Let’s be real for a second. Sex is important for most people. It is something that you can’t go without and something that brings you the most amount of pleasure on a regular basis, but that is only if you are actually good at it! Finding your mojo and advancing your skills in the bedroom is something that takes time and commitment. Sure, we might all be good at certain things, but to be a true sexual master, you need to have all areas covered! If you want to up your game, then here is exactly how to be a"10" in bed!
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1. Emotion
Make sure to create an emotional connection as well as the standard physical one. Feelings of pleasure are always heightened and intensified if you have an emotional connection with your sexual partner.
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Building that emotional rapport can involve open and honest communication, sharing intimate details and desires, and nurturing a deep sense of trust. Not only does trust magnify the physical enjoyment, but it also allows you to be more vulnerable and adventurous in the bedroom. By fostering this bond, your experiences together can transcend the physical acts themselves, leading to a more fulfilling and passionate sex life. Remember, being a "10" isn't just about the physical prowess—it's equally about the warmth and depth of connection you share.
2. Don’t Assume
Don’t assume that you know all there is to know about getting down and dirty. Make sure that you let your partner know that you are open to suggestions and to trying new things, and together the two of you might end up moving into a new and exciting area that you haven’t experienced before!
3. Affirmation
Make sure to let your partner know that he is doing it right if he is making you feel good, because there is nothing like positive affirmation to make him feel like he is king of the world! Knowing that he is giving you lots of pleasure will boost his ego and give him a better experience too.
4. Dirty Talk
If you’ve never tried dirty talk before, then now is the time! Guys can’t handle it when girls whisper sexy things in their ear during sex. It takes their pleasure to a whole new level, and it is also fun and exhilarating for you too.
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Dirty talk is a great way to spice up your sex life and take your pleasure to the next level. It can be intimidating to start, but it can be fun and exciting for both partners. You can start by telling your partner what you like about them and what you want them to do. You can also tell them what you want them to do to you. Don't be afraid to get creative and let your partner know what turns you on. Remember to keep it consensual and enjoyable for both of you.
If you're looking to engage your partner in intriguing conversations, why not try some hypothetical questions for couples? These fun queries will not only keep the conversation lively but also stimulate deep thoughts and potentially reveal insights about each other's personality and thought processes.
5. Experiment
Don’t be afraid of or opposed to trying new things. Sure, vanilla sex is fun in itself, but your man will definitely see you as a ten in bed if you let him know that you don’t mind experimenting every now and then!
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6. Fun
Don’t make your lovemaking too serious, because if something goes wrong or doesn’t happen who you were hoping it to, that seriousness can really kill the mood. If you take a fun approach to sex instead, your partner will be more relaxed and he won’t be so worried about doing something wrong!
7. Unpredictable
Make the conscious effort to break up the normal rhythm of your love making to ensure that it never gets predictable or boring. Try things like edging to bring him close to climax and then making him come all the way back down again to wait for more. Those types of fun things are what turns a seven in to a ten!
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