Ahhhhh, massage. It’s one of the most intimate things you can engage in with your partner and it feels amazing whether you’re on the giving or receiving end. Honestly, what can be better than making our partner feel good and relieve some pressure? If you don’t have any experience giving massages, don’t stress! It’s easy to learn and you’ll tailor your moves based on your partner’s unique needs so no prior experience is necessary. If you’re interested in learning some tips and tricks on giving your partner the most passionate massage, keep on reading!
1 Be Patient with Yourself
First and foremost, we know the massage is about your partner but you also check in with yourself and how you feel. If you’ve had a bad day or feel rushed, take a moment to take a few deep breaths and get calm. If we want to give our partner all of our attention and provide a good massage, being distracted or preoccupied with something that happened that day isn’t going to help. Help get yourself in the relaxed mindset first so you exude calmness and confidence when it’s time for the massage.
2 Get Rid of Distractions
Now that you’re in the massage kind of mood, let’s get rid of any and all potential distractions or disturbances. You know what I’m talking about, put your phone on silent and keep it far away, turn off the TV, and make sure you’re not expecting any over for the hour so the two of you can really enjoy your time together. If you have any pets roaming around the house, make sure you have some privacy for the massage!
3 Create a Setting
One of the most important parts of a massage is the environment. You want to create a relaxing and romantic setting that helps put your partner at ease. You don’t have to buy a bunch of things in order to create a setting. All this implies is that you want to ensure your partner’s comfort and yours. So for example, try turning off the lights and lighting candles or dim the lights and play soft music. If your partner doesn’t feel comfortable being in the nude, provide a towel or sheet to cover up. You can also wear a soft robe or undress to make him or her more comfortable, too!
4 Gather Your Supplies
Now that you‘ve got your setting in order, you’ll also want to grab something like a non-sticky body lotion or oil to complement the treatment. Just avoid using something with a really strong fragrance as it can be overpowering and dampen the mood. Go for something with a light or no fragrance or use coconut oil if your partner doesn’t mind the smell of coconuts. You can always add a few drops of essential oil for an even more spa-like vibe.
5 Prepare Your Partner
Now you’re just about ready to begin the massage! Start by having your partner lie on his or her back and straddle their back or you can sit on the side. After you ensure that your hands aren’t cold, use both hands and move both hands all over your partner’s back. Next, pour a liberal amount of lotion or oil in your hands to warm it up and start moving your hands slowly across your partner’s back.
6 Exchanging Energy with Your Partner
While you’re massaging your partner, there will be an exchange of energy. Remember when we were talking about preparing your mind for the massage? This was all part of the exchange, you want to emanate positive and sensual energy, not worry or frustration. Close your eyes and visualize loving thoughts as you touch your partner and he/she will feel it, too. There will be loving and passionate energy flowing from both of you making the experience even better.
7 Hit All the Right Areas
Now that you’ve got the positive energy flowing, you’ll want to concentrate on hitting all the right areas and take your time. Your partner might not say where his or her hot spots are, so explore and even tease! Hit the neck, shoulders, feet, and experiment with other areas. Then, move on to the sensual areas like the inner thighs and see how your partner reacts. If you notice his or her body freezing up, you might want to concentrate more on the shoulders, neck, or temples. If he or she enjoys being touched in the sensual areas, throw in a kiss, nibble, or soft bite in the mix, too!
8 Cool down
The length of the massage is up to you and your partner and after you’ve hit all the right spots, it’s time to cool things down. Give yourself about five minutes or so to prepare your partner for the end of the massage. Reduce the pressure you’re using and rub or touch softly from head to toe. You can end the massage by softly kissing your partner around his or her body.
9 Next Time
Now that you’ve given your first sensual massage, what’s next? Maybe next time you can change things up a bit by incorporating some other tools like a soft feather or other edible massage oils. Get some feedback from your partner about what he or she liked and didn’t like so you can make the next massage even better!
Now you’ve got some basic tips on how to give a sensual massage. Can you think of any other tips to add to give your partner a mind-blowing massage?
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