10 Greatest 🙌 Reasons You Shouldn't ❌ Be Afraid 😱 to Make the First ☝️ Move 👫 ...

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There are so many reasons you shouldn't be afraid to make the first move. Guys love a girl who goes after what she wants and he'll be flattered that you want him. Most girls are a little nervous to put themselves out there like that, but you'll be so glad you did.

So if you're wondering if you should approach a man first, here are 10 reasons why you shouldn't be afraid to make the first move.

1. You Have Nothing to Lose and Everything to Gain

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If he is into you he will engage in conversation with you. If he’s not into you he will probably just say "hi" and continue talking to his buddies. One of the best reasons you shouldn't be afraid to make the first move is that everything could work out in your favor.

2. He Might Turn out to Be Thelove of Your Life. Taking a Chance Could Be the Best Decision You Ever Made

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Maybe you will marry him and live happily ever after together. It’s an opportunity you don’t want to miss. He could just be the one or a short-term, incredible romantic fling!

3. True Love is Hard to Find. Don’t Allow the Fear of Rejection to Scare You Away

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You don’t have to make a huge gesture. A simple hello and a smile is enough to let him know you are interested. Subtle clues are always classy! You don’t want to come on too strong, unless you just want to send the message that you want to have a fun one night stand.

4. He Might Turn out to Be One of Your Best Friends, if Not a Romantic Partner or Your Future Husband

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You might end up having zero interest in him romantically, but a simple hello could lead to a friendship that will last a lifetime. A great friendship is always worth it!

5. Men Are Relieved when You Make the First Move. It Takes the Pressure off Them, and They Will Really Appreciate You for Approaching Them First

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In a modern society like ours, women have more rights, so why not be the first? A determined woman who knows what she wants is incredibly hot!

6. We Only Live Once, so Take down Your Hair and Just Go for It

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Imagine if we spent our entire life not taking the first step toward finding a new job, a new home, or a new friendship. We would have missed out on so many incredible opportunities. Don’t let him go if you feel he is right for you!

7. It Can Feel Liberating when You Make the First Move

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As women, we often wait for men to approach us first, for men to say I love you first, for men to make the move in the bedroom first, and for men to ask us to marry them first. Why? Is it because society demands this? Don’t wait around for society to tell you what to do and how to do it. Do what feels right to you! Although we live in a modern world, women all over the world are still not treated equally. Instead of fearing the opportunity to initiate a conversation with a man, be proud of the fact that you can approach a man first if you’d like to! Women from other cultures would probably love the chance to approach a guy they like.

8. When You Make the First Move, It Shows You Are a Confident Woman, Which is Incredibly Sexy

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There is nothing more attractive than a person who is confident. When you make the first move, make it classy and you cannot go wrong! You will be perceived as confident and intelligent.

9. When You Approach a Man, You Don’t Have to Wait for What Could Be Hours and Hours

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Some men have no problem approaching women, because they are hunters. The other half most likely feel nervous for fear of rejection and could take a long time to go up to you in a bar or other social setting.

10. Being Proactive about Your Life and Making Things Happen is Never a Bad Thing

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A go-getter attitude gets more accomplished than one who just sits around waiting for something to happen. Even if you are old-fashioned and believe the man should always initiate everything first, from the first meeting to your marriage proposal, who says a girl shouldn’t have a little fun and do something out of her norm?

You might feel a little nervous about making the first move, but you will feel relieved once you have. By making the first move, you are letting him know that you are available and open to conversation. Now go get him tiger!

Comments:

Kranti Kanade
Thanks Waleska. I appreciate your input.
Waleska Gabriella Latorre
#I would just speak to the person first to get a better sense of where you two are. You can decide to ask the person out or not after talking a few times.
Kranti Kanade
I want to ask for an advice. If a girl likes a colleague at work. She is unsure about wether it's just an attraction or real thing. She is in two minds about his feelings for her. Her issue is if she ...
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