Dump Your BF if He Has These Personality Traits ...

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Sometimes you’re with a man that doesn’t treat you as well as he should.

This is a hard place to be.

I understand because I’ve been there.

I’ve was once with someone who had several of these personality traits but I can now tell you that a healthy relationship doesn’t have any of these issues.

Dump your boyfriend if he has any of these traits, pronto!

1. He’s Controlling

Healthy relationships are ones where neither party tries to control the other.

If your boyfriend is controlling, that’s not a good thing.

He should never try to control who you talk to or how long you’re away somewhere.

He may have a dominant personality and enjoy taking the initiative in making plans for the two of you and that’s different.

But true love gives freedom to make your own choices.

2. He’s Violent when He’s Angry

My heart hurts thinking about some of you that may be with a man like this.

If you’re with a man that’s violent when he’s angry then you need to get away now.

This stands even if he’s never been violent toward you.

His temper could quickly turn.

A man that’s violent when angry has anger management issues and that’s a red flag telling you there's potential for abuse.

3. He’s Outlandishly Flirtatious

You have to be careful here not to mistake friendliness for flirtatiousness.

What you don’t want to see is your boyfriend is all over other women in front of you.

He seems to undress other women with his eyes.

He makes inappropriate comments such as telling another woman he’d love to take her out in front of you.

This sort of outlandish flirting should have you dumping him STAT.

4. He Stays Lost in Self-Pity

We all have days where we feel sorry for ourselves.

Life can get you down.

But if you’re dating a man that’s stuck in self-pity and sees himself as always being the victim, no matter the situation, that’s not a good thing.2

Each of us needs to be able to take responsibility in our lives.

A guy with a victim mentality doesn’t have a bright future.

He’s Self-Centered
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