When you’re in a relationship or good friends with your crush, it can be easy to look past the signs that he loves spending time with you. We tend to jump to the worst case scenario. We worry that even though we’re having a good time, the person that we’re with is miserable. If you’re paranoid, here are signs that he loves spending time with you:
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1. Makes the Effort
If he voluntarily tries to make plans with you, he wants to see you. He wouldn’t ask you to hang out if he wants nothing to do with you. One of the signs that he loves spending time with you is that he asks you to hang out, or clears his schedule when you ask him to hang out. Chances are that he leads a busy life. If he finds the time to be with you, he cares.
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When a man is genuinely interested in you, he will go the extra mile to make sure he spends quality time with you. He’ll make an effort to plan out dates, or take you out for a night on the town. He’ll take the time to listen to you and ask questions about your life and interests. He’ll be willing to go out of his way to make sure you’re happy and comfortable.
He’ll also make sure that you get to spend time together often. He’ll be excited to see you and will be disappointed if plans don’t work out. He’ll make sure he’s available when you need him and will be willing to drop what he’s doing to be with you.
When a man loves spending time with you, he’ll also make sure that he’s present in the moment. He’ll be focused on you and will be genuinely interested in what you have to say. He won’t be distracted by his phone or other people. He’ll make sure that he’s giving you his full attention.
2. Says so
If he says that he enjoys hanging out with you, take him for his word. Why would he lie? It takes a lot for someone to admit that they care about another person. If he says that he misses you when you’re not around, don’t doubt him.
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When someone tells you that they enjoy spending time with you, it can be difficult to know if they are being honest or if they are just trying to be polite. However, if someone expresses that they enjoy spending time with you, it is likely that they actually mean it.
When someone expresses that they enjoy spending time with you, it means that they value your presence and enjoy your company. It could mean that they appreciate the conversations you have, and the moments of laughter and fun that you share together. It could also mean that they appreciate your input and advice, and that they value your opinion.
If someone expresses that they miss you when you’re not around, it’s another sign that they enjoy spending time with you. Missing someone means that they have grown accustomed to having you around and that they look forward to spending time with you. It’s an indication that you are important to them and that they appreciate your presence.
Frequently asked questions
Typical signs include him making an effort to see you often, being genuinely interested in your life, smiling and laughing a lot when he's with you, and suggesting plans for future outings together.
Notice his body language and behavior. If he's relaxed, attentive, and engaging with you during your time together, these are good indicators that he's happy.
If he seeks alone time with you, it suggests he values your company and wants to build a closer connection without the distraction of others.
He will invest his time in you, remember small details about your interactions, and make plans for the future that include you, indicating he's serious about your relationship.
Yes, if he chooses to spend a lot of his free time with you over other activities or people, it's a strong sign that you're a priority and he has strong feelings for you.
3. Involved with Friends
If he asks you to meet his friends, he wants to show you off. You wouldn’t invite someone you dislike to meet your best pals, would you? If he wants you to meet his buddies, he thinks that you’ll all have a good time together. A group gathering is a great sign that he loves having you around.
4. Keeps in Contact
When you haven’t seen him for a few days, he texts or calls you. He doesn’t like being apart from you, so he finds a way to contact you. This means that he likes having you in his life. If he didn’t want you around, it would be easy for him to push his phone aside. However, he’s contacting you, because he can’t stand spending his days without you.
5. Lots of Laughter
If the time you spend together is full of laughter, he obviously enjoys hanging out with you. Some people like long, deep conversations and others prefer moments of silence. However, there’s not one person who doesn’t like laughter. If you never run out of things to joke about, he’ll never get tired of being around you.
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When someone loves spending time with you, it’s usually quite evident. They’ll be eager to make plans, and won’t be easily deterred by obstacles that get in the way. They’ll also be excited to see you, and will put in extra effort to make sure you have a good time. One of the clearest signs that someone loves spending time with you is if the time you spend together is filled with lots of laughter.
Laughter is a universal sign of joy and comfort. People who are relaxed and comfortable in each other’s presence will naturally find things to joke and laugh about. If you’re always able to find something to laugh about when you’re together, it’s a clear sign that he enjoys spending time with you.
When someone loves spending time with you, they’ll also be more likely to open up to you. They’ll be willing to share their thoughts and feelings, even if they’re not sure how you’ll react. They’ll also be more likely to share their hopes and dreams, and will be excited to hear your thoughts and opinions on them.
6. Brags about You
He could easily keep your time spent together a secret. So if he tells all of his friends about your outing, it must’ve gone well. No one brags about their horrible night. If he’s always mentioning you in conversations to his friends, he likes you. He’s more than happy to spend as much time with you as possible.
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It’s always a great sign when a guy brags about you to his friends. When a guy talks about you to his friends, it shows that he is proud to be spending time with you and that he is happy to share his experiences with you. He may even go out of his way to introduce you to his friends, or make sure you get to meet them.
Another sign that a guy loves spending time with you is when he is always willing to make plans with you. He will make sure that he is available to spend time with you, no matter how busy he is. He will also make sure that he is free to do the things that you want to do. He will make sure that he has the time and energy to be with you and make sure that you are having a good time.
When a guy loves spending time with you, he will also be very open and honest with you. He will be willing to share his thoughts and feelings with you, and he will be open to discussing any issues that come up between the two of you. He will also be willing to talk about his own interests and hobbies, and he will be interested in learning more about yours.
7. Never Cancels
Once in a while, it’s okay for him to cancel on you. Things are bound to come up that he won’t be able to escape. However, if he typically never cancels your plans, he’s excited to see you. There are hundreds of excuses he could use for avoiding you. If he doesn’t use them, he wants to see you as much as you want to see him.
It’s natural to worry about not being wanted, but chances are that your crush loves being around you. Is there a guy in your life that you absolutely love spending time with? Is he your boyfriend or just a close pal?
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If your crush never cancels your plans or makes excuses to avoid seeing you, it’s a clear sign that he loves spending time with you. He could be using any number of excuses to get out of seeing you, but if he never does, it’s a sure sign that he’s excited to see you.
This kind of consistent behavior is a good indicator that he really values your relationship. He could be your boyfriend, or just a close friend, but either way, it’s a sign that he cares about you and enjoys your company.
It’s normal to worry about not being wanted, but if your crush never cancels your plans, that’s a good sign that he’s interested in spending time with you. He could also be sending you subtle messages that he likes you more than just a friend. He might be sending you compliments, asking you out for coffee, or sending you text messages throughout the day.
Comments
Jeannie: But hes always asking me to do his stuff. Never what i want. Every night he gets beer goes in the man cave and watches ghe same dumb movies over and over. No i will not
Dilnoz:
Dawna: That's my boyfriend :-)
Mariza: That's clearly someone I started a relationship in November 2013 you're lost in love
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