9 Signs Your Crush is in Love with Someone else ...

If you have been majorly crushing on a hot guy but think you see signs he is in love with someone else, it’s time to figure out what’s really going on. Sometimes it’s difficult to spot the signs he has fallen in love with another girl when you want him badly and it seems like he has no clue that you two would be the perfect couple. So ladies, I’m going to try to clarify the situation for you by revealing the 9 signs your crush is in love with another girl.

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The Friend Zone

One of the signs he is in love with someone else is that he will treat you as just a friend. You try to flirt with your crush when you get some alone time with him and he continues to treat you like a friend. If he’s in love with another girl, you could be dancing in a racy negligee and he wouldn’t even notice it. Trying to flirt with a crush that is in love with someone else is a major waste of time.

The Eyes Tell All

Check out his eyes when his love interest enters the room. When he makes eye contact with her, the air appears to light on fire. If he’s in love, he looks at her very differently than he looks at anyone else. One of the signs your crush is in love with another girl is that his eyes sparkle and light up whenever he is near her. Remember, the eyes are the windows to your soul, so if you look deep enough, you may see that he loves her.

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His gaze lingers longer, fixated with a mix of admiration and something akin to awe. It's not just the frequency of those glances, but the quality of them. His pupils may dilate—a sign of affection—and they follow her movements with a gentle attentiveness. Other conversations fade into the background; he has a selective focus reserved just for her. When she speaks, he's all ears, absorbing her every word, often nodding or smiling subconsciously. These subtle cues convey a powerful message: his heart may already belong to someone not you.

He’s so Happy

Another one of the signs he has fallen in love with another girl is that he radiates happiness whenever she is around him. He’s elated because she is in his presence. You will notice him frequently flirting, blushing, laughing and smiling at her. Blame his crazy euphoric feelings on the dopamine flooding his brain whenever humans fall in love.

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His eyes light up like fireworks at the mention of her name, and it's as if sunbeams have attached themselves to the corners of his mouth, constantly pulling his lips into a beaming smile. He may even seem to have an endless supply of energy, ready to take on any adventure that involves her. When they interact, it's as though they're in a world of their own, a small universe where no one else matters. This level of joy is difficult to mask and speaks louder than any words ever could.

Is It Hot in Here?

One of the most common signs that your crush is in love with another girl is the hot sexual attraction that they share. Anyone within a 100 foot radius can tell that there is something special between them by the way they interact. If he’s in love, he may barely notice the sexual desirability of other girls. To him, she is the only girl in the room.

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Their body language says it all – lean-in conversations, laughter that seems to bubble up just from looking at each other, and touches that linger a little too long. He doesn't just see her, he notices her - the way she tucks her hair behind her ear or the particular sparkle in her eyes when she's amused. This intense physical and emotional connection is hard to miss and even harder to mimic. When they're together, it's like they're in a world of their own, making anyone else feel like a mere spectator to their private show of affection.

Always Together

Another one of the signs he has fallen in love with another girl is that he’s spending the majority of his time with her. He invites her to do just about everything with him even if its mundane tasks like picking up the dry cleaning. If he’s in love with her, she’s always at his place hanging out with him. You may even see some of her things at his place.

Less Communication

Your crush is making excuses as to why he is texting, emailing and calling you less. Of course, he’ll apologize and you will probably get the ‘I’m just too busy with work or school to talk’ spiel. You won’t feel as close to him as you did before because there is less communication. He has fallen hard for another girl my friend if he is constantly talking or texting her.

His Choice of Words

A flashing neon sign that many girls ignore is that he tells you that you are a great friend or my best girl friend. When you finally reveal your feelings to your crush, he will say he doesn’t want to ruin the awesome friendship that you guys share. If he has told you straight up that he doesn’t see you as more than a friend, listen to him. You can’t make him feel something that he doesn’t.

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It might sting, but it's crucial to pay attention to the boundary he’s drawing. This isn’t a romantic movie where persistence turns friendship into passion; this is real life, where respect for his feelings is vital. Clinging to the hope of a relationship when he's expressly communicated his position only leads to more heartache. Instead, embrace the wonderful friendship you have, and look for love where it's welcomed and reciprocated. Your feelings are valuable, so invest them where they can flourish.

