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15 Tell-Tale Signs That Prove He's into You ...

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15 Tell-Tale Signs That Prove He's into You ...
15 Tell-Tale Signs That Prove He's into You ...

Signs He's into You can be as subtle as a smile or as bold as a grand romantic gesture. As someone who's spent an embarrassingly long amount of time trying to decode the male species (with a degree in psychology, mind you), I can assure you, I’ve seen and experienced it all. Welcome to 2024, the year where we'd like to think we've gotten pretty good at figuring out if a guy likes us—or not. But then again, some things never change.

First things first: let's talk eye contact. If he's gazing at you like you’re a rare unicorn in a room full of horses, it's one of the primary signs he's into you. Look, humans are quite simple beings; we look at what interests us. And if he's locking eyes with you even during mundane conversations, it's as clear as daylight. But beware of the "creepy stare," which is more unsettling than endearing. Balance is key here, people.

Then there's the classic matter of “body language.” If he’s leaning in closer, mirroring your actions, or maybe even lightly touching your arm as he laughs at your not-that-funny jokes, let’s just say, the guy's smitten. Remember those fine folks over at Body Language 101? They'd agree with this assessment.

Of course, we can’t ignore the ultimate awkward yet adorable indicator—nervous behavior. Guys, much like us, get jittery around someone they fancy. If he's fidgeting, stumbling over his words, or laughing awkwardly, it’s probably not because he’s practicing his next comedy routine. No, it’s more likely that he’s trying to impress you and failing spectacularly.

Let us not forget the era of digital romance. Oh yes, texting habits are a tell-tale giveaway. If he's sending you messages that go beyond the casual "hey," delving into the territory of "I've thought about you today" or the golden "good morning," it’s one of the most obvious signs he's into you. His emoji game might be a bit rusty, but hey, it’s still a sign of effort. And you know what they say, effort counts, especially in 2024 when half the battle of romance reportedly happens over text.

Speaking of effort, there’s also this somewhat cliché yet undeniable move—the compliments. If he's going out of his way to tell you how great you look or how your laugh is contagious, it’s one of the sure-fire signs he's into you. Sometimes, they’re not even that smooth. In fact, the more awkward his compliments, the more genuine they usually are. Let’s face it; guys aren't exactly poets most of the time.

These are just a few starting points. From spontaneous gifts to subtle protectiveness, each sign is a piece of a very intricate puzzle. Stay tuned as we delve deeper into these complex yet heart-fluttering nuances that scream, "Hey, I like you!"

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1. He Calls You

He Calls You My mother once gave me the best bit of dating advice ever: if a boy likes you, nothing will stop him from calling you. WAIT! I know what you’re thinking — does texting or instant messaging count? Well, sort of. A sure sign that he is into you is that he wants to actually speak to you, hear your voice, so a phone call is still the best indicator. Thanks, mom!

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Certainly, in today's digital era, we're all glued to our smartphones, and it's far too easy to send off a quick emoji or GIF instead of engaging in a real conversation. However, when a guy goes the extra mile to call you, it's often because he wants to hear your reactions in real-time, share a laugh, or just enjoy the sound of your voice. This type of effort shows a desire for a deeper connection that texts can't fully satisfy. And if he's calling consistently, it's not just a fluke—it's intentional. He's making you a priority in his day.

2. He Keeps up with Your Social Media

He Keeps up with Your Social Media When he sent you a friend request (or added you to his circle, or started following you on Twitter), you knew he was a little interested, but now that he comments or likes or re-tweets or plus ones all of your updates and photos, you know he’s into you. Semi cyber stalking on social networking sites (not in a creepy way!) is one of the sure signs that he is into you, for sure!

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His virtual presence in your social media sphere goes beyond casual interactions. It’s as though he’s making a digital effort to be a part of your day-to-day life. Whenever you post a story, a status update, or share a new interest, he’s one of the first to show encouragement with a heart or a thumbs-up. It's not just the frequency of his interactions that's telling, but also the thoughtfulness behind his comments. He often leaves personalized responses that show he's really paying attention, not just mindlessly scrolling through his feeds.

