7 Crucial Things You Need to Sacrifice when You Find True Love ...

By Holly

Finding the love of your life is a spectacular thing. However, if you want your relationship to last, there are some key things that you need to give up. You wont be able to continue to act as an individual, because you need to act as a team. That means you have to put the needs of your relationship before your own needs. Here are some crucial things you need to sacrifice when you find true love:

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1. Privacy

Sure, you're free to hide away in an empty room to enjoy some alone time, but overall you can no longer be a private person. If your boss yells at you, you can't pretend that nothing happened, because your partner will want to hear about your day. If you have money issues, you need to open up to your partner about it, because it concerns them as well. No matter how good you are at keeping secrets, you need to stop doing so once you find the love of your love.

2. Selfishness

When you're single, it's healthy to only think about yourself. That's the best way to get ahead in your job, after all. However, when you're in a serious relationship, you can't be selfish. You need to give your partner as much love as you can and return whatever favors they do for you.

3. Freedom

While you're still free to go out to bars in the middle of the night, it'll be frowned upon by your mate. If you want to keep them happy, you can't go around doing whatever you want without thinking about the consequences. When you're in a relationship, you'll get reprimanded for acting inappropriately.

4. Flirting

It's fun to flirt with your coworkers and hit on men at the grocery stores. However, once you find the love of your life, you need to stop behaving like a single lady. You're taken, and you should act like it. Otherwise, your relationship will be over before you know it.

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5. Independence

You're still free to make your own decisions, but it's best to consult your partner first. If you want to buy a new couch, don't just go out and pick the one you like best. Ask your partner for his opinion. If you want him to be a big part of your life, you have to allow him to help make the big decisions.

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6. Money

You don't need to buy your partner diamond cufflinks for every anniversary. However, when you care about someone, you'll want to shower them with gifts. Maybe you'll spend money on dinner dates. Maybe you'll spend it on annual vacations. Either way, you'll be giving up a large portion of your paycheck for them.

7. Time

You'll still have time to hang out with your friends, but you won't be able to see them as often as you used to. When you're in a relationship, your partner should come first. So if he needs you to attend a business lunch with him, you might have to miss a night of drinking with your friends. It depends on the situation, but occasionally you'll have to choose your man over your mates.

When you find the right man, you won't mind giving up these things. He'll be well worth it. What else do you need to sacrifice once you've finally found true love?

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Its all worth it for the one u really really love

I go out to the bats every weekend. And my other half is ok with it. But it's way better to be in a healthy long term relarionship

I agree with the time thing, but to outright say that your partner comes before your friends is a little too much. For stuff like the example they gave, it makes sense but if your partner wants to spend time with you when you already have plans with your friends, then your friends should come first.

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I agree with the time thing however you shouldn't ditch your friends in the process !!

Most of this would come easy.

I agree @Renuka

When you're in love giving up things that will interfere usually is easy to do. All relationships needs balance without it trouble follows.

I don't thom you give up anything when you find "true love ",you compromise willingly

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