I'm here to tell you why you’ve never been in love according to your zodiac sign. The dating game can be a hard one to play, and if you have have been on a particularly unlucky streak of late, then it can be really disheartening. Going out on a new first date is never going to be the best place to find love right off the bat, but if you don’t think you have ever really been in love before, then it is kind of impossible to know where to start! If you think you might be in the mood for some astrological intervention, then you have come to the right place. Here is why you’ve never been in love according to your zodiac sign.
You think that being in love and being independent have to be mutually exclusive things, so until now, you have always treasured your independence above the possibility of falling for someone.
You need balance in your life, so in the past, you have pulled away from serious relationships because you had a fear that your partner wasn’t as interested as you were at the time.
You like the thrill of meeting someone new, but as soon as it is time to start peeling the layers and getting deeper, you have the tendency to close yourself off and become a little cold.
Gemini's dual nature can make you a master communicator and a great flirt, which draws people into your orbit with ease. However, when things start to demand a deeper emotional connection, you may find yourself at a crossroads. Your air element has endowed you with an unquenchable curiosity that often makes you move on quickly, in search of new experiences and ideas. This constant quest for novelty can inadvertently prevent you from experiencing a profound and lasting love, as you struggle to sit still long enough to build the foundations of a deeper relationship.
You tend to like dating guys who don’t know how to make their feelings clear to you. You always take this as a sign that they aren’t interested and move on, but that isn’t necessarily the case.
You are a naturally stubborn creature, which means that you find it hard to finally admit that someone has managed to get a hold of you and make you fall for them. You don’t like being out of control.
You are way too overcritical of yourself, so you have a hard time believing that somebody could love you for who you are. This can have a detrimental effect on relationships because you always bounce too soon.
As a Virgo, your meticulous nature extends to your perception of love. You scrutinize each potential suitor with such detail that you might miss the forest for the trees. Overthinking each interaction, you read into things that aren't there, convincing yourself that they can't possibly be interested in the real you. Learn to let go of these self-deprecating thoughts and understand that being loved for your authentic self is not just a possibility but a reality waiting to unfold once you ease up on the self-judgment.
You are addicted to the thrill and excitement of lust, and there is a part of you that is scared that if you find ‘the one’ and settle down, that that thrill will disappear.
You are a naturally slow paced person, and you have a problem with thinking that a traditional loving relationship needs to progress at a really fast rate, so you tend to stay away from them.
You are too optimistic when it comes to relationships. You ignore all of the little red flags in the early stages, trying really hard to make it work before you realise that you don’t love them at all and that they are actually kind of bad for you.
You are a light-hearted person but also someone who doesn’t easily trust, and that can be a major stumbling block in falling in love with someone. Complete and utter trust is a necessity.
You have this notion that keeping things loose and relaxed in a relationship is the way to go, but what that is doing is actually preventing you from being able to finally make that deeper, more meaningful connection with a person.
You tend to be a bit too idealistic, which leads to high expectations. Sometimes your expectations are so high that you are setting yourself up for disappointment from the very start.