Being shy gets in the way of so much – and I say that as a shy girl whose bashful personality has left her on the fringes of many things. Shyness can stop you from so much, but it really interferes with your love life. Have you ever been faced with this conundrum? You totally dig someone and you think he digs you, too, but you're way too shy to come out and ask. Just the thought of asking him outright simply mortifies you! So what do you do? Wonder forever? Not at all – just keep reading! If you spot the crush of your dreams doing any of the following things, you'll know he's into you – and you won't have to ask a single question!
When someone goes out of their way to spend their free time with you, it means something. Something pretty special, in fact.
That's considerate. That's special, too.
Someone who takes the time to get to know the real you is pretty great. If you know someone who's interested in learning all about you, take it as a sign.
Does he volunteer information – hopes, dreams, favorite books, the movies he loves? Ding, ding, ding!
It might seem rude for someone to talk about themselves a lot, but it can actually be a sign of interest. Even though it can come off as a little arrogant or egotistical, it's really just a way for a guy to prove he's “worthy,” so to speak.
Or calls, or emails … you get the picture. Not only is this a good sign, but it's very encouraging when you're shy. It can even make you feel more comfortable about initiating conversations.
Whatever you're comfortable with, he's comfortable with – and if you're uncomfortable with something, he respects that
Your Friday night plans frequently consist of binge watching and snacking.
He puts you at ease when you're out at any social event, so you actually enjoy them.
Always a great sign. Bonus points if you share a similar sense of humor!
That's the mark of a keeper. Anyone who does that truly cares about you.
Because you know you'll have a great time together no matter what you do.
Everything just comes easily. That's a big thing for shy people. We like feeling comfortable.
Especially when you're in situations that make you feel bashful or awkward.
Oddly, this can sometimes make you feel better – knowing someone is as tangled up and twisted as you are, you know?
And it just comes naturally.
Sometimes, nobody needs to say a word.
Shy stalkers, do you recognize any of these signs? Is there someone special who maybe feels the same way you do?
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