You might wonder whether your boyfriend thinks you're the one. It can be hard to know in the early stages, but little signs here and there can help you discern his true feelings. Here's a look at seven signs that he thinks you're the one.
1. He Lights up when You Come around
If you walk into a room and your boyfriend takes a double look and starts smiling from ear to ear, there's a good chance he feels you're the one who's going to be around for a long time. Of course, this can also happen in the very early stages of the relationship. But if you’ve been together for a while and he still lights up whenever you walk into a room, he's totally smitten by you.
2. He Says You're His Best Friend
If he says you’re his best friend and he doesn't know what he’ll do without you, he's in the relationship for the long haul. It takes some guys longer to admit that a girlfriend is closer to them than a guy friend. If he’s telling you how he feels, as well as his friends and relatives, that’s a good sign that you’re the one and the relationship will continue to grow.
3. He Includes You in Future Plans
One way to know if a guy considers you a keeper is whether you’re included in his future plans. If he's making plans to move for a job or thinking about going away to college, yet he doesn't take your feelings into consideration, he's not thinking long-term. But if he discusses his plans with you and reflects on how the decision will affect the relationship, he likely views the relationship as more than a fling.
4. He Calls and Texts More than You
Girls tend to be more emotional than guys, so some girlfriends may feel as if they text or call their boyfriends more. But if a guy is completely head over heels for you, he may text or call out the blue just to see how you're doing and hear your voice.
5. He’s Eager to Introduce You to Friends and Family
A guy who isn’t thinking about the future isn't going to rush and introduce you to his friends or family. But if he has upcoming family events, such as a birthday party, an anniversary party or another celebration, and he's ready to show you off to his family and make it official, his eyes are only on you.
6. He Never Keeps You Waiting
A guy who isn't into you may keep you waiting. If you call him and need assistance, he may come when he's good and ready, and only when it's convenient for him. On the other hand, if you're the one, the guy will drop everything to come to your assistance.
7. He Tells You How He Feels
If the guy you're dating never says he loves you after several months, or he never expresses any type of emotion or shows how he feels about you, there's a good chance he's not that into you. He might be waiting for something better to come along.
There's no need to waste time with a guy who feels the relationship isn’t going nowhere. If you've been together for a while and he hasn't made it clear how he feels, it might be time to count your losses and find someone you deserve. What are other signs that he thinks you're the one?