7 Things You Can Learn about Him from His Texts ...

By Holly

7 Things You Can Learn about Him from His Texts ...

If you've been lucky enough to get your crush's phone number, there are a few important things you can learn about him from his texts. Technology has become such a huge part of our lives, so the way that he communicates with you via cellphone can tell you a lot. That means you should pay close attention to your text messages. Here are some of the most important things you can learn about him from his texts:

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If He Replies at All

Some guys don't text very often, but if you always see that he's read your message and hasn't bothered to reply, he doesn't care very much about you. You shouldn't have to send him ten messages before he gives you one tiny response. One of the biggest things you can learn about him from his texts is whether or not he's interested in talking to you. Even if he's shy, he'd figure out a way to reply to your messages if he really liked you.


If He Has Good Grammar

Does his grammar make you cringe? You can find out just how smart he is by seeing if he uses "then" when he was supposed to use "than." You might be the type of person who doesn't care about how smart your boyfriend is, but if you're turned on by intelligence, his grammar can make or break how you feel about him.


If He Replies Quickly

Some people lead busy lives, so you shouldn't be too upset if it takes him a few hours to answer your text messages. However, if it only takes him seconds to reply to you, despite what he's doing, then he values what you have to say. When he replies quickly, it shows you that you can rely on him.


If He Gives Short Answers

If you type paragraphs, does he respond with a message of equal length, or does he write back, "K?" If he doesn't bother to give you a reasonable response by text, then he's going to behave in the same way when you have a face to face conversation with him. If he liked you, he would keep the conversation going instead of simply saying 'lol.'


If He Acts Differently

Some people are more comfortable using text, because they don't have to look you in the eye. However, if your crush acts completely differently over text than he does in real life, you should be worried. Only one of his personalities can be the real one.

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If He Gossips

Does he send you screenshots of his conversations with friends? You might be happy that he's opening up to you, but you should be wary instead. If he's showing you conversations with his friends, then he might show those friends the private conversations he's been having with you. Remember that whenever you text someone, your words are there in print for everyone to see.


If He'd Rather Call

Everybody loves to text, because it's quick and convenient. If your crush would rather call you up to have a conversation on the phone, then he likes hearing your voice. A guy that would spend hours talking to you on the phone instead of sending a few texts back and forth is a real keeper.

Pay close attention to the messages your phone receives, because it can tell you a lot about the people you're speaking to. Do you text your crush?


Texting is one of the most popular forms of communication in today’s world. It’s a great way to stay in touch with your friends and family, but it can also be a great way to learn more about the person you’re interested in. By paying close attention to the messages your crush sends you, you can learn a lot about him.

If he’d rather call you up and have a conversation on the phone instead of sending a few texts back and forth, then he really likes hearing your voice. This is a great sign that he’s interested in you and wants to get to know you better.

Another thing you can learn from his texts is how often he responds. If he’s always quick to reply, then he’s definitely interested in having a conversation with you. If he takes a while to respond, then he might be busy or not as interested.

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Hillary lee you are lucky to be seeing someone :-)

Same position as Hillary, idk how to go about it ,he seems semi interested

This is very convenient and helpful

Totally agree

Okay ladies, I have a question! I love the article, but my "crush" so to speak, texts back a few hours later (I know he's a busy guy) and we usually have great conversations leading up to our first 3 dates that were great.... So we've been talking for almost 2 months and been "seeing each other" for 1. Lately it's been more sparse (mostly because busy lives and holiday season) but there are times we go 2-3 days without getting a response or him initiating. But when we do, it's right back to where we left off with sweet whatever's and what not.. Any advice?

Really true. Enjoyed this article. Thanks

This was a good article all good points! I'm glad I found a good man :)

Nice points... Thank u ....i loved the last one

@Hilary Lee He's somewhat into u. If he was head over heels he'd answer right away no matter the occasion. Men are simple creatures.. If they like u they will show it. If there is distance it's a red flag! :)

this is so true, thanks.