Frequently asked questions

Signs include frequent eye contact, he goes out of his way to spend time with you, remembers details about your life, body language that shows open and positive reception such as leaning in when talking to you, and he may also initiate contact or show jealousy if others show interest in you.

He might send you messages regularly and reply to your texts quickly. He asks personal questions, tries to keep conversations going, uses flirty emojis, and may show concern or interest in your day-to-day activities.

Yes, friends can be a clue. They might tease him when you're around, seem to know a lot about you, or he may act differently when they're around. Sometimes, friends may even tell you directly about his interest.

Teasing can be a sign of affection, especially if it's light-hearted and not hurtful. If it's coupled with laughter, gentle joking at his own expense, or he tries to make you laugh, it might mean he's into you.

Body language clues include mirroring your movements, standing or sitting close to you, lots of smiling, and physical touches like a hand on your back or arm. He might also point his feet towards you when talking, which is a subconscious sign of interest.

3. He Remembers Everything You Say

He Remembers Everything You Say Two weeks ago, over drinks, you mentioned your strawberry allergy, and tonight, at dinner he made sure your salad came without them. He’s paid attention, and remembered what you said — another sign he’s into you!

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It's not just the big things he recalls, either. He'll bring up the name of your childhood pet or your favorite book from a conversation you had a month ago. This kind of attentive memory shows that he's genuinely engaged in what you're sharing. It's like he has a mental notebook titled "All About You," and it’s filled with your likes, dislikes, and anecdotes. That kind of thoughtfulness is more than just good manners; it’s a clear indication he's invested in you and cherishing the details that make you unique.

4. He Finds Excuses to Touch You

He Finds Excuses to Touch You If he can’t keep his hands off you (in the non-sexual way), then he’s definitely into you! Examples of this would be holding your hand while crossing the street, putting his hand on your back or waist as you’re walking together, and even brushing your hair out of your eyes.

5. You Catch Him Looking at You All the Time

You Catch Him Looking at You All the Time Every time you glance his way, he’s either grinning at you, or he looks away quickly, with a shy smile — you catch him looking at you all the time! Oh, girl, he’s got it bad. This is one sure sign he’s into you. By the way, if you’re always glancing over at him… that might mean you’re into him, too!

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It's pretty much like being in a romantic movie, except it's your life, hun! That adorkable little game of eye-tag you're playing is more than just coincidental glances. If you feel a flutter in your tummy when your eyes meet, it's because there's a silent conversation going on. Those looks from him are sentences unspoken, drenched with the sweet language of attraction. And that shy smile? It's the punctuation at the end of a silent statement that screams, "I'm into you!" So, keep a lookout for that loving gaze – it’s telling you everything his words haven't yet.

6. He Wants to Introduce You

He Wants to Introduce You He can’t wait for you to meet his friends, his family, his dog, his roommates, his co-workers, and the guys at the gym. If he’s set on introducing you around, then chances are, he’s into you. And he wants everyone he knows to know it, too!

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This eagerness to bring you into his inner circle is a real indicator that he's proud to have you in his life. It's like he's showing you off, because in his eyes, you're a catch. Whether it’s a casual hangout or a formal family gathering, he's prepping them for your arrival. And let’s not forget those little glances he’ll shoot your way when someone says something impressive about you. He's beaming with pride, and that's because he sees a future with you that he's hoping to secure by solidifying your place in his present social circles.

7. He Sends You Flowers, Etc

He Sends You Flowers, Etc Men who don’t intend to stick around don’t send small gifts or flowers for no reason. It’s that simple. If he’s sending you flowers or cards or little handmade friendship bracelets, then oh yes, he’s into you.

