sounds like bad news, right? It's the uncertainty and the fear that something's wrong. Our minds just go into overdrive, imagining the worst possible scenarios.
Not necessarily. It could be anything from wanting to share some news or even discussing plans. Of course, it’s natural to feel anxious, but it's best to stay calm and hear him out.
Stay calm and breathe. Approach it with an open mind and try not to assume the worst. It helps to remind yourself that communication is key in any relationship – it could be an important conversation that helps you both grow.
I totally get it, that's scary. But remember, honesty is crucial in a relationship. Look at it as a chance to address any issues head-on and figure out a solution together, even if it’s tough.
Absolutely! It’s a two-way street. If you feel there’s something important that needs addressing, don't hesitate to have that conversation. It's all about being open and honest with each other.
10. Adventurous
Does he think I’m not that adventurous then? I’m totally down to be adventurous; he has just never brought it up before!
I think it's because it almost always sounds like bad news, right? It's the uncertainty and the fear that something's wrong. Our minds just go into overdrive, imagining the worst possible scenarios.
Not necessarily. It could be anything from wanting to share some news or even discussing plans. Of course, it’s natural to feel anxious, but it's best to stay calm and hear him out.
Stay calm and breathe. Approach it with an open mind and try not to assume the worst. It helps to remind yourself that communication is key in any relationship – it could be an important conversation that helps you both grow.
I totally get it, that's scary. But remember, honesty is crucial in a relationship. Look at it as a chance to address any issues head-on and figure out a solution together, even if it’s tough.
Absolutely! It’s a two-way street. If you feel there’s something important that needs addressing, don't hesitate to have that conversation. It's all about being open and honest with each other.
11. Handcuffs
I mean, we used handcuffs that one time, what more does he want? Some weird 50 Shades of Grey action!?
I think it's because it almost always sounds like bad news, right? It's the uncertainty and the fear that something's wrong. Our minds just go into overdrive, imagining the worst possible scenarios.
Not necessarily. It could be anything from wanting to share some news or even discussing plans. Of course, it’s natural to feel anxious, but it's best to stay calm and hear him out.
Stay calm and breathe. Approach it with an open mind and try not to assume the worst. It helps to remind yourself that communication is key in any relationship – it could be an important conversation that helps you both grow.
I totally get it, that's scary. But remember, honesty is crucial in a relationship. Look at it as a chance to address any issues head-on and figure out a solution together, even if it’s tough.
Absolutely! It’s a two-way street. If you feel there’s something important that needs addressing, don't hesitate to have that conversation. It's all about being open and honest with each other.
12. Someone else
Oh my god, is there someone else? Has he met someone else and wants to tell me about it?
I think it's because it almost always sounds like bad news, right? It's the uncertainty and the fear that something's wrong. Our minds just go into overdrive, imagining the worst possible scenarios.
Not necessarily. It could be anything from wanting to share some news or even discussing plans. Of course, it’s natural to feel anxious, but it's best to stay calm and hear him out.
Stay calm and breathe. Approach it with an open mind and try not to assume the worst. It helps to remind yourself that communication is key in any relationship – it could be an important conversation that helps you both grow.
I totally get it, that's scary. But remember, honesty is crucial in a relationship. Look at it as a chance to address any issues head-on and figure out a solution together, even if it’s tough.
Absolutely! It’s a two-way street. If you feel there’s something important that needs addressing, don't hesitate to have that conversation. It's all about being open and honest with each other.
13. Is It Her?
It better not be that girl on Instagram who I have seen him liking photos of. She’s not even prettier than me!
I think it's because it almost always sounds like bad news, right? It's the uncertainty and the fear that something's wrong. Our minds just go into overdrive, imagining the worst possible scenarios.
Not necessarily. It could be anything from wanting to share some news or even discussing plans. Of course, it’s natural to feel anxious, but it's best to stay calm and hear him out.
Stay calm and breathe. Approach it with an open mind and try not to assume the worst. It helps to remind yourself that communication is key in any relationship – it could be an important conversation that helps you both grow.
I totally get it, that's scary. But remember, honesty is crucial in a relationship. Look at it as a chance to address any issues head-on and figure out a solution together, even if it’s tough.
Absolutely! It’s a two-way street. If you feel there’s something important that needs addressing, don't hesitate to have that conversation. It's all about being open and honest with each other.
14. Status Change
Oh no, I can’t bear the thought of having to change my Facebook status to single and get all those messages from people who love gossip!
I think it's because it almost always sounds like bad news, right? It's the uncertainty and the fear that something's wrong. Our minds just go into overdrive, imagining the worst possible scenarios.
Not necessarily. It could be anything from wanting to share some news or even discussing plans. Of course, it’s natural to feel anxious, but it's best to stay calm and hear him out.
Stay calm and breathe. Approach it with an open mind and try not to assume the worst. It helps to remind yourself that communication is key in any relationship – it could be an important conversation that helps you both grow.
I totally get it, that's scary. But remember, honesty is crucial in a relationship. Look at it as a chance to address any issues head-on and figure out a solution together, even if it’s tough.
Absolutely! It’s a two-way street. If you feel there’s something important that needs addressing, don't hesitate to have that conversation. It's all about being open and honest with each other.
15. Something Good
Wait, could it be something good? It might be something good! HE MIGHT ASK ME TO MARRY HIM!
