If you have that special somebody you’ve been trying really hard to get close to, relax and try these very easy tips to attract a man you like. I’ve picked out the simplest little tasks that will go a long way, just by igniting that initial spark. Rest assured that these have been proven by leading psychologists and scientists, and are not like any other tips you have already heard from your girlfriends. Here we go ladies, 15 easy psychologically proven tips to attract a man you like.
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1. Lean Forward
Body language is a very important element that shapes the way he sees you. You probably are familiar with the idea that if you are standing up tall and carrying yourself in a confident manner, he will see exactly that in you. But what you may not know is that there are specific body languages that will signal to him that you are interested in him and attracted to him. Lean forward and show that you are interested in him. Face your body towards him and give him your undivided attention. This is the most basic of tips to attract a man you like.
2. Pair Eye Contact with Your Best Smile
Yes, you’ve heard many, many times that eye contact is very important when it comes to increasing the attraction level. But Pair that with a smile and you’ll get double the effect. A University of Missouri study proved this through a psychological experiment. A woman sitting in a bar who had only eye contact with men had the men approach her 20% of the time, while the same conditions were repeated with a smile. The eye contact and smile combination increased the success rate to 60%. This proves that what you need more than makeup or hours spent on your hair is probably your best smile.
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Yes, you’ve heard many, many times that eye contact is very important when it comes to increasing the attraction level. But pair that with a smile and you’ll get double the effect. A University of Missouri study proved this through a psychological experiment. A woman sitting in a bar who had only eye contact with men had the men approach her 20% of the time, while the same conditions were repeated with a smile. The eye contact and smile combination increased the success rate to 60%. This proves that what you need more than makeup or hours spent on your hair is probably your best smile.
Frequently asked questions
Oh, the first tip is all about confidence! Men love a woman who knows her worth and exudes confidence. It's magnetic and irresistible.
Absolutely! Little things like eye contact, smiling, and even mirroring his body language work wonders. It's like sending subconscious signals that you're interested.
One way is through small gestures like remembering his favorite things, showing genuine interest in his hobbies, or even touching his arm lightly during conversations. These subtle actions can create a deeper bond.
Yes, definitely! Asking open-ended questions, actively listening, and occasionally offering a compliment can make conversations more engaging and meaningful. He'll start to see you as someone who genuinely cares.
While these tips can certainly help, there's no magic formula. It's still important to be yourself and find someone who appreciates you for who you are. These tips are just little nudges to make the connection easier.
3. Use Lighting
Use lighting to look more attractive. What? Don’t turn on me just yet ladies, it’s not what you think! You won’t have to do anything, or at least, not consciously. Dimly lit places dilate your eye pupils, the black centers of your eyes that automatically open and close with change in lighting. Studies show that men rated women in pictures more attractive when their eyes were dilated in the picture than when they weren’t. If you are going out on that romantic date, choose a place with dim lighting to appear even more attractive!
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Light is a powerful tool, and just the right amount can cast a spellbinding effect. Ever wonder why candlelit dinners feel so enchanting? It's that soft, warm glow that cloaks you in an aura of mystery and allure. Not only do dilated pupils draw others in, they signify interest and openness. Everything feels more intimate, flattering, and yes, seductive. So when the opportunity arises, opt for environments where the lighting is subtle and inviting. It's not just about setting the mood; it's about accentuating your own natural beauty and charm.
4. Mirror His Actions
There is a study that mimicking someone’s gestures can increase that person’s interest in you. Mirroring is a natural phenomenon that happens between lovers and friends alike, but purposely mirroring someone can have a subconscious effect. This doesn’t mean you should copy every thing he does, but maybe it’s worth a try crossing your arms when he does, or sipping your drink when he does.
5. Walk to His Left
Your Left side is linked to your right brain, which deals with things like emotions and beauty, while the left brain is attributed to logic and reasoning. It is said that walking to his left and talking in his left ear can appeal more to the right side of the brain. This means he may be more emotionally stimulated when you speak. Research from Sam Houston State University found that emotional words, especially, are likely to get through to him more readily when it’s heard from his left ear.
6. Take Advantage of Perfume
Perfume is a great way to not only smell wonderful but also stay unforgettable. Make your signature scent by spritzing that favorite perfume of yours daily. When he smells that fragrance somewhere else, he will be reminded of you.
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When selecting a perfume, consider choosing a fragrance that complements your natural scent and resonates with your personality. This blend of notes will create an aura that is uniquely you, leaving a lasting impression. Additionally, applying perfume to pulse points like your wrists, neck, and behind your ears can enhance its longevity. You can even lightly mist your hair and clothing for a subtle, lingering effect. Ultimately, your chosen perfume becomes an invisible part of you, subtly captivating him each time with its familiar, tantalizing scent.
7. Meet on a Bright and Sunny Day
Nice, warm weather stimulates your body to produce endorphins, making you feel happy. Meeting on a sunny day will help him attribute that happiness to you and to hanging out with you! This also means that both of you might enjoy your time together more, because you’ll both be in a better mood than usual. If you are choosing day for your date, double-check the weather before you decide. Go ahead and pick the day with some sun over those that are cloudy or rainy.
