He is a Player – how can you tell? There are guys out there that live just to play with a girl's emotions. These are not the guys that you want to fall for – right ladies? Well, I've got the top 8 signs to tell if he is a player! That way you can avoid the player and get yourself an awesome boyfriend. So ladies, let's take a dive into the 8 signs to tell of he is a player!
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1. Too Many Girl Friends
It's okay for a guy to have girlfriends, in fact, it's bound to happen. It's when he has too many girlfriends and they overshadow your relationship with him. If you find that your boy is choosing his girls that are friends over you, it might be a sign that he is a player!
2. Talks Too Much about Sex
Even though guys constantly have sex on the mind, that doesn't mean that they constantly talk about it – unless they are a player. Whether it is talking about having sex with you or talking about having sex with other people, it can be annoying right? If your guy is talking about sex all of the time, it might be time to talk to him about it and find out why he's talking about sex all of the time!
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3. Acts Different around His Friends
If you've been dating a guy for a while, you probably know his friends right? Do you notice that he acts a little different around you alone than he does when both of you are around his friends? Well ladies, that could totally be a sign that he is a player.
4. Calls/Texts at All Hours of the Night
Just because your guy is up all night, doesn't mean you are. If you find that your guy is texting or calling at all hours of the night, it could be a sign that he's a player. This is another conversation that you might want to have with your man. Just ask him, why does he have to call you at 3:00am instead of during the day time hours?
5. Extremely Cocky
A lot of players think that they are god's gift to women and they are extremely confident – right on the border or even over the border of being cocky. If your guy is constantly talking about the 'girls he used to nail' or constantly assuming that every girl is checking him out, he is a player. No doubt about it!
6. Doesn't Ask about Your Life
Players are not only cocky and over confident, but they are also extremely self absorbed. He won't ask about what's going on in your life or really care about it. He is just obsessed with what is going on with him and what is happening in his life.
7. Uses Excuses Not to Hang out
Your boyfriend should want to constantly hang out with you and constantly be around you. He shouldn't be avoiding you at all or just looking for excuses not to hang out. If your guy is constantly making excuses not to hang out, it might be because he is a player!
8. Acts Different when You're Alone
Remember how I said that he acts differently around his friends? Well ladies, that could go for his family too. If you find that he acts differently around everyone else than he does when you're alone, it is definitely a sign that he's a player!
Figuring out if he is a player isn't easy. Especially if you're in love with him. Ladies, we all know that players are bad news and it typically ends in pain. So – what other signs do you think I missed to figure out if he is a player? Let me know!
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lily: I am very glad I stumble across this article. I have met my Houdini 4 months ago. His name is Rick MacDonald and if you happen to know someone's dating him just warn them ahead of time. I am sure there were and probably will be more women that this guy would date but I hope people would be smarter to not fall for someone like that. If you just want to hook up with him then that's fine. But if you are like me who's looking for a serious committed relationship please be careful with your heart.
jloc: My love is terrible to me. He cheats on me ignores me never calls or texts me or comes over slanders me w the worst insults. Says he wants nothing to do w me and that I'm not allowed at his house and wnevr I was over there he wud talk about all the greater sex he's had w other ppl and have me in tears evsrytime and throws me out of his house when he's upset several times its happened and violence he even calls the cops on me. I thought I finally found someone but I guess not :(
Ismag: There this guy we been dating 1 year but we knew each other since 6 grade , so last year he ask me out I toll him i just got off relationship in I'm heart broken I just don't know if I could trust another person, so I said okay but he promise me he won't break my heart or make me cry ,but year later he came to my family to tell my parents that he what to marry me?week later he cheat on me he start acting whole new different person he won't answer his called ,he will give me attitude , so I called his friend wondering if you talk to him, she said 4 weeks ago in I ask about you and he said the marriage is cancel , I was speechless and he left to go different state in went didn't see each other 6 months , before when we went out he puts me first and he stop talking to girls on the phone, now he starting talking to Girl and whenever I tell him good advice he won't care , the only thing IS it hard to trust him or believe whatever he said, I been through broken heart you just suffer the pain, the only thing I hate is he has best friend in she girl but he never introduces us, that why I'm kinda weird about In he not the same person I fall love before now It seem strange now he put his friends first in I'm last he doesn't care about me any more in we don't talk like how we use too, I need help what should I do to forget about him in move on
Anonymous: My boyfriend that I've been dating for 2 years is a little bit of all of these...he's cocky, but more about how "awesome he is", or talk about sex with me (unless I'm coming over) but he deletes stuff off his phone before he gives it to me. And he has ALOT of girl friends; he doesn't talk about them to me. But he doesn't want to be all "lovely duvey" around his friends, or even acknowledge me (unless they are hitting on me) IS THIS A PROBLEM?!?! help!!
nieniel: hey i really like a guy we used to be friends but we kinda faded and he acts like he barely notices me is he a player he only has to friends that arre girls
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