Just remind yourself that life goes on , it always makes me feel better for the time being & no matter how many guys you go through if you maintain a decent personality some guy will be there in the end. There's someone for everybody so why stress if you know he's coming right ?

My relationship with my boyfriend used to be perfect. We fit so well together. But after he took a job 12 hours away, and then was fired and had to come home, he's been depressed and taking it out on me. He says he feels like a shell now, that he's numb on the inside. I want to stick by his side and help him through this, but he's causing a lot of arguments and fights in our relationship now and I feel like he doesn't make me happy anymore. Advice ladies? Stick with him through this and see if it works out, or leave him before he makes me miserable too?

Okay here's my situation and I NEED AN ANSWER FOR THIS, it's been racking my mind since forever. I started liking this guy in November 2011, last year in Jan I told him i Liked him, he Said he 'respects me as a friend' anyways then I couldn't bother much as I had my exams , I didn't speak to him until June! when he called me up saying sorry for everything and all that! then we cleared stuff out and we went for a movie on my birthday. We spoke briefly here and there sometimes, bbming and all, then again for a few months we kind of stopped because I found out he liked an other girl, anyways then I danced with him in the 31st of December and this year in the beginning it was all normal like we again spoke here and there, keep in mind I still loved him. Then this august he left to go to USC, university so I knew he wouldn't keep in touch, not with me atleast because he just isn't the type and since he left I haven't even had one proper conversation with him, I fact I started liking another guy but that guy has a girlfriend and now this guy in university is coming back in December for his break, I want to just hook up with him, only first base, and get it done with , he will be my first and I have waited long enough, I don't know what to do because I think he " thinks" that I still like him and if he thinks I still like him he won't hook up with me because he knows I'll fall for him again, what do I do, I really wanna just get It done with, if I do it then the 2 years of shit will be totally worth it and I can finally and properly move in without imagining scenarios about me and him! HELPPPPPPPP

None of these apply to the man I am in love with except for number 3. We can spend hours talking. But I guess that is the hardest part of a young relationship, letting go.

@Colleen, to be honest it seems as though you have gone different ways. your bf shouldnt be making you happy, you shoulf be happy and he adds happiness into your life. I think it would be better for you to leave him or even just have some space away from one another so it gives you both time to think things through on your own.

I've read this just after doing everything described in it but after being with this other new guy, which I really like because he treats me like a princess, I still can't get over the one I once loved. I still even dream about him constantly... Nothing has worked for me.

I am so not ready to be over my crush specially after reading this article.. except 5 it could get potentially messy since we work together.. but he is shy and I dont know how to tell him..

I'm so done with him now! thanx 😉👍

I feel like the only reason I haven't gotten over him yet is because this was the first time I've been dumped by a guy, and I still he him every day.