Learning all of the signs your boyfriend is controlling isn't easy, it's also something you probably never think about right? You think that you'd be able to see all of the signs your boyfriend is controlling right away. You'd be surprised just how many signs your boyfriend is controlling are out there that a lot of women overlook. Don't worry ladies, if you think that your boyfriend is over stepping his boundaries!
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1. He Puts You down
One of the top signs your boyfriend is controlling is that he constantly puts you down. He makes it seem like you can't do anything without him and that he is your entire world. He will tend to pick out every flaw you have and exploit it to the point that you start to believe you have to depend on him to be a better person. This will make you lose your own confidence and in turn, make you more vulnerable. Watch out for this ladies!
2. He Doubts You
He constantly doubts you and constantly doubts that you are telling the truth or even that you are going to tell the truth. If your guy is constantly at you about where you have been and doesn't believe you when you tell him, it could be a sign your boyfriend is controlling!
3. He Wants to Know Everything about You
Does your guy want to know every single tiny thing about you? Where you've been, who you've been talking to, how many hours it took to complete one task, how long it took you to get to the store and back – that's a sign ladies. You are entitled to your own privacy and you should never let someone bust through that!
4. He's Super Jealous
There is of course always going to be some sort of jealousy in almost every relationship, but if you find that your man is very, very jealous, this could be one of the signs your boyfriend is controlling. When he can't stand the thought of you talking to someone else on the phone besides him – watch out girls!
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5. He Doesn't like You to Go out without Him
Those goes hand-in-hand with the jealousy piece. If your guy doesn't want you to ever go out without him – even for a girls night, because he is jealous, it's a sign your boyfriend is controlling. You have the right to go out without your guy ladies, remember that!
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6. He Doesn't like You to Have Fun without Him
Does your boyfriend also not like you to have any fun without him? Does he constantly degrade you when you get home from having a fun time without him? That isn't a good sign girls, and you shouldn't have to put up with it!
7. He's Make the Decisions in Your Life
Another sign your boyfriend is controlling is that he starts to make any and all decisions in your life. Whether it is the restaurant that you go to all the way to the financial decisions between the two of you. He makes any and all of those decisions.
8. He's Never at Fault
Finally girls, the last sign your boyfriend is controlling is the fact that he's never, ever at fault – but you are. He constantly blames you for everything and anything!
So girls, do any of these signs your boyfriend is controlling sound familiar? Remember, you do not have to put up with a controlling boyfriend at all. So girls, what other signs your boyfriend is controlling have you ever experienced? Sound off below!
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butterflybabe344: @Victoria, you are so beautiful anf you may think you love him now but once you leave and find someone better you'll realise who your true love really is. leave now before you get seriously hurt! call the police if you have to
butterflybabe344: @Noemi, don't go back to him. it's just going to be the same thing over anf over again. I'm with a controlling guy right now and I don't know how to make the step to leave
anomous: And why do women throw out innuendos and can never tell u straight out what they want. .always in trouble with that shit.
Annemarie: My now ex boyfriend never believes anything I say so tonight I thought I would prove something that happened and I did and he still didn't belive me :(
Victoria: I caught my boyfriend ALMOST cheating on me the week of thanksgiving, I took a break from him but we didn't break up. We made up, but after I found out he had sex with another girl, he was my 1st. I was devestated. he blamed me in a way saying I was to "bitchy" he always controlled what I did, couldnt hang with my friends and sometimes when we argue he traps me in the bathroom, punches walls in front of me and pushes me. One time he came to my house at 1am when everyone was sleeping and was yelling at me calling me a bitch. I'm stuck.im stupid to love him. but if you are in a controlling relationship GET OUT SOON. It WILL turn to violence! :/
Connie: Help mine is controlling me to the point of putting a map on my phone and checks my calls and texts! He is also cheating I caught him! He still says its my fault! What should I do ? We have been together 6 yrs now!
ssourn: if you depend on him for compliments, you will not survive from his criticism.
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