Amazing Reasons to Date a Younger Man for Curious Women ...

Amazing Reasons to Date a Younger Man for Curious Women ...
By Neecey • Oct 19, 2020

The age debate never stops. But it appears that women who date younger men seem to get a rougher deal than men who date younger women. They get called cradle snatchers and the objects of their affections get called toy boys. (And yes, the other way round suffers too, with accusations of being a trophy wife or a gold digger.) The human race is way too judgmental. Love happens in mysterious ways! There are plenty of good reasons to date a younger man, in case you are wondering.

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1. Young Guys Are Hotties

Let's face it, most mature men have little more than an abundance of nasal and ear hair to recommend them - great, if you're an anthropologist writing an academic paper on human woolliness but not so great when you're looking for a handsome beau to light up your love life. Young guys are hot, fit and a lot less inclined to bore you rigid with their "life experience" monologues. If you ever needed valid reasons to date a younger man, think "nasal hair"!

2. You Stay in Control

Young hotties are also fine with you being at the controls of your relation-ship cockpit. In fact, it's because they appreciate a woman who knows her own mind that they're with you in the first place. You call the shots; how's that for a cougar treat?

3. Aretha Said It: RESPECT

Most mature men regard themselves as alpha-dog in all of their relationships; they want to provide and protect at best, dominate, bully and boss around at worst. Young men admire your talents, self-determination and pay you respect rather than want to put you down just because you've dared to show independence of mind. Soul diva Aretha Franklin stated it loud and clear: R.E.S.P.E.C.T. is what you want.

4. Less Romantic Baggage

Since young men come with far less romantic baggage, he'll be able to devote his attention and time to you, instead of ex-wives and kids or custody battles over pets.

If you're looking to engage your partner in intriguing conversations, why not try some hypothetical questions for couples? These fun queries will not only keep the conversation lively but also stimulate deep thoughts and potentially reveal insights about each other's personality and thought processes.

5. Boundless Energy Bundle

Having a young guy by your side who's energetic, sporty and enthusiastic about life will rub off on you and make you happier, more productive and the experience more fun. Allow him to take you clubbing, even if you haven't the foggiest idea what type of music's playing - open up your mind to a new life and new experiences.

6. Not Afraid of Change

Instead of going out with a man who's predictable and set in his ways, you'll be able to embrace life to the full and try out new things. Helicopter rides over the Grand Canyon, parachuting in Patagonia or making a hot and steamy video in your bedroom - younger guys will be far less afraid of change than mature guys and you'll get more fun out of life.

7. Full of Dreams and Aspirations

Who wants to stare skepticism, pessimism and faded aspirations in the face over the breakfast table? Young men are still full of dreams for the future, have career and relationship aspirations and a positive outlook that will inspire you, not depress you.

8. Rewind, Restart, but Don't Repeat Relationship Mistakes

His infectious energy and enthusiasm will help you to rewind to an earlier "you," the girl you were before chauvinist partners cowed you and turned you into a cynic. Allow the "girl with a spring in her step" to re-emerge without being dragged down by romantic baggage. Rewind, restart but don't repeat relationship mistakes.

9. Great Pillow Talk

Among the many reasons to date a younger man has to be that his boundless energy will translate into great escapades in bed. Pillow talk afterwards will also be more fun - he's relishing your greater experience in matters of sex and will be an eager student, listening not only to your advice but also trying to live up to your expectations.

Of course, this isn’t saying don’t date an older man or one close you your age. I just wanted you to feel that it’s perfectly acceptable to consider dating a younger man (just like it’s perfectly ok to consider dating a much older man). Don’t let prejudice thwart the path of love!

I once dated a 16-year-old when I was 22. Although, I did think he was 18 ... but that’s a story for another day! ^_^

Have you dated a younger man? What was your experience? Good or bad?

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  • shannon

    2015-08-22T09:57:17.581Z

    I don't care what is socially " acceptable " I care about my happiness society doesn't pay my bills , take care of daughter so anyone's opinion besides his and mine doesn't factor into our happiness.
  • Sharon

    2015-08-21T21:09:20.218Z

    Hey guess what! Your "younger guy" won't be young forever. And all of these depend on what you are looking for. If you just want to have fun, who cares. If you want something serious, looks will not be everything as referenced in #1.
  • Alexxis

    2015-08-22T03:37:40.065Z

    Nine years is a big age gap when you're young
  • Zeekiah

    2015-08-22T12:25:48.612Z

    Most of younger men are immature.
  • Roberta

    2015-08-21T19:38:59.798Z

    Ok I see what "Peony Blue" is talking about. 10 years is not bad but yes 25 years - you would have to explain everything that you would use as a reference to them. They would probably not have been born for most of them. LOL
  • Tamara

    2015-08-24T02:06:56.398Z

    I've been dating my man for over 2 & a half years. I'm 41 and he's 31. Sometimes I feel like he's older, which is fine. We complement each other well. I'm older, yet funny, happy and optimistic. He's younger but can be pretty serious. He keeps me grounded when I need it and I help loosen him up when he's Mr. Serious. I'll admit, the sex is great too. I'm in my prime and he's young enough and energetic enough to keep up.
  • The

    2015-08-23T08:11:36.795Z

    Date older men if u r into more mature and responsible men. I am dating a guy nine years older then me and sometimes he is like u r younger u don't have much experience. But after a year he accepted the fact that I am younger then him and stopped treating me like I was younger and everything is normal now. We have fun together becuz when he is with me we usually show our playful immature side. If u really love someone u r playful and immature with them u show them ur playful side that only they can bring out in u. The cutest couples r the ones who r immature and playful with each other.
  • Thelma62913

    2015-08-23T05:35:30.929Z

    Bad. Bad. Bad. Bad. Bad experience for me.
  • Jasmine

    2015-08-21T20:38:21.790Z

    Lately, I have been dating younger men. I look to date men who are older than me, but it seems as if the younger men have been around more. I do agree the energy is great; whether it's partying, sex, spending time together watching a movie, and other activities. Some of their maturity levels are not good enough for me, but some of their maturity levels have been decent. Right now I'm 25 and dating/getting to know a guy who is 20. It sucks that he can't do things that are 21 and up, but he turns 21 next year. The guy I dated before him just turned 21, but his communication skills when it came to our relationship disagreements were horrible. He also rushed into the relationship too quickly. I've been wanting to date older guys and have had experience with the younger ones, but I'm still not sure. I try to not judge a possibly good guy based on his age. But maturity mentally and behaviorally matter to me. He also has to be physically attractive.
  • sara

    2015-08-22T11:45:30.710Z

    When I was 18 going on 19, I dated a 16 year old. He was mature for his age however, I had to accept that we weren't on the same page in life and that it just couldn't work out (at the moment). I was in college and had to focus on establishing myself. We lasted about 6 months and I genuinely loved him but I had to consider the long run. Now, 8 years later, I'm still on a different page but he's grown up and if there was opportunity to date him, I think I would.
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