I think it's because it almost always sounds like bad news, right? It's the uncertainty and the fear that something's wrong. Our minds just go into overdrive, imagining the worst possible scenarios.
Not necessarily. It could be anything from wanting to share some news or even discussing plans. Of course, it’s natural to feel anxious, but it's best to stay calm and hear him out.
Stay calm and breathe. Approach it with an open mind and try not to assume the worst. It helps to remind yourself that communication is key in any relationship – it could be an important conversation that helps you both grow.
I totally get it, that's scary. But remember, honesty is crucial in a relationship. Look at it as a chance to address any issues head-on and figure out a solution together, even if it’s tough.
Absolutely! It’s a two-way street. If you feel there’s something important that needs addressing, don't hesitate to have that conversation. It's all about being open and honest with each other.
16. Whoa
But whoa, wait, what if he does propose? Am I ready for that? Is that something I want right now?
I think it's because it almost always sounds like bad news, right? It's the uncertainty and the fear that something's wrong. Our minds just go into overdrive, imagining the worst possible scenarios.
Not necessarily. It could be anything from wanting to share some news or even discussing plans. Of course, it’s natural to feel anxious, but it's best to stay calm and hear him out.
Stay calm and breathe. Approach it with an open mind and try not to assume the worst. It helps to remind yourself that communication is key in any relationship – it could be an important conversation that helps you both grow.
I totally get it, that's scary. But remember, honesty is crucial in a relationship. Look at it as a chance to address any issues head-on and figure out a solution together, even if it’s tough.
Absolutely! It’s a two-way street. If you feel there’s something important that needs addressing, don't hesitate to have that conversation. It's all about being open and honest with each other.
17. Deluded
Come on, who I am I kidding? I am dumped; I am so totally dumped it’s not even funny.
I think it's because it almost always sounds like bad news, right? It's the uncertainty and the fear that something's wrong. Our minds just go into overdrive, imagining the worst possible scenarios.
Not necessarily. It could be anything from wanting to share some news or even discussing plans. Of course, it’s natural to feel anxious, but it's best to stay calm and hear him out.
Stay calm and breathe. Approach it with an open mind and try not to assume the worst. It helps to remind yourself that communication is key in any relationship – it could be an important conversation that helps you both grow.
I totally get it, that's scary. But remember, honesty is crucial in a relationship. Look at it as a chance to address any issues head-on and figure out a solution together, even if it’s tough.
Absolutely! It’s a two-way street. If you feel there’s something important that needs addressing, don't hesitate to have that conversation. It's all about being open and honest with each other.
18. Killer
I’m going to make sure that I look absolutely amazing when we meet up. That way he’ll be so distracted by my beauty that he’ll forget what he was going to say.
I think it's because it almost always sounds like bad news, right? It's the uncertainty and the fear that something's wrong. Our minds just go into overdrive, imagining the worst possible scenarios.
Not necessarily. It could be anything from wanting to share some news or even discussing plans. Of course, it’s natural to feel anxious, but it's best to stay calm and hear him out.
Stay calm and breathe. Approach it with an open mind and try not to assume the worst. It helps to remind yourself that communication is key in any relationship – it could be an important conversation that helps you both grow.
I totally get it, that's scary. But remember, honesty is crucial in a relationship. Look at it as a chance to address any issues head-on and figure out a solution together, even if it’s tough.
Absolutely! It’s a two-way street. If you feel there’s something important that needs addressing, don't hesitate to have that conversation. It's all about being open and honest with each other.
19. Here We Go
Okay, here we go, let’s get this over with!
I think it's because it almost always sounds like bad news, right? It's the uncertainty and the fear that something's wrong. Our minds just go into overdrive, imagining the worst possible scenarios.
Not necessarily. It could be anything from wanting to share some news or even discussing plans. Of course, it’s natural to feel anxious, but it's best to stay calm and hear him out.
Stay calm and breathe. Approach it with an open mind and try not to assume the worst. It helps to remind yourself that communication is key in any relationship – it could be an important conversation that helps you both grow.
I totally get it, that's scary. But remember, honesty is crucial in a relationship. Look at it as a chance to address any issues head-on and figure out a solution together, even if it’s tough.
Absolutely! It’s a two-way street. If you feel there’s something important that needs addressing, don't hesitate to have that conversation. It's all about being open and honest with each other.
20. Boyfriend
“Hey babe, I wanted to asked you ... do you think I should get my hair cut a little bit shorter?”
I think it's because it almost always sounds like bad news, right? It's the uncertainty and the fear that something's wrong. Our minds just go into overdrive, imagining the worst possible scenarios.
Not necessarily. It could be anything from wanting to share some news or even discussing plans. Of course, it’s natural to feel anxious, but it's best to stay calm and hear him out.
Stay calm and breathe. Approach it with an open mind and try not to assume the worst. It helps to remind yourself that communication is key in any relationship – it could be an important conversation that helps you both grow.
I totally get it, that's scary. But remember, honesty is crucial in a relationship. Look at it as a chance to address any issues head-on and figure out a solution together, even if it’s tough.
Absolutely! It’s a two-way street. If you feel there’s something important that needs addressing, don't hesitate to have that conversation. It's all about being open and honest with each other.
21. You
Are….you….actually….kidding….ME!!!!??
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