I'm an adult and I still get a weird knot in my stomach whenever I think about my crush. The worst part about liking someone is when you're stuck that in-between stage where you simultaneously praise 🙌 and overanalyze 🕵 every little thing he does. I'm always afraid that I'm reading the signals wrong or that my interest in him is clouding my crush-o-meter.
Shaking off your nerves and building the confidence to just ask him out is hard, especially if you've been friends for awhile now. You spend most of your time together but still can't figure out how he really feels. What if you confess and things become awkward 🐢 between the two of you? What if it ruins your friendship? Even though pushing these questions to the back burner is easier said than done, coming up with a game plan is key if you're interested in exploring things further. There are subtle hints that you can look out for that will point you in the right direction. If he does any of these things, he may like you more than you think 😉😘.
It doesn't matter how far apart you're both standing, he'll find some way to make physical contact with you. It could be a gentle shoulder pat when he's laughing at something you said that was hilarious, tucking your hair behind your ear or pulling you in for a hug. When you guys are walking, his hand always manages to brush against yours.
Physical touch isn't just accidental; it's his subconscious way of showing you he's into you. He might casually reach across to flick a stray lint off your jacket, or offer an unexpected, warm embrace when you achieve something, big or small. You might notice a fleeting touch on the small of your back as you navigate through a crowded room. These touches, while seemingly innocent, are his body language signals of affection, and they're his way of connecting with you on a level that words just can't match.
Picture this. You're talking to mutual friends at a party. When you look up, you make direct eye contact and it is INTENSE. A few hours have passed and he is still looking in your direction even though he's in a deep conversation with someone else. It's almost as if he is subconsciously checking that you're still there.
If a guy is really into you, he's more likely to mirror you. Exhibit A: When you're showing him that funny video on your phone, he leans in when you do. Exhibit B: You noticed that when you grab coffee ☕ together, you both always take a sip and put your mugs down at the exact same time.
Mirroring is a subconscious act of synchrony, often indicative of comfort and rapport. It's like dance partners moving in step with each other - intuitively and effortlessly. If during a conversation his gestures mimic yours—whether it's a tilt of the head or matching your excitement with a wide smile—it's his body's way of saying, "I'm on the same wavelength as you." Keep an eye out; this kind of non-verbal cue is a silent but powerful indicator of his genuine interest.
It's true, you can tell a lot about a guy's feelings based on something as simple as where his feet are positioned. If his feet are always pointed in your direction, not only is he genuinely interested in what you have to say, he is also subtly trying to close the space between you. In season 2 of New Girl, Zooey Deschanel and Jake Johnson nail a hilarious skit pre-Nick-and-Jess where she notices that his feet always face hers and she actively tries to avoid them.
This quirky foot fact is drawn from the principle of body language attraction—it's not just folklore. When a man angles his feet toward you, he's anchoring himself in your orbit. It's a non-verbal way of saying, "I'm interested in where you are and what you're doing." Think of it as his compass pointing towards his interest—you! And, oh boy, if you catch him repositioning his feet under the table at dinner to gently brush against yours, that's not coincidence; it's a classic, albeit old-school, flirtation move that says he's definitely into you.
These days, it seems like you have plans together more often than not. Sometimes, it feels like you see him more than your girlfriends. Not that you're complaining 😉😏.
It's almost as if he has a sixth sense for when you'll be at your favorite coffee spot, or he just happens to show up at the gym when you're there. Coincidence? I think not! Your shared "spontaneous" meetups are becoming anything but unplanned. And let's not forget those group hangouts where he's always, somehow, right next to you. His "accidental" proximity isn't just luck; girl, he's got you in his sights and he's enjoying every moment he can get.
At parties, he kind of orbits around you and is usually just a few feet away. When you're on your line to see your favorite band, you turn around and he's super close.
He's mastered the subtle art of being "accidentally-on-purpose" next to you no matter where you are. Whether you're queueing for coffee or browsing through a bookstore, he seems to magically appear at your elbow. It's like he has a sixth sense for where you'll be. Sometimes, you'll even catch him mirroring your actions from across the room—picking up a book just after you do, or laughing along with your group's conversation. While it might seem coincidental at first, his constant proximity is a blinking neon sign of his interest in you.
On your birthday, he never fails to call or text you at midnight so he can be the first person to wish you a happy birthday. He knows when your test or your big presentation at work is coming up and gets you a small gift to calm your nerves.
He really pays attention to every little detail about you and hangs on to your every word. This means that he genuinely wants to get to know you.
When a guy likes you, his curiosity about your life can feel boundless. He's not just making casual conversation—he digs deep. He wants to understand your passions and fears, and he'll even remember the smallest details from your stories. It's not all about surface-level interests; he's also inquiring about your dreams and ambitions. This level of interest showcases his desire for a more meaningful connection beyond the typical small talk—it's a surefire sign he's smitten.
Half of the time, you can't tell if your joke really WAS that funny or if he's humoring you. Watching him throw his head back or how his eyes crinkle at the corners, you realize that you don't really mind as long as you get to see his reaction, over and over again 😍.