If you have been majorly crushing on a hot guy but think you see signs he is in love with someone else, it’s time to figure out what’s really going on. Sometimes it’s difficult to spot the signs he has fallen in love with another girl when you want him badly and it seems like he has no clue that you two would be the perfect couple. So ladies, I’m going to try to clarify the situation for you by revealing the 9 signs your crush is in love with another girl.
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1. The Friend Zone
One of the signs he is in love with someone else is that he will treat you as just a friend. You try to flirt with your crush when you get some alone time with him and he continues to treat you like a friend. If he’s in love with another girl, you could be dancing in a racy negligee and he wouldn’t even notice it. Trying to flirt with a crush that is in love with someone else is a major waste of time.
2. The Eyes Tell All
Check out his eyes when his love interest enters the room. When he makes eye contact with her, the air appears to light on fire. If he’s in love, he looks at her very differently than he looks at anyone else. One of the signs your crush is in love with another girl is that his eyes sparkle and light up whenever he is near her. Remember, the eyes are the windows to your soul, so if you look deep enough, you may see that he loves her.
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His gaze lingers longer, fixated with a mix of admiration and something akin to awe. It's not just the frequency of those glances, but the quality of them. His pupils may dilate—a sign of affection—and they follow her movements with a gentle attentiveness. Other conversations fade into the background; he has a selective focus reserved just for her. When she speaks, he's all ears, absorbing her every word, often nodding or smiling subconsciously. These subtle cues convey a powerful message: his heart may already belong to someone not you.
3. He’s so Happy
Another one of the signs he has fallen in love with another girl is that he radiates happiness whenever she is around him. He’s elated because she is in his presence. You will notice him frequently flirting, blushing, laughing and smiling at her. Blame his crazy euphoric feelings on the dopamine flooding his brain whenever humans fall in love.
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His eyes light up like fireworks at the mention of her name, and it's as if sunbeams have attached themselves to the corners of his mouth, constantly pulling his lips into a beaming smile. He may even seem to have an endless supply of energy, ready to take on any adventure that involves her. When they interact, it's as though they're in a world of their own, a small universe where no one else matters. This level of joy is difficult to mask and speaks louder than any words ever could.
4. Is It Hot in Here?
One of the most common signs that your crush is in love with another girl is the hot sexual attraction that they share. Anyone within a 100 foot radius can tell that there is something special between them by the way they interact. If he’s in love, he may barely notice the sexual desirability of other girls. To him, she is the only girl in the room.
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Their body language says it all – lean-in conversations, laughter that seems to bubble up just from looking at each other, and touches that linger a little too long. He doesn't just see her, he notices her - the way she tucks her hair behind her ear or the particular sparkle in her eyes when she's amused. This intense physical and emotional connection is hard to miss and even harder to mimic. When they're together, it's like they're in a world of their own, making anyone else feel like a mere spectator to their private show of affection.
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5. Always Together
Another one of the signs he has fallen in love with another girl is that he’s spending the majority of his time with her. He invites her to do just about everything with him even if its mundane tasks like picking up the dry cleaning. If he’s in love with her, she’s always at his place hanging out with him. You may even see some of her things at his place.
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6. Less Communication
Your crush is making excuses as to why he is texting, emailing and calling you less. Of course, he’ll apologize and you will probably get the ‘I’m just too busy with work or school to talk’ spiel. You won’t feel as close to him as you did before because there is less communication. He has fallen hard for another girl my friend if he is constantly talking or texting her.
7. His Choice of Words
A flashing neon sign that many girls ignore is that he tells you that you are a great friend or my best girl friend. When you finally reveal your feelings to your crush, he will say he doesn’t want to ruin the awesome friendship that you guys share. If he has told you straight up that he doesn’t see you as more than a friend, listen to him. You can’t make him feel something that he doesn’t.
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It might sting, but it's crucial to pay attention to the boundary he’s drawing. This isn’t a romantic movie where persistence turns friendship into passion; this is real life, where respect for his feelings is vital. Clinging to the hope of a relationship when he's expressly communicated his position only leads to more heartache. Instead, embrace the wonderful friendship you have, and look for love where it's welcomed and reciprocated. Your feelings are valuable, so invest them where they can flourish.
