If These Things Come Naturally, You've Found the Right Guy ...


You're bound to date quite a few losers before you end up with the love of your life.

It's rare to Mr.

Right right away, so don't give up hope if you're still looking for the one for you.

Once you meet him, you'll know it.


Well, if the following things come naturally, it's guaranteed that you've found the right guy:

1. Being Yourself

When you meet an attractive guy, it's easy to pretend to be what you think he wants instead of actually being yourself.

However, when you find the right man, you'll feel so comfortable talking to him that you won't even think about acting any differently than you usually do.

You'll be yourself from the get go.

That means that your entire friendship and relationship with him will be completely genuine.

No lies required.



... #3 is being yourself ...
... grrr, holds ...
... #2 is also important ... I remember the first kiss from the one and she still haold a place in my heart although the relationship fell apart long ago... the recording from Ambrosia, "How Much I Feel" still comes to mind although I am not married ...
... #1 is so important ...
... to find your Prince Charming, you have to kiss a few toads ...
I'm sorry but that picture are they denim shorts or denim knickers 😂
@Isabella i agree! you just know when you found the right one for you. :)
Isabella Coles
Karen I wouldn't close the idea of "get to know each other" phase, that should be something that never ends - I think. And plus, what is a date anyway? I think we formalise it too much, I hate calling it dating lol :P could be something as simple as going out for a coffee, having a walk in the park, playing board games at home.. That's what I think ;)
Karen Wiseman
I found that the man who is currently in my life (14 years & counting) doesn't match up with a few of the list but he does meet far more important "items". He didn't appear to have any trouble with my "secrets" nor the facts that I have medical issues & 2 children who both had "dead beat dad's". Having a lot in common helped a lot as well. We both love old movies, we have very similar tastes in music, we both love having dogs in our lives as well as he filled most of the missing "roles" in our lives that were missing in mine & my children's lives. Funny thing is ... we have never been on even one single date. We are both "home bodies" & prefer showing the truth in our day-to-day lives instead of trying to show all of our good points & hiding all of our bad points during the "get to know each other" phase in our lives that would come with dating.
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