What is the most important trait to be a great girlfriend?

Being supportive and understanding helps build a strong, loving relationship.

How can I show my boyfriend that I care?

Small gestures like listening, complimenting, and spending quality time show you care deeply.

Why is communication crucial in a relationship?

Clear and honest communication prevents misunderstandings and strengthens your bond.

How can I be more patient with my partner?

Practice empathy and remind yourself that everyone has flaws and off days.

What role does trust play in a happy relationship?

Trust creates a safe space where both partners feel secure and valued.

How important is it to maintain independence in a relationship?

Maintaining your independence helps keep the relationship healthy and balanced.

How can I support my boyfriend’s goals effectively?

Encourage his dreams and offer helpful advice without trying to control his decisions.

What should I do if we have frequent disagreements?

Approach conflicts calmly, listen actively, and work together to find solutions.

How can I keep the romance alive over time?

Surprise your partner occasionally and keep communication fresh and fun.

Is it important to have shared interests in a relationship?

While not essential, shared interests can help you bond and enjoy time together.

Whenever you're in a relationship, you want your boyfriend to consider you an aweseome girlfriend. Of course, sometimes it's hard to figure out what guys are actually looking for from you. Thankfully, Pop Sugar knows what men like. According to them, here are the traits that make a woman an awesome girlfriend:

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1. Independent

Independent Men like to be needed, but they don't want to be needed all the time.

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Being independent means you have your own life, hobbies, and passions. It's attractive when you're self-reliant and not clinging to your partner for every little thing. Guys appreciate when a woman has her own aspirations and is able to handle her own issues. This isn’t to say they don't desire to be helpful or supportive—they do. However, a balance is critical; it’s about being a partner, not a project. Your independence is empowering, not just for you, but for the relationship too, as it fosters mutual respect and admiration.

2. Intelligent

Intelligent There's nothing like a girl who can beat him at Jeopardy.

3. Attractive

Attractive This one is a given. Men are visual creatures, after all.

4. Respectful

Respectful Men don't want to be treated like children. They want you to consider them your equal.

If you're looking to engage your partner in intriguing conversations, why not try some hypothetical questions for couples? These fun queries will not only keep the conversation lively but also stimulate deep thoughts and potentially reveal insights about each other's personality and thought processes.

5. Loving

Loving This is an excuse to smother your man with hugs and kisses.

6. Motivational

Motivational A good girlfriend will make him want to be a better man.

7. Friendly

Friendly The more his parents love you, the more he'll love you.

If your boyfriend is in a relationship with you, then he probably considers you an awesome girlfriend, despite what you act like. Do you think you have any or all of these traits?

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Եհҽ
2015-10-04T06:55:29.042Z
I am sometimes really really bossy becuz my bf just bought some really expensive things that he doesn't need. I told him so many times to save money becuz he is independent now he can't just go running to his dad when he needs money. He has to learn to save money. And yes he hates it .. Sometimes when he gets really annoyed he calls me mom.
Evelyn
2015-10-04T03:01:21.261Z
So there is this boy that is texting me,but I don't like him and I think he is getting the wrong message.
EvaB313
2016-12-04T17:45:52.638Z
Think about his spending but watch to see if he changes before committing to a lifetime because what you see him doing now will only get worse when he's depending on you to cover him instead of dad.
Sioban
2015-10-05T23:26:00.332Z
I have been single all my life. I would suspect that if I had a bf, he would totally love that I never get PMS (a *little* bit of PMS would be helpful for when the crimson wave surprises me?!) and barely get cramps at all! I wish I could wear it on a teeshirt! "Hey guys! Over here! No PMS! Ever! I swear!" If I were them, I'd be all over that like a dirty shirt!
EvaB313
2016-12-04T17:44:13.102Z
@me I advise you to take that as a red flag. If you are planning on getting married someday, someone who is finically irresponsible can put a lot of stress on a marriage. That is something you can't fix. Right now in the girlfriend role, mention what you
Island
2015-10-04T06:42:00.699Z
@evelyn stop responding
alka
2015-10-04T06:49:24.736Z
@Evelyn kindly tell him you only want to be his friend or otherwise if you dont just avoid him/dontvm text back so he learns you arent interested
Jenna-Jasia
2015-10-04T06:52:12.879Z
Start with friendship
Fay
2016-12-05T19:47:27.073Z
All of them 😏
alka
2015-10-04T02:30:46.451Z
Where is loyal? The most important trait!