If you are dying for some flirting tips for girls who don't know how to flirt, you don't have to look anywhere else! I had no idea how to flirt when I first started do it and now, with these flirting tips for girls who don't know how to flirt, I am a pro! The key? Practicing before you actually head over to the person you are trying to attract!
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1. Know Your Comfort Zone
When you are first learning how to flirt and learning all about flirting tips for girls who don't know how to flirt, knowing your comfort zone is going to be the most important thing! Your comfort zone should never be pushed and it should be taken pretty seriously. Remember girls, flirting is supposed to be fun!
2. Practice Flirting
Remember the key to flirting that I said? Practice flirting in the mirror or even on people that you're around a lot! They will be able to give you honest feedback and will be able to tell if the flirting is good. Practicing on a guy or girlfriend that you are really close to can really get some ideas flowing about how you can improve your flirting!
3. Straight Posture
This is one of the tips that a lot of women forget about – straight posture! Girls, having great posture can not only make you appear more confident, but it will straighten out your back a bit too! Just put your shoulders back and stand very, very proud! This is another key part!
4. Keep It Airy
When you are flirting, you don't want to give up your entire life story, you just want to keep it all casual. Keep it all light and airy. Don't dive into subjects that are way too deep and just make sure to keep it all superficial in the beginning!
If you're looking to engage your partner in intriguing conversations, why not try some hypothetical questions for couples? These fun queries will not only keep the conversation lively but also stimulate deep thoughts and potentially reveal insights about each other's personality and thought processes.
5. It's All in the Eyes
Oh, the eye contact that you should be having when you are flirting is definitely a huge key. Truthfully, if you don't make eye contact, it can again boil down to the confident and it can -- again -- boil down to how you are perceived. If you are constantly hunched over and keep your eyes down, that isn't someone that a guy or gal wants to flirt with!
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6. Subtle Smile
Soft, small, giddy little smiles are a fantastic way to flirt it up without overdoing it! Just adding in a flash of the pearly whites or even just a close-mouthed smile can make you approachable, make you look more beautiful and make your guy-friend or girl-friend really like you and want to flirt with you!
7. Be Casual
Finally, you know the airy comment? Well, that was in regards to the conversation, this is in regards to the wardrobe! Keep it all casual, especially if you are just heading out to flirt and not get anything else.
8. Choose Easy Targets
When you are out there flirting it up, make sure that you choose easy targets to practice your flirting on! Just pick a few of them and start to chat them up a little and see how they respond. If it is well, you are definitely doing it right!
So girls, now that you know exactly how to flirt, get out there and do it! Did you know how to flirt before reading these tips? Give up some more tips below!
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Tia: Very rusty at flirting, so thanks!!
kyra: Thanks that really helps
coral: This is actually perfect, thankyou :)!
megan: theres this boy i kind of like. he always looks at me and calls my name and he always talks to me first. but my best friend likes him? do you think he likes me?
avery: Light touches, like on the arm or shoulder, is a great way to connect with someone.
Sydni: I'm really not good at flirting :I I never know what to talk about. I do smile a lot though when someone IS flirting with me.
Spnch: Wow guess I'm not the only one having problems in this area. I sort of know when someone flirts with me, I just don't know how to flirt back sometimes, and it gets worse if I really like the other person...
Isabel: Ok so theirs this guy I like and he always clicks his pen so when he left to go talk to his friend I took his pen and started clicking it then he comes from behind me and puts his arm around me like I was his girlfriend and all during class our eyes would meet and he would smile at me so I'd smile back. The next day he didn't talk to me or smile at all.. Help?!
Lettie: Hey so this guy I have a crush on (I'm a freshman by the way) I really like him. Yet he's a junior. A couple of my friends know I like him and by a couple I literally mean two. He's really nice because he always helps me when I need help on homework. I like him a lot but I have no idea what to do to be flirty without making it all too obvious. I see him everyday and I always get a chance to talk to him though sometimes I never take it. Help? Thanks!
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