8. He Reaches out to You

He Reaches out to You Try not to talk to him for a little and see what happens. If you don't answer him or initiate contact, how will he respond? If he reaches out to you after he hasn't heard from you for a while, then there's a good chance he's into you! Maybe he was even checking his phone constantly and started to miss you. Either way it's a good sign.

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Taking a step back can really be telling. It's a bit like a dance, isn't it? If he can't help but reach out, asking how you've been or making some excuse just to chat, his interest is more than clear. Guys who are smitten will look for any sign you're still there, still interested. So if your phone pings with a message from him during your little test, take it as a solid hint that he's definitely got you on his mind.

9. Eye Contact

Eye Contact Not every guy is like this, but usually when a guy maintains eye contact with you while talking it's a good sign. There are some guys who get nervous and just can't hold eye contact that much, but for the most part this is a good tell. Bonus points to you if you notice that his pupils get bigger. Supposedly our pupils grow when we look at someone that we have feelings for/are attracted to.

10. Wants to Share Interests

Wants to Share Interests A lot of times if a guy is into you, he wants to show you what he likes to do and share that with you. Whether it's going for a hike, watching a game, or taking you to a concert of his favorite band it's a good sign. This also works if he wants to do things like this that you like. He's trying to show you more of himself and that's really hard for some people so appreciate it.

11. He Gets Nervous around You

He Gets Nervous around You This may be hard to pick up on, but it's not impossible. Try to observe his behavior around other people and then compare it to how he is around you. Maybe you'll notice a nervous laugh, sweaty palms, or he blushes. They're small and subtle hints, but they're definitely good signs.

12. His Body Language

people,tree,screenshot,outa, If you pay close attention, his body language can you tell you everything you need to know. If he leans into you, it shows that he's comfortable around you and wants to be close. Also, pay attention to where his feet are pointing. Supposedly, our feet point to what we want. It's a good little tip to know!

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Beyond just leaning in, eye contact can be a major giveaway. If he holds your gaze longer than what would be considered casual, it's a sign he's focused on you and interested in what you have to say. Additionally, a guy who mirrors your own movements is subconsciously showing sympathy and connection. When you take a sip of your drink and he follows suit, or you cross your legs and he does the same, it's like an unspoken dance of camaraderie. Keep in mind these subtle cues – they're often louder than words.

13. He'll Watch a Chick Flick with You

photograph,photography,man,ceremony,bride, If he's got no problem watching Channing Tatum in a rom-com with you, he's so into you... or Channing Tatum. LOL! Chances are he'd rather be home watching a football game so give him props that he's sitting through a sappy movie!

14. He Opens up to You

photograph,photography,ceremony,portrait photography,romance, If he's verbal about his feelings with you, consider that a big deal. Most guys are so out of sync with their emotions! Opening up to you proves that he's comfortable with you and genuinely trusts you.

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Many men have built-in reservations when it comes to expressing their innermost thoughts and vulnerabilities. It's a product of societal norms that often equate emotional openness with weakness. So, if he's sharing his fears, hopes, and dreams, it's a signal that he sees you as more than just a casual acquaintance. When a man allows his guard to go down and reveals parts of his heart, it's like he's lighting a beacon of trust. That emotional intimacy is a critical step toward deeper connection and, quite possibly, love.

15. He's Protective of You

photograph,ceremony,event,romance,portrait photography, He can show this in many different ways. If he makes sure you've eaten already, offers his coat when you’re cold, wants to take you to the doctor whenever you're sick, he truly cares about you.

These are the signs I use to tell if a certain guy is into me, and they’ve never let me down. The first one, with the advice from my own mother, is still the best! Which of these signs that he’s into you have you used before? Or is there another way you can tell? Please share!

This article was written in collaboration with editor Vanessa Salles.

