15 Questions You Secretly Want to Ask on a First Date ...

15 Questions You Secretly Want to Ask on a First Date ...
By Holly • Jan 10, 2023

Don't you hate skating around certain topics when you meet someone new? Well, you shouldn't worry, because your date is probably wondering the same things about you as you're wondering about them. Here are questions everyone secretly wants to ask on a first date, as told by BuzzFeed:

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1. Why Are You Single?

Why Are You Single?

2. Have You Ever Cheated on Someone?

Have You Ever Cheated on Someone?

3. What Was Your First Impression of Me?

What Was Your First Impression of Me?

4. Are You Looking for Something Serious or Casual?

Are You Looking for Something Serious or Casual?

If you're looking to engage your partner in intriguing conversations, why not try some hypothetical questions for couples? These fun queries will not only keep the conversation lively but also stimulate deep thoughts and potentially reveal insights about each other's personality and thought processes.

5. What Have Other People You’ve Dated Complained about the Most?

What Have Other People You’ve Dated Complained about the Most?

6. What’s Your Preferred Method of Birth Control?

What’s Your Preferred Method of Birth Control?

7. Are You Going to Kiss Me or Will I Eventually Have to Make the First Move?

Are You Going to Kiss Me or Will I Eventually Have to Make the First Move?

8. Why Did You Break up with Your Last Significant Other?

Why Did You Break up with Your Last Significant Other?

9. Have You Ever Been Arrested?

Have You Ever Been Arrested?

10. Do You Still Love Any Exes?

Do You Still Love Any Exes?

11. What Have Other People You’ve Dated Liked the Most about You?

What Have Other People You’ve Dated Liked the Most about You?

12. How Frequently do You Check Your Ex’s Social Media Accounts?

How Frequently do You Check Your Ex’s Social Media Accounts?

13. Are You Going to Pay for This Date, or Should I Have My Wallet Ready?

Are You Going to Pay for This Date, or Should I Have My Wallet Ready?

14. Have You Ever Been in Love?

Have You Ever Been in Love?

15. Are You Just Going to Sleep with Me and Never Call Me Again?

Are You Just Going to Sleep with Me and Never Call Me Again? Which one of these questions are you the most tempted to ask all of your dates?

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  • Sol1511

    2015-10-14T23:17:02.601Z

    My main question is usually where they see themselves on he future or if they want to get married and have a family. Only reason I ask is to avoid wasting time with someone you're not compatible with.
  • virginsoulxx

    2016-12-17T09:57:59.660Z

    Number 5 got me like 👀👀👀
  • Alexxis

    2015-10-14T13:48:19.150Z

    😂 it says secretly ask
  • Travelgalxo

    2015-10-14T13:23:57.550Z

    I uhh .. Cannot fathom asking any of these on a first date, this list is hilarious ( of course it's what's possibly on our minds but still ) ... Wow hahahah
  • Justhere

    2018-01-16T17:23:02.571Z

    #15 I didn't call. Should I have? He put it on Instagram.
  • MeganB

    2015-10-14T16:28:16.582Z

    I have asked some of these. I'm pretty straight forward and blunt tho.
  • Lunalaft

    2015-10-15T03:11:45.280Z

    Oh shit. I would ask like 5 of these questions!! 😂😂😂 This is why I'm single! But hey? I'm not dating you if you've cheated before! #sorrynotsorry
  • Kris

    2015-10-15T02:26:12.648Z

    I totally agree with travelgalxo. Totally disgusting list.
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