8. Wear Red
It's been proven time and time again that men love women in red! While wearing red might not make him love your personality, it's sure to catch his eye and draw him toward you across a crowded room. Red dress and red lips are sure to mesmerize your man-of-interest—it's biologically and psychologically proven!
9. Giggle
Constant giggling can get annoying, but appropriately laughing at his jokes can encourage a guy to begin falling for you. No one likes telling a joke and being answered with silence, especially guys on a date or in the midst of flirting! If you want to keep the conversation going and attract him even more, make sure you giggle whenever you can.
10. Kick It up an Octave
Your voice isn't exactly something you can control, but you can slightly alter it when necessary. Men are naturally attracted to women with lilting, high-pitched voices. These voices are more feminine and musical. So, if you usually speak in a more sultry tone, raise your voice a few pitches to sound sweet and girly when you're talking to the man you wish to attract.
11. Don't Walk, Strut
The world is your runway. Walking with swagger is empowering, but also a great tool for wordless flirting. If you sway your hips when you walk, men become more likely to notice you. When you step, extend your legs a little bit farther and add a swing to your hips to create a subtly gorgeous strut.
12. Tone Those... Arms?
Guys are notorious for being attracted to tall women, and we all assumed it was because of long legs. But a recent study has revealed that men are actually psychologically attracted to women with sexy arms. (The better to embrace him with, my dear!)
Source: newsfeed.time.com
13. Start on the inside
Throughout history, the female sex has been glamorized and glorified to be viewed as clean, angelic, and delicate. Therefore, men like women who live up to these expectations by having gorgeous, glowing skin. To obtain glowing skin, you need to start from the inside. Drink lots of water, increase your daily veggie and fruit intake, and take vitamins. Then, you'll have glowing skin in no time!
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Throughout history, the female sex has been glamorized and glorified to be viewed as clean, angelic, and delicate. Therefore, men like women who live up to these expectations by having gorgeous, glowing skin. To obtain glowing skin, you need to start from the inside. Drink lots of water, increase your daily veggie and fruit intake, and take vitamins. Then, you'll have glowing skin in no time! In addition to a balanced diet, incorporating regular exercise and ensuring adequate sleep can further enhance your skin's radiance. Healthy lifestyle choices will reflect on your skin, making you feel more confident and attractive.
14. Be Interesting
Sure, all of these things can get a guy to come talk to you and maybe even earn you a few dates, but what really attracts a guy beneath the surface is your mind. Men are people, just like you and me, who crave intellectual stimulation as well as sexual arousal that your appearances give him. To attract a guy, you should try to know a little bit about a lot of topics, such as history, science, current events. etc. so that you can hold an interesting conversation. If you attract a guy using only your appearance, he probably isn't the kind of guy you actually want to attract.
15. Touch
A gentle touch can make your guy feel instantly more comfortable with flirting and even asking you out. A casual touch attracts a guy, and if he reciprocates that's a sign that he might be interested!
You don’t have to feel guilty as if you’re manipulating him—these are no magic spells you’re casting. Rather, it’s simply using your special knowledge to your advantage and knowing how to do it! I hope you enjoyed these tips! Do you have any of your own tricks up your sleeve that you’d like to share with the rest of us? Let us in on your secret! (Don’t worry, no need for any psychological proof!)
Comments
Mickala: So I have a scenario in dire need of opinions!! So I'm on my high school swim team, and the guy I like is on it too. He's SUPER shy and doesn't really talk to anyone much, but when the team went out for dinner, he passed in front of my car as we were all leaving to go to the restaurant and he made a cute face at me, which made me laugh. When we all got to the restaurant, I asked him why he was looking at me, and he said "oh, I was just trying to make you smile." Does this sound like a potential crush? If so, please help me!!
Nicole: HELP. I've been talking to this guy named Tim.. He's a couple years older than me and I really like him.. He goes to my youth group, he plays guitar, he sings, he has an extremely nice body and I feel like he's totally out of my league I'm usually the one to txt him first but every time he sees me in school there's not a time where he won't shout my name and say hi. Which I always get the hopeless butterflies.. At lunch he'll usually stop and sit on the outside bench and sit where me and my friend do and I've noted that his body is completely turned towards me. But a while back when I asked him if he liked me (over txt) he said he didn't like anyone. And I've complimented him quite a bit but he never compliments me.. I really like this guy.. We haven't talked for a couple days and I haven't txted him but I really need so guidance please help.
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Anne-Laurie: My brother says this stuff doesn't work...
Amanda: Definitely loved these tips! Will try my best to keep this is mind on my next date.
Allie: these were so interesting! I'll have to try them :D personally I disagree with the last one. I hate sunny days while rainy weather instantly makes me happy lol
Houniq: My ex dont like my parfume, he hates it a lot, he swears at it. It's armani acqua di gioia. I still think its funny how he really hates it.
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