If you don't know much about your boyfriend's past, and are too awkward to ask him about it, then you can find out everything you want to know by playing a little game. Here are a few sexual "never have I ever" questions for couples:
1. Never Have I Ever Had Horrible Sex
He must've had a bad experience he can tell you about. It happens to everyone.
2. Never Have I Ever Had a Threesome
You never know. Your man might've been a player back in the day and slept with two women at once.
3. Never Have I Ever Tried Anal
Some boys are crazy about butts. It shouldn't surprise you if your man has tried anal once or twice.
4. Never Have I Ever Had Shower Sex
Some people consider shower sex sexy. Other people consider it a death wish.
5. Never Have I Ever Made out with Two People in the Same Day
This sounds like a mean thing to do, but he might've been at a crazy party with women who only wanted a fling. Or he might've cheated. You never know.
6. Never Have I Ever Forgot the Name of Someone I Slept with
This might sound crazy to you, but it happens to some people. Sex isn't meaningful to everybody.
7. Never Have I Ever Had a One-night Stand
See if he's ever slept with a girl at night and then snuck out of her house before she woke up in the morning. He might not have always been the gentleman he is today.
8. Never Have I Ever Had Drunken Sex I Couldn’t Remember
Some people go a little overboard when it comes to alcohol. They'll drink and drink to have a good time, but they won't remember that good time in the morning.
9. Never Have I Ever Kissed the Same Sex
Has your man ever kissed another man? Ask him to find out.
10. Never Have I Ever Used Sex Toys
Sex toys can enhance your experience in the bedroom. If you two have never used them together, you should give it a try.
11. Never Have I Ever Masturbated More than 5 Times in One Day
Some men go overboard when it comes to touching themselves. They could sit in bed all day and go crazy.
12. Never Have I Ever Said the Wrong Name during Sex
This would be heartbreaking. Hopefully he never does it with you, or he'll be kicked out of bed.
13. Never Have I Ever Sexted
Pretty much everyone has sent some naughty text messages. It would be more surprising if he claims he's never sexted.
14. Never Have I Ever Been in Handcuffs
If he has been in handcuffs, hopefully it was in some girl's bedroom and not in some prison cell.
15. Never Have I Ever Played a Sexy Board Game
Monopoly isn't the only game out there, you know. There are sexy ones meant for couples.
16. Never Have I Ever Masturbated to a Friend
If he has, hopefully he isn't friends with them anymore. That would just be awkward.
17. Never Have I Ever Used Food in the Bedroom
You don't want to bring hamburgers into the bedroom, but some people have used whipped cream and chocolate sauce over their naked bodies. It's a mess to clean up, but it's fun in the moment.
Now you have a few questions to help you get to know your partner better. What other "never have I ever" questions should girlfriends ask their boyfriends?
Frequently Asked Questions
- What is 'Never Have I Ever' and how is it played as a couple?
- It's a fun game where couples take turns stating things they've never done, revealing new aspects about each other in a lighthearted way.
- Can 'Never Have I Ever' questions help strengthen a relationship?
- Yes, sharing experiences and secrets can build trust and intimacy between partners.
- What types of sexual 'Never Have I Ever' questions are appropriate for couples?
- Questions that encourage honest and comfortable sharing about preferences, fantasies, or experiences work best.
- How do I start a 'Never Have I Ever' game with my partner?
- Begin with light, playful questions and gradually move to more personal topics as you both feel comfortable.
- Is it okay to skip a question if I feel uncomfortable?
- Absolutely; the game should be fun and safe, so communicate boundaries clearly.
- Can this game improve communication about sexual desires?
- Yes, it opens up dialogue in a non-judgmental way, making it easier to discuss likes and dislikes.
- Are there any 'Never Have I Ever' questions that help explore fantasies?
- Yes, asking about untried but tempting scenarios can reveal new ideas for intimacy.
- How often should couples play 'Never Have I Ever' to keep things interesting?
- Playing occasionally, like during date nights, can keep the connection fresh without feeling forced.
- What if my partner reveals something surprising during the game?
- Use it as an opportunity to listen, understand, and connect rather than judge.
- Can 'Never Have I Ever' be played safely in long-distance relationships?
- Definitely, the game can be adapted for virtual play to maintain intimacy across distances.