What are the signs he truly loves you? First, he can say it and not simply want sex. Then, he can tell you not to upset you. Then, he can NOT say it, but truly DOES love you! The following are five**signs he truly loves you**.
Bernardo Mendez
Not the only priority, but does he put some of your needs ahead of his? That's one of the signs he truly loves you.
Understanding if you're a priority can sometimes be subtle. Look for signs like him remembering small details and following through on promises. When he rearranges his schedule to make time for you, or consistently shows up in moments when you need support, these are clear indicators. Moreover, notice if he celebrates your achievements and encourages your dreams. This implies he values your happiness and success as much as his own. These gestures, big or small, demonstrate a genuine care and a willingness to put in effort for the relationship.
Don't fall for the B.S. of no time for you. Does he call? Does he text?
He should be generous with his time, energy and money when it comes to you. Does he take time out of his day to call and check in on you? Does he text you randomly throughout the day to let you know he's thinking of you? Does he take you out on dates and pay for them? Does he surprise you with gifts? These are all signs that he is generous with his time, energy and money when it comes to you and that he truly loves you.
Does he talk about future events concerning him and you? This will show commitment.
If he's weaving you into his future plans, whether they're about upcoming vacations, living arrangements, or even small weekend outings, it reflects a desire to share his life with you. It's not just about speaking of you two being together in the abstract; it involves concrete plans. Listen for when he says "we" instead of "I"—this linguistic shift is a subtle but significant indicator that he's thinking long-term and you're a pivotal part of the picture he's painting of his future. He's not just with you for the moment; he wants to make memories and build a life with you.
Is he asking about your dreams? Is he there in times of trouble?
This shows love even if he does not say it. Sometimes actions speak louder than words.
Raise your expectations and see what happens. If he shows no effort, move on. If he does show effort, then the love is there.
Good luck!