10 Tips for Smart Women ๐Ÿค“ Who Need Help โ“ Finding Love ๐Ÿ’˜ ...

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Some men find smart women intimidating.

Sad, but true.

This can make even the smartest woman feel insecure in the field of love.

Does it mean you will only find love with a smart man?

No!

Intellectual equality doesnโ€™t have to be a major factor in your relationship.

If you can find someone who loves you but also stimulates you, makes you laugh, protects you and admires you, and you reciprocate, smarts wonโ€™t get in the way of that.

Hereโ€™s how to put your brain power to work to find love.

1. Donโ€™t Be Afraid to Be Yourself

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Many women, even smart women, make the mistake of pretending to be what they think is their crushโ€™s ideal instead of letting them see the real elements of their personality.

This is detrimental in two ways: the first being that you are suppressing your true self and sacrificing your authenticity for the hope of love;

and the second being that even if you do make a connection with a person, the connection is based on falsehoods.2

You will only find your true love by being nothing but yourself.

2. You Need to Know Exactly What You Want

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It can be completely exhausting to throw yourself in to the world of dating, so make it easier in yourself by having a mental checklist of exactly what you are looking for in a partner.

This will help you to filter out all of the dead wood at an early stage before you commit to much to the wrong guy!

Itโ€™s not called being fussy;

itโ€™s called having high standards.

3. Know That You Donโ€™t Need a Man to Function

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Of course, it is wonderful to have a partner to share your life with, but in order to be relaxed and attract more possibilities, you need to see that having a man is not what defines you as a person.2

The less desperate you are about settling down with someone, the easier and more naturally love will eventually come to you.

Just like the song says, you canโ€™t hurry love!

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