Don't you hate skating around certain topics when you meet someone new? Well, you shouldn't worry, because your date is probably wondering the same things about you as you're wondering about them. Here are questions everyone secretly wants to ask on a first date, as told by BuzzFeed:
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1. Why Are You Single?
2. Have You Ever Cheated on Someone?
3. What Was Your First Impression of Me?
4. Are You Looking for Something Serious or Casual?
If you're looking to engage your partner in intriguing conversations, why not try some hypothetical questions for couples? These fun queries will not only keep the conversation lively but also stimulate deep thoughts and potentially reveal insights about each other's personality and thought processes.
5. What Have Other People You’ve Dated Complained about the Most?
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6. What’s Your Preferred Method of Birth Control?
7. Are You Going to Kiss Me or Will I Eventually Have to Make the First Move?
8. Why Did You Break up with Your Last Significant Other?
9. Have You Ever Been Arrested?
10. Do You Still Love Any Exes?
11. What Have Other People You’ve Dated Liked the Most about You?
12. How Frequently do You Check Your Ex’s Social Media Accounts?
13. Are You Going to Pay for This Date, or Should I Have My Wallet Ready?
14. Have You Ever Been in Love?
15. Are You Just Going to Sleep with Me and Never Call Me Again?
Which one of these questions are you the most tempted to ask all of your dates?
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Comments
Kris: I totally agree with travelgalxo. Totally disgusting list.
Justhere: #15 I didn't call. Should I have? He put it on Instagram.
Sol1511: My main question is usually where they see themselves on he future or if they want to get married and have a family. Only reason I ask is to avoid wasting time with someone you're not compatible with.
Lunalaft: Oh shit. I would ask like 5 of these questions!! 😂😂😂 This is why I'm single! But hey? I'm not dating you if you've cheated before! #sorrynotsorry
Travelgalxo: I uhh .. Cannot fathom asking any of these on a first date, this list is hilarious ( of course it's what's possibly on our minds but still ) ... Wow hahahah
MeganB: I have asked some of these. I'm pretty straight forward and blunt tho.
Alexxis: 😂 it says secretly ask
virginsoulxx: Number 5 got me like 👀👀👀
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