8. His Head is in the Clouds
His head just seems to be in the clouds lately, plus his judgement and remarks just don't seem like him. This is a sign he could be in love with someone else and it's time for you to move on.
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When someone's mind appears consistently preoccupied, it often suggests a heart preoccupied too. You might notice a faraway look in his eyes when you're sharing your deepest thoughts, an indicator his emotional investment might be waning. This detachment can be a harsh signal to recognize, but it's vital to heed the subtle hint. If his heart seems to flutter elsewhere, and his attention is soaring high above the present moment with you, his affections could very well belong to another. It's a tough pill to swallow, but catching these cues now can save you more heartache later.
9. He Doesn't Have Time for Guys' Night
Not only is he blowing you off, but he is turning down guys' night as well. If he doesn't even have time for them, then he is probably in love with someone else and is making all of his time for her.
If you recognize the signs he is in love with someone else, it’s time to move on. Don’t waste your amazing flirting skills and awesomeness on a guy that is head over heels for another girl. So ladies are any of you crushing on a great guy out there?
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Macy: *sigh*
Mumf: Okay, okay... I met this amazing guy a few months ago. When I first met him, he had a girlfriend, but about a week after meeting him, he found out she has cheating on him. For most of the time I met him, he'd open up to me and tell me things about his girlfriend. Eventually, he broke up with her. He already knows I like him because I comforted him and said, "Love you" and kissed him. ( Daring move for someone as shy as me. ) and I asked the next day if he liked me and said, "I have to figure some things out, I don't know quite yet." and then, now here I am, on unsure grounds. I'd joke around and say we're twins since we act so similar, and in the end, I'd get hurt seeing him so upset and I'd tell him I loved him but then cover it up with, "that's what twins are supposed to do." Recently, he told me, "I love you." and then I hugged him and said, "Do I even have to say anything anymore?" And he said, "Yeah. You do." I said, "But I've already said I love you when I confessed." and he said, "Oh. Well, I love you more." But now I've been seeing things where a girl would often come around him and say, "Love ya!" And I'm unsure if she's who he's reserving himself for... I'm so terrified to fall in love - even though I already have - because every time I do, I get hurt. Have any advice?
Why: Hey! Thank you guys so much! It turns out he does like me, but he didn't want to hurt his friend's feelings because he likes me too so he kept it a secret.
Lory:): Hey guys, I reallly like this guy who is really sweet and cute ( blonde with blue eyes) but I think that he still haves a cursh on his ex girlfriend.I really hate that girl for what she did to him ( like leaving him 4 TIMES for another guy and yet still haves the guts to flirt with him), and the way he looks at her drives me crazy. We are good friends,we talk, we laugh together, and actually I caught him looking at me in classes like...a lot.I am always there for him , he even knows that, he is flirty with me(teasing me) but... still not enough.What should I do ? Should I move on ? :( ;.;
Allie: so i really like this guy and we talk sometimes. But i don't really want to waste my time with this guy if he's not interested in me...anyways this guy is always helping me with school work and stuff and he offers to help me with a lot of things and since he's in my major( but a year above me he knows a lot already)i accept it. but its confusing he offers to help with projects and stuff. And once we had this conversation about cows, chocolate milk(he loves chocolate milk) and where it comes from. And then he said something about what we were talking about would be in one of my professor(he took him before)lecture and he'll help me understand if i need his help...i feel weird on posting on this...
Monica: @Dusty, let a man date you for a much longer time frame and let him wine and dine you like a lady should be treated. Not all old school is bad especially in getting to know the one.
Kate: hey, I met a guy at my girlfriend's birthday, I think i like him but it seems that he likes someone else. He is dating a girl who was also on the birthday. They are even date a few times. And I still have contact with him, we talk normally. I guess I do not have a chance. I want to go out with him. But I'm afraid he rejects me. And I have known him for 7 weeks. On his facebook I see pictures of that girl and him. Its feel very unlucky. what should I do?
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