Not Getting an Orgasm? Try These Positions ...

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Sex can be one of the best things in the world, but when you aren’t getting it right, it can be the most frustrating thing in the world as well! It’s widely accepted that when a man has all of his business in working order, he can achieve a sexual climax pretty much every time he gets intimate, but the same can’t be said for a woman. We need a little more encouragement and a more expert touch if we want to hit the jackpot every time! Here are some sexual positions that increase the chance of an orgasm.

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1. CAT

This stands for coital adjusted technique, and it essentially involves getting into the missionary position, but instead of getting on with it as usual, the man positions himself much higher up compared to normal. When his head and shoulders are about six inches further up than normal, it means that his penis penetrates you a little bit less but you get the extra sensation of having his hard shaft coming into rhythmic contact with your clitoris.

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The CAT position (Coital Alignment Technique) is a great way to increase pleasure and satisfaction for both partners during intercourse. It can be an especially helpful technique for women who are having difficulty achieving orgasm.

In the CAT position, the man positions himself much higher up compared to the traditional missionary position. Instead of the man's head and shoulders being at the same level as the woman's, his head and shoulders should be about six inches higher. This change in positioning means that the man's penis penetrates the woman a little less, but it also creates a sensation of the man's hard shaft coming into rhythmic contact with the woman's clitoris.

The CAT position can be used in combination with other techniques to increase pleasure for both partners. For example, the woman can move her hips in a circular motion to create extra stimulation. The man can also use his hands to stimulate the woman's clitoris or other erogenous zones.

2. Free as Air

This is when the guy lies down on his back, and the woman faces the other way and lowers herself on this penis. Slowly, work towards leaning back until you are pretty much laying with your back outstretched on his body, and it will give you the amazing feeling of being weightless as he thrusts in and out.

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The position mentioned in the text, Free as Air, is a great way for couples to experience a unique and intimate sensation. This position requires the man to lie on his back, and the woman to face away from him and lower herself onto his penis. The woman should then slowly lean back until she is almost laying on top of him, with her back stretched out. This will give both partners the feeling of being weightless as the man thrusts in and out.

This position can be especially beneficial for women, as it allows them to control the depth and speed of the thrusts, allowing them to reach orgasm more easily. Additionally, because the man is lying down, the woman can use her arms and legs to help support her body weight, which can reduce fatigue and make the experience more enjoyable.

The Free as Air position is also great for couples looking to spice things up in the bedroom. It can be an exciting and unique way to experience the sensation of sex, and can be a great way to add some variety to a couple’s sexual repertoire.

Frequently asked questions

There are many reasons you might not have an orgasm, including stress, lack of connection with your partner, not enough foreplay, medical issues, or not knowing what feels good for you. It's different for everyone, and it's okay to take time to explore what works for you.

Yes, changing positions can help because different positions can stimulate different parts of your body and increase your chance of having an orgasm. Finding a position that feels good for you is key.

Some positions that can help include the missionary position with a pillow under your hips, woman-on-top positions as you can control the movement, and the doggy style position for deeper penetration. Experiment to see what works for you.

Communication is very important. Talk to your partner about what feels good and what doesn't. Guide them, give feedback, and don't be afraid to ask for what you need. Working together can make a big difference.

Yes, other ways include spending more time on foreplay, exploring solo sex to learn about your body, trying different types of touch and pressure, using lubrication if needed, and focusing on relaxation and being in the moment.

3. The Pinner

If you are nervous or anxious about touching your own clitoris during sex, then the pinner position is good for you because it basically involves your man laying on top of you, penetrating from behind as you lay on your stomach. Place your hand underneath you and his own thrusts will do the work in terms of your fingers stimulating your genitals.

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The Pinner is a great sex position for women who are anxious or nervous about touching their own clitoris during sex. This position involves the man laying on top of the woman, penetrating her from behind as she lies on her stomach. The woman can place her hand underneath her and the man’s thrusts will do the work of stimulating her genitals.

This position is great for women who don’t want to be in control of their own pleasure, because the man’s thrusts will do the work for her. It’s also great for women who need a little more clitoral stimulation, as the man’s thrusts will provide just the right amount of pressure.

The Pinner position is also great for couples who want to experience a deeper connection. Since the man is on top of the woman, it creates a close bond between the two that can be incredibly intimate. Plus, the woman can feel the man’s body heat and his breath on her neck, which can be incredibly arousing.

4. Spoons

Being the little spoon in a spooning equation can be great for achieving orgasm, because not only does your man get to penetrate, but he also is in the position to be able to reach around and play with your clitoris at the same time. This kind of double pleasure nearly always does the trick!