His Head is in the Clouds

His head just seems to be in the clouds lately, plus his judgement and remarks just don't seem like him. This is a sign he could be in love with someone else and it's time for you to move on.

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When someone's mind appears consistently preoccupied, it often suggests a heart preoccupied too. You might notice a faraway look in his eyes when you're sharing your deepest thoughts, an indicator his emotional investment might be waning. This detachment can be a harsh signal to recognize, but it's vital to heed the subtle hint. If his heart seems to flutter elsewhere, and his attention is soaring high above the present moment with you, his affections could very well belong to another. It's a tough pill to swallow, but catching these cues now can save you more heartache later.

He Doesn't Have Time for Guys' Night

Not only is he blowing you off, but he is turning down guys' night as well. If he doesn't even have time for them, then he is probably in love with someone else and is making all of his time for her.

If you recognize the signs he is in love with someone else, it’s time to move on. Don’t waste your amazing flirting skills and awesomeness on a guy that is head over heels for another girl. So ladies are any of you crushing on a great guy out there?

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I read many of your posts, but this one made me reflect a lot... I realized that this is the first one i should have read before reading ways to make him like me... Now I know would be a waste of time trying to be his ideal girl... :/...

@Dusty, I have also been in a similar situation where I met someone online and thought that we had amazing chemistry and could some how be in a relationship. Unfortunately online dating has a lot of characters who appear to be sincere but play on other's emotions and vulnerability. But the truth is deep down inside you may already know your answer, you were played and it sucks!! but the key is not to dwell but learn from situation and make better choices next time, remember you didn't loose out on a great relationship he did, and most often those people have a lot of underlying issues so consider yourself blessed that this was all the damage that was caused. Keep Moving!!

I was just wondering if your crush never likes anything of yours on facebook, like pics or anything or comments on anything does it mean he has hidden your posts??? Cause he like all these other girls photos and stuff but the thing is when I see him around he always shows signs he likes me. But like on fb he goes silent. He does act differently to me than other girls like more shy with me and confident with them??? Or if he does see my posts like what could be the reasons why he doesn't like anything. Is he playing hard to get?? Also is there like a secret way to. Tell if they look at your profile??? Thnx

I really like this guy but my friend does to and I'm afraid he likes her... But even if he does she will still be my best friend.

Ok. I'm in need of advice. I met a guy online. We started off texting, one day he called me and we talked for 3 hours. From then, we talked a few times and texted. We met about a week ago and hit it off, but unfortunately we ended up having sex. While it was absolutely amazing for the both of us, he has been acting different since then. He had made comments like "what are you doing to me " and that he is "unable to be loved " and that he liked me but I do not deserve lies and he doesn't want to and will not hurt me. Well, he has barely texted me, we have not talked on the phone. He said he has been in his own little world and swears I did nothing to bother him. What are some opinions you guys may have? I like him, and we had wonderful conversations and to be honest, I have a pretty good judge of character and have never been wrong, and I do not see him as an awful person.

hey, I met a guy at my girlfriend's birthday, I think i like him but it seems that he likes someone else. He is dating a girl who was also on the birthday. They are even date a few times. And I still have contact with him, we talk normally. I guess I do not have a chance. I want to go out with him. But I'm afraid he rejects me. And I have known him for 7 weeks. On his facebook I see pictures of that girl and him. Its feel very unlucky. what should I do?

so i really like this guy and we talk sometimes. But i don't really want to waste my time with this guy if he's not interested in me...anyways this guy is always helping me with school work and stuff and he offers to help me with a lot of things and since he's in my major( but a year above me he knows a lot already)i accept it. but its confusing he offers to help with projects and stuff. And once we had this conversation about cows, chocolate milk(he loves chocolate milk) and where it comes from. And then he said something about what we were talking about would be in one of my professor(he took him before)lecture and he'll help me understand if i need his help...i feel weird on posting on this...

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