8 Signs Your Boyfriend is Controlling ...

By Heather

8 Signs Your Boyfriend is Controlling ...

Learning all of the signs your boyfriend is controlling isn't easy, it's also something you probably never think about right? You think that you'd be able to see all of the signs your boyfriend is controlling right away. You'd be surprised just how many signs your boyfriend is controlling are out there that a lot of women overlook. Don't worry ladies, if you think that your boyfriend is over stepping his boundaries!

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1

He Puts You down

One of the top signs your boyfriend is controlling is that he constantly puts you down. He makes it seem like you can't do anything without him and that he is your entire world. He will tend to pick out every flaw you have and exploit it to the point that you start to believe you have to depend on him to be a better person. This will make you lose your own confidence and in turn, make you more vulnerable. Watch out for this ladies!

2

He Doubts You

He constantly doubts you and constantly doubts that you are telling the truth or even that you are going to tell the truth. If your guy is constantly at you about where you have been and doesn't believe you when you tell him, it could be a sign your boyfriend is controlling!

3

He Wants to Know Everything about You

Does your guy want to know every single tiny thing about you? Where you've been, who you've been talking to, how many hours it took to complete one task, how long it took you to get to the store and back – that's a sign ladies. You are entitled to your own privacy and you should never let someone bust through that!

4

He's Super Jealous

There is of course always going to be some sort of jealousy in almost every relationship, but if you find that your man is very, very jealous, this could be one of the signs your boyfriend is controlling. When he can't stand the thought of you talking to someone else on the phone besides him – watch out girls!

5

He Doesn't like You to Go out without Him

Those goes hand-in-hand with the jealousy piece. If your guy doesn't want you to ever go out without him – even for a girls night, because he is jealous, it's a sign your boyfriend is controlling. You have the right to go out without your guy ladies, remember that!

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6

He Doesn't like You to Have Fun without Him

Does your boyfriend also not like you to have any fun without him? Does he constantly degrade you when you get home from having a fun time without him? That isn't a good sign girls, and you shouldn't have to put up with it!

7

He's Make the Decisions in Your Life

Another sign your boyfriend is controlling is that he starts to make any and all decisions in your life. Whether it is the restaurant that you go to all the way to the financial decisions between the two of you. He makes any and all of those decisions.

8

He's Never at Fault

Finally girls, the last sign your boyfriend is controlling is the fact that he's never, ever at fault – but you are. He constantly blames you for everything and anything!

So girls, do any of these signs your boyfriend is controlling sound familiar? Remember, you do not have to put up with a controlling boyfriend at all. So girls, what other signs your boyfriend is controlling have you ever experienced? Sound off below!

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@Victoria, you are so beautiful anf you may think you love him now but once you leave and find someone better you'll realise who your true love really is. leave now before you get seriously hurt! call the police if you have to

OMG my bf has ALL the traits above, and you won't believe but I send him screenshots of my call logs and my texts and chats with my friends and even after sending that he says you've edited all that. He doesn't like me hanging out with my friends even with girls, and well guys... He just says that you can't. I have to ask him if I should go or not. He gets pissed if I try to explain or when it feels like I'm right he just says you're hurting and bullying me.. I mean whatever he says is fine but if I say smth that's totally wrong. I literally don't know his to get out of this tiresome relationship where I don't have a respect and I don't get any faith and trust. And he wants to marry me soon...

I was with a man who really likes me ect.. But he doesn't know why he can't have a relationship with me? Hes been divorced 6 yrs lives alone? Help me folks..

@Noemi, don't go back to him. it's just going to be the same thing over anf over again. I'm with a controlling guy right now and I don't know how to make the step to leave

My boyfriend is one of a holy saint. Lucky me

if you depend on him for compliments, you will not survive from his criticism.

And why do women throw out innuendos and can never tell u straight out what they want. .always in trouble with that shit.

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