By Heather • •
The idea is that you get into a relationship because you like or love the person you're with and you want to be in one. That's not true for everybody, though. Sometimes, people end up in relationships just because they don't want to be alone. Sometimes, they force themselves into one even though it's not right. Sometimes, things seem really great at first, but then they start to realize that they're not really happy at all. The point is, there are lots of reasons why someone might discover that they don't dig their new relationship. These are some of the biggest warning signs.
Not one single thing – in fact, some days you'd be happy if you never had to talk to you partner again.
There will probably come a point where everything your boyfriend/girlfriend says irritates, angers, or annoys you.
You'll do anything to avoid spending time together, even if it means going shopping for shoes with your mom or going to the gym when you absolutely hate the gym.
You want to spend your free time with people who interest you, and more often than not, that ends up being your friends, not your boo.
He/she could be cheating on you or running away to Alaska for all you care.
Because, again, you just don't have anything to talk about, and at least arguments break up the monotony.
To be honest, there's a book you'd rather be reading.
You'll make any excuse, even if it involves acting like your period just lasted for a full month.
You just don't care to learn anything new because nothing is even impressing you anymore.
Likewise, it just doesn't seem worth the time to reveal anything new about yourself.
You don't care what your partner's doing, after all, and you'd rather have fun and be free for a little while.
Anytime you're in the same space, everything just feels heavy, oppressive, and negative.
You're not comfortable in your own skin, and you may even feel bad about yourself.
You can't even remember what it was like to feel happy with the person you're dating.
Not only that, but you've noticed that there are more things to complain about than there are things to be happy about.
The way he breathes, the way she chews, his habit of leaving his dirty clothes all over the floor, her tendency to leave soda cans everywhere...
You're not just harmlessly looking anymore. Now it's a struggle to resist flirting with or chatting up other people.
'Fess up, girls. Did you ever find yourself in a relationship that you just hated?
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