8 Body Language Ideas to Try on Your Crush ...

By Heather • May 26, 2013 MD

Throughout the years, I've been asked a ton of times what body language ideas you should be getting when you're trying to get your crushes attention. Well, I thought about it and I've finally compiled the top 8 body language ideas that will definitely work to get your crushes attention and really make sure that you are at the top of his or her mind! Take a look and let me know if you've tried any of these ideas!

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1. Lock Eyes Three Times

While you might have locked eyes just once, have you ever locked eyes three different times with your crush? This is one of the many body language ideas that really work! While locking eyes once or twice is good, it's the third time that is the key and the one that will hopefully get them to approach you!

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2. Point with Your Body

Do you know what I mean when I say point with your body? Face him or her, even if you two aren't talking, still pointing your body toward him or her is going to really make approaching easier. Once you turn and face them, you're opening yourself completely up and allowing yourself to be approachable.

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3. Enhanced Posture

Your posture is going to be one of the biggest things to remember whenever you are trying to get your crush to notice you. Stand up straight, push your shoulders back and really push your chest out. This will make you look more attractive and really enhance your entire body.

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4. Fiddle with Your Hair

Whether you have short or long hair, fiddling with your hair can really draw attention to not just your neckline, but it can also be a super flirty gesture. I have medium length hair, cut in an angled bob and I usually just toy with the hair along the back of my neck.

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If you're looking to engage your partner in intriguing conversations, why not try some hypothetical questions for couples? These fun queries will not only keep the conversation lively but also stimulate deep thoughts and potentially reveal insights about each other's personality and thought processes.

5. Mirror

Mirroring your crushes body language is a great way to really get to know them and to flirt with them a little bit! Whether you are talking to them or just trying to get them to notice you can really allow for the two of you to connect! For me, if I see my crush constantly glancing at me, I'll constantly glance right back!

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6. Lean in

When they do finally approach you, now is the time for you to really show your skills and listen to them. Leaning in a great way to show that you are listening and that you are paying attention to them. Who knows, if you lean in enough, they might kiss you!

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7. Fix the Fitting of Your Clothes

Do you have a strap of a shirt that constantly falls down or you have a neckline of a shirt that constantly is too low, play with that, fix the fit a little bit and make it slow and sexual. It'll make your crush think about taking your clothes off instead of putting them on!

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8. Toy with Your Neck/Collarbones

Finally, toying with your neck and your collarbones, whether you have a necklace on or just run your fingers along your throat, it's all about drawing attention to your skin! Truly, this is a great and sneaky trick!

These are just a few of the body language ideas that are out there! Do you have anymore that you've tried? Give 'em up!

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  • Jillian

    2013-05-27T17:47:20.000Z

    If you touch his leg he'll love it because it'll make him think a lot of things
  • futuretraveler

    2013-06-02T07:21:21.000Z

    Hi i have 'dilema'!!! Theres a guy who i dont talk to at school who always stares at me even if i stare back. This has happened for a couple months. I like him but im too shy to talk to him but kinda wondering if hes actually going to talk to me. There only a week left of school and neither of us have facebooks or twitter or anything. What should i do or hunk? Im kind just confused! Thx!!!
  • Stella

    2013-05-27T05:24:04.000Z

    I have heard of locking eyes, but three times sounds really good. Enough to get them to notice you.
  • Nicole

    2013-05-29T04:40:25.000Z

    Help! @HeatherJensen My crush asked me to be his girlfriend, and of course how could I say no?! Anyway, after I said yes he kissed me and it turns out he's a really bad kisser. He's really messy:( Any advice?
  • Beau

    2013-05-26T16:21:38.000Z

    I'm so trying this
  • catt237

    2013-05-26T16:34:57.000Z

    Such a cute article!
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