You don't want to settle for dating any old guy. You need someone who's worth your time. If you're used to having jerks develop crushes on you, here are a few tips that'll help you attract the right kind of guy in the future:
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1. Talk to the Right Guys
If you spend most of your time talking to jerks, then it's no wonder why they're the type that always like you. You need to search for good guys and develop friendships with them if you want your luck to change.
2. Don’t Accept Disrespect
You need to have high standards. The only way you'll get respect is if you make it clear that you won't settle for anything less than that.
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3. Look in the Right Places
You don't want to go to sketchy bars or swipe through Tinder to find a serious boyfriend. You're better off talking to boys in your class or at a concert for your favorite band.
4. Hang out with the Right Friends
If your friends are bad influences, then they'll introduce you to even more bad influences. You need to hang around with the right girls if you want to meet the right guys.
5. Don’t Send Nudes
If you send nudes right away, you might give him the wrong idea. He'll think you're okay with a sexual relationship instead of a serious one.
6. Wear What You’re Comfortable Wearing
Don't wear short skirts and low-cut tops if they make you uncomfortable. You should dress for yourself, not for men.
7. Be Polite
If you're nasty, then you're not going to attract nice men. You have to give respect if you want to get respect.
8. Figure out What the “right” Guy is
Everyone wants a different type of guy. Before you can attract the "right" kind of guy, you have to figure out who the "right" kind of guy is first.
9. Always Smile and Stay Positive
Men love happy women. That's why you should put on a smile and try to see the good in life.
10. Don’t Lie to Impress Anyone
You won't find a boyfriend if you're pretending to be the girl he wants you to be. It's better to be yourself from the start.
11. Put Yourself out There
If you hide away in your house, you'll never find the right guy. You have to put your heart on the line and actually take a chance.
12. Have Strong Morals
If you know you deserve good men, then you'll attract good men.
13. Listen to Your Gut
Sometimes, your gut will tell you something that your brain can't. If a guy makes you uncomfortable, get out of there as soon as you can.
14. Look at for Red Flags
Keep your eyes open. A man might seem like the right kind of guy at first, but it will only be a trick.
15. Don’t Settle for Only Sex
If you make it clear that you're willing to settle for sex, even though you really want a relationship, then you're going to attract men who only like you for your body.
16. Be Confident
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Men respond well to confident women. That's why you should act like you're worthy of his time, because you are!
17. Love Yourself
You've probably heard that you need to love yourself before you can love someone else. That's true!
If you follow these tips, then you should start to attract guys that you deserve. Do you tend to attract jerks?
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Kranti: Like which kind of places?
Krystal: The park, a play, an amusement park or a theater
Tanya: James Franco gif yay!!
Emma: True on a lot of these comments just be you.
Sydney: Had a gut feeling about my best friends boyfriend once and told her. She got mad and we stopped talking. After they'd been dating for over a year, she found out he'd been cheating on her the entire time.
MellyMoi: How can you put yourself out there in order to find a guy ? If you have nothing to do outside and you have to be at home?
Sellena: Go to places where there are other single parents divorced and single men there are lots like that
Kranti: Which are the right place to find the find the right man for a woman who is spending most of her time only doing her duties for her children and her extended family and not able to go out much? Can someone please tell me?
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