Pointing out the signs he is a narcissist is hard isn't it? Sometimes, the signs he is a narcissist just creep up on you and you had no idea! Well ladies, if you think that your guy is obsessed with himself instead of you, I've got the top 9 signs he is a narcissist! That way, you'll be able to call him on it!
When it comes to a normal guy, they typically have a lot of empathy when a girl is upset. When you're dating a narcissist, that isn't the case! Typically, they don't care really and are just obsessed with how you made them upset or how they are feeling. That's not really a guy you would want to be involved with right?
Typically, they don't care really and are just obsessed with how you made them upset or how they are feeling. Their lack of empathy can feel incredibly isolating and even painful. While a normal partner might listen, offer comfort, and try to understand your feelings, the narcissist turns everything around to focus on themselves. They dismiss your emotions as unimportant or overdramatic, leaving you feeling unheard and devalued. In a healthy relationship, mutual support and understanding are key, but with a narcissist, you often find yourself alone in dealing with your emotions.
My BFF of many years has a little narcissist in him and this is one thing that used to bug me. He thought that he was entitled to so much, when truthfully, he hadn't earned it. If your guy thinks that he should get paid just to have people look at him or maybe he feels that he should be the one to get the next promotion when he's only been at the job for a week, those are all signs he is a narcissist! Watch out ladies!
So we all exaggerate at some point in our life right? A story that you tell could have a little embellishment. Well, a narcissist embellishes a lot! Not only did they get back stage at the last concert they went to, but they actually hung out with the band all night. Does that sound a little familiar? It's definitely one of the signs he is a narcissist!
Some guys need more attention that others, that doesn't necessarily mean that they are a narcissist. However, if you find that your guy needs constant attention from you and isn't happy unless he has your attention that is one of the surefire signs he is a narcissist. So, cut him off! He should be the one that is constantly paying attention to you!
We all have dreams right? I know that I do, but when it comes down to a narcissist, he's obsessed with his dreams. Not only does his dreams become his own inner world, but a narcissist typically has an idea of the perfect everything built up in their head and when that doesn't become reality, they get extremely depressed. So, make sure that your guy has his head outta the clouds!
Now, I'm not saying that all narcissists are like this, but typically, when you're dealing with a narcissist, they do not reciprocate in anything. This means that if you say I love you, they might not say it back, if you say that none of your needs are met, they typically don't care. They are very aloof and standoffish most of the time, so keep that in mind when you are looking for signs he is a narcissist!
A narcissist typically is a person that likes to be in control. Not only do they like to control themselves, but they like to control other people. If you are involved with a narcissist, just be careful and stand your ground! It's okay for a little possessiveness, but you don't want them to become too possessive!
So I've been watching Nip/Tuck lately and Christian Troy is one of the biggest narcissist's that you'll ever find! In the last episode that I saw, he actually just went over, used his ex girlfriend Kimber and after he was done, told her that the only reason he came over was because she could make him feel like he was the most important man in the world. That's what narcissist's constantly need, to feel that they are the center of the universe all of the time!
Sex is something that should be shared and the pleasures should be shared too. A narc typically doesn't care if he is getting his woman off, but rather is only looking out for his own needs. This is definitely one of the top signs he is a narcissist to watch out for!
As you can see ladies, there are tons of different signs he is a narcissist, you just have to watch out for them! I don't think that I'd ever want to date a narc, but have any of you ever had a good experience with one? Did I miss any signs he is a narcissist that you've spotted? Give 'em up ladies!
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