I’m a sucker for a sexy voice. While other women like eyes, buns, or muscles, for me, it has always been how a man speaks that gives me the feels. If he has a foreign accent or can speak in a foreign language, I’m gone… totally gone. And there’s just something mind blowing when the foreign words are speaking the language of love. You don’t have to be a linguist to master a few choice naughty phrases if you want to make your man melt.
Let’s start off with some sexy French – many call French the language of love. Venir ici et me taquiner means “come here and tease me”. This nifty little phrase has so much potential: at home alone together, it’s the perfect invite; as a sign off to a text message it’s a great way of letting him know you waiting for him to arrive; or, end an email with the phrase and leave him in no doubt how you’re feeling. Get ready to play all night.
Time to wrap your tongue around some Italian. Metti le mani su di me translates and “put your hands on me”. You may recognize that phrase as being the words uttered by Rose to Jack before they got steamy in the car in the hold of The Titanic. Part request/part command, it’s undeniably sexy and so much more interesting than “touch me”. Permission for his hands to get busy, roaming about your body.
These two little Italian words say “I want you”. You can use them to be completely upfront that you’re ready and waiting for him to ravish you but you can use it with more subtlety too. There are many sweet nothings you can whisper in your guy’s ear as verbal foreplay but what captures the essence of your lust than ti voglio? Whisper this when you’re in public or at a function and watch him get all steamy. You just know you’re in for a good time when you get home.
Time for something raunchy? Some women are simply not comfortable with sexy talk so maybe this little phrase in sultry Spanish will help you ease into the habit. Using a foreign phrase may make it seem less silly or embarrassing (common thoughts women have that stops them sex talking). When you’re chatting on the phone or are looking for a sexy test to send, estoy jugando conmigo mismo – “I am playing with myself” – is ideal.
If you want to allow your man to indulge his fantasy in the bedroom (or wherever) let him know. Let him know in your sexiest Italian voice. Think sexy, think sultry, think Sophia Loren at the height of her sex kitten-ness and tell him puoi avere qualsiasi modo si desidera – “you can have it any way you want”. You have to mean it. This is not a throw away phrase. But don’t forget, it gives you the ace in the pack to have your fantasy indulged next time.
You know the saying “the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach”? Well this is a sexy take on that sentiment. Get sweet and sexy and tell him Je vous ai préparé un dessert spécial pour vous – in English “I’ve prepared a special dessert for you.” The choice of dessert is of course up to you. You might make him his favorite sweet treat or you might just dip some strawberries in chocolate. Or dessert might be you! You get the picture.
French is such a great language for teasing and getting him in the mood. Tu m’excites is simple and straight to the point - “you turn me on” - in two little words. Rub his crotch and whisper it in his ear or say it into his mouth mid-kiss and you’ll get an instant reaction. Rub him under the table and mouth the words when you’re in a restaurant. It’s sure to make him hot under the collar and hot for you.
These three romance languages can be so seductive and sexy. Are you ready to put your sexiest French, Italian and Spanish to the test?
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