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7 Signs You Are Using Sex as a Weapon ...

By Heather

Because we are women, we might not know the signs you are using sex as a weapon. When you think about it, the signs you are using sex as a weapon aren't as apparent to girls as they are to guys. If you think you might be using sex, you might want to take a look at my top 7 signs you are using sex as a weapon!

1 You Withhold Sex if You Don't Get What You Want

You've been dating a guy for a while now and you want him to start buying you more flowers. Let's say you tel him that you won't have sex with him until you see an improvement in his flower giving. Ladies, that's a sign you are using sex as a weapon! Just because you don't get what you want doesn't mean that you should withhold sex from your man!

2 You Withhold Sex Because You're Mad

The same goes for being mad. Makeup sex is actually pretty incredible and if you are having a fight and you are still mad, you might not want to withhold sex, you might want to unleash that anger on him in sex!


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3 You Are Overly Sexy in Public

Teasing and PDA is not all that bad, but when you are overly sexy in public, that can actually be one of the signs you are using sex as a weapon. You never want to be too sexy in public, but there are subtle ways you can be sexy. A run of your fingertips down his arm or just brushing your fingers through his hair, those are subtle. There is no need to straddle him in public.

4 You Tease Too Much

Teasing again, is perfectly fine when you are in private, but if you are going to tease a guy a lot, you want to make sure that you are following through with it. After all, you don't want to be seen as a tease and that's all you are. If you are teasing a guy to the point of almost having an orgasm and not giving him that release, that is one of the signs you are using sex as a weapon. Don't do that ladies!

5 Too Many Sexual Comments

This goes right along with being overly sexy in public. If you are constantly making sexual comments and again, not having any follow through or not even attempting to fulfill any of the promises you are making to your guy through these comments, that is definitely one of the signs you are using sex as a weapon.

6 Denying Sex out of Spite

Oh, this one is one that so many women do. Just because the guy said something you didn't like or didn't take your side on something that he believes in doesn't mean you have to withhold sex. Why not take it out first? Ask him why he didn't take your side? That way, you can see if you can work it out instead of you just denying him sex out of spite.

7 Being Passive Aggressive

Finally ladies, did you know that we are actually the queens of being passive aggressive when we are mad or upset? This is actually one of the greatest signs you are using sex as a weapon – you are being passive aggressive about it. You don't want to give your guy sex until he does exactly what you want. That's not the way to do it!

These are just some of the signs you are using sex as a weapon. Ladies, we don't want to do that. We love our men and even though we get mad, you don't want to deny him sex just because you can. We hold a lot of the power remember. So ladies, what other signs you are using sex as a weapon have you seen or done in the past?

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