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Im in the 8th grae & I have a crush on a boy. I could of sworen on the second day of school he checked me out and smiled but all while I wasnt "looking". I look at him once & awhile during borimg parts of class. We only have science and homeroom 2gether. He has one group of friends on the other side of the lunch room & I sit with mine. We live in the same neighborhood. I also ( sorry I didnt mention the before but...) once held the door open for the class for the first time & he slide his hand down to mine but jumped off when he got close to my hand. I was just wonderimng if he likes me at all. We never talk BTW

I have a crush on my friend's brother. So cliche, I know. But over winter break my friend and I hung out a lot, and her brother and I became really close. We started messaging each other constantly, and we would always sit together during movies and stuff. He even told me he liked me when my friend called me to embarrass him! When we would hang out with other friends of mine, though, he wouldn't really say much-- even though I was right next to him! He is kind of socially awkward and adorable, so that was fine. We talked about getting to know each other more before going out, but once school started again he stopped talking to me for no reason. I don't know if my friend said something to him because she felt like it was weird, or he just changed his mind. But now I see him constantly at school, out with friends, and whenever I'm at his house or with his family and I don't know how to act! I still like him, even though I told everyone that I don't anymore, and I have no idea what to do. When he sees me he acknowledges me or we talk a little bit when we hang out with friends, but nowhere near as much as before. He acts kind of odd around me, rather than how he acts around our other girl friends, and I sometimes catch him looking at me, so I don't know if he still likes me or not. Do you think he still likes me and his sister is the problem, or should I just move on and let him go? How should I act around him now? **PLEASE HELP**

He likes every girl he sees he likes me my bff and my other bff and every other girl he sees but he only flirts m=with me and my first bff.

I really love the article and the whole site :). Well, here's my story. I liked the guy for almost 3 years. I was ugly and dark-skinned back then but because of him, I became really pretty like the one from "Crazy little thing called love". From the day I met him we've always talking everyday, he keeps approaching me, I see him glancing at me, we're making fun of each other and everytime he do that to me I can't stop myself falling in love with him. We treated each other like bestfriends before and I came to like him even more. But my friends don't like him that much because he cheated so many girls including my bestfriend. I don't believe that rumors because he himself told me the truth about what happened to their relationship. Its my bestfriend lying about them. So my bestfriend and I have argued and we became enemies :( So, I chose not to talk to him or even mind him. We stop talking and he liked another girl, he court her but she dumped him right after. My bestfriend and I reunite again and become friends again. And he came approaching me again saying that he really missed me, asking why i didn't talk to him and ignore him just like that. And after my 1 year of moving on, we become classmates again and I feel like my feelings for him is coming back. But he loves the girl who dumped him. But I can tell in his eyes that he still have his feelings for me because of his glances and stares. I think its me not showing him that I still like him so that he wants to reunite with the girl who dumped him. He keeps talking to my bestfriend saying that his parents really like me. My story is really messed-up because I don't understand all the boys. They don't show their feelings that much. If a girl don't talk to them they also not talk to us and made us more jealous =(

I don't think many guys do that kind of stuff even if they're really into you... My boyfriend does call me, but not always and mostly when he wants to ask me something. He does comment some of my posts/pictures on facebook, but not all of them. He listens to me, but he doesn't exactly remember everything, that would be strange... Uh... does he find excuses to touch me?? Idk :D he doesn't have to, because we are all over each other all the time ^^ When I "catch" him looking at me he usually winks or smirks at me and that's great, because I wouldn't really want to date a guy that is so shy he looks away all the time... I mean, it's cute but not very attractive ;) He wants to indtroduce me to his dog, of course! I basically know most of his friends and he introduces me to new people as "his girl" so that's right <3 He doesn't send me flowers and that is really good, it would seem a bit stalker-ish to me... He buys me most stuff I really want, 'cause he says he wants to "spoil me" and sometimes he gives me random gifts like bracelets or books :) Idk if you were talking about guys you aren't dating, but my boyfriend doesn't do the things you've written down (at least not that intesive!) and he didn't do them before we dated and that's good because most of the mentioned "signs that he's into you" would probably fail to impress and/or attract my attention :D