15 Tell-Tale Signs That Prove He's into You ...

Signs he’s into you — are we ever sure we know them all? Why do guys have to leave us guessing? Why can’t they be more direct? No worries, sweetie! If you’re not sure the guy you like returns the feeling, I can help. Here are 7 sure signs that he is into you — use this like a checklist, and see how many apply!

1 He Calls You

He Calls You My mother once gave me the best bit of dating advice ever: if a boy likes you, nothing will stop him from calling you. WAIT! I know what you’re thinking — does texting or instant messaging count? Well, sort of. A sure sign that he is into you is that he wants to actually speak to you, hear your voice, so a phone call is still the best indicator. Thanks, mom!

2 He Keeps up with Your Social Media

He Keeps up with Your Social Media When he sent you a friend request (or added you to his circle, or started following you on Twitter), you knew he was a little interested, but now that he comments or likes or re-tweets or plus ones all of your updates and photos, you know he’s into you. Semi cyber stalking on social networking sites (not in a creepy way!) is one of the sure signs that he is into you, for sure!

3 He Remembers Everything You Say

He Remembers Everything You Say Two weeks ago, over drinks, you mentioned your strawberry allergy, and tonight, at dinner he made sure your salad came without them. He’s paid attention, and remembered what you said — another sign he’s into you!

4 He Finds Excuses to Touch You

He Finds Excuses to Touch You If he can’t keep his hands off you (in the non-sexual way), then he’s definitely into you! Examples of this would be holding your hand while crossing the street, putting his hand on your back or waist as you’re walking together, and even brushing your hair out of your eyes.

5 You Catch Him Looking at You All the Time

You Catch Him Looking at You All the Time Every time you glance his way, he’s either grinning at you, or he looks away quickly, with a shy smile — you catch him looking at you all the time! Oh, girl, he’s got it bad. This is one sure sign he’s into you. By the way, if you’re always glancing over at him… that might mean you’re into him, too!

6 He Wants to Introduce You

He Wants to Introduce You He can’t wait for you to meet his friends, his family, his dog, his roommates, his co-workers, and the guys at the gym. If he’s set on introducing you around, then chances are, he’s into you. And he wants everyone he knows to know it, too!

7 He Sends You Flowers, Etc

He Sends You Flowers, Etc Men who don’t intend to stick around don’t send small gifts or flowers for no reason. It’s that simple. If he’s sending you flowers or cards or little handmade friendship bracelets, then oh yes, he’s into you.

8 He Reaches out to You

He Reaches out to You Try not to talk to him for a little and see what happens. If you don't answer him or initiate contact, how will he respond? If he reaches out to you after he hasn't heard from you for a while, then there's a good chance he's into you! Maybe he was even checking his phone constantly and started to miss you. Either way it's a good sign.

9 Eye Contact

Eye Contact Not every guy is like this, but usually when a guy maintains eye contact with you while talking it's a good sign. There are some guys who get nervous and just can't hold eye contact that much, but for the most part this is a good tell. Bonus points to you if you notice that his pupils get bigger. Supposedly our pupils grow when we look at someone that we have feelings for/are attracted to.

10 Wants to Share Interests

Wants to Share Interests A lot of times if a guy is into you, he wants to show you what he likes to do and share that with you. Whether it's going for a hike, watching a game, or taking you to a concert of his favorite band it's a good sign. This also works if he wants to do things like this that you like. He's trying to show you more of himself and that's really hard for some people so appreciate it.

11 He Gets Nervous around You

He Gets Nervous around You This may be hard to pick up on, but it's not impossible. Try to observe his behavior around other people and then compare it to how he is around you. Maybe you'll notice a nervous laugh, sweaty palms, or he blushes. They're small and subtle hints, but they're definitely good signs.

12 His Body Language

people,tree,screenshot,outa, If you pay close attention, his body language can you tell you everything you need to know. If he leans into you, it shows that he's comfortable around you and wants to be close. Also, pay attention to where his feet are pointing. Supposedly, our feet point to what we want. It's a good little tip to know!

13 He'll Watch a Chick Flick with You

photograph,photography,man,ceremony,bride, If he's got no problem watching Channing Tatum in a rom-com with you, he's so into you... or Channing Tatum. LOL! Chances are he'd rather be home watching a football game so give him props that he's sitting through a sappy movie!

14 He Opens up to You

photograph,photography,ceremony,portrait photography,romance, If he's verbal about his feelings with you, consider that a big deal. Most guys are so out of sync with their emotions! Opening up to you proves that he's comfortable with you and genuinely trusts you.

15 He's Protective of You

photograph,ceremony,event,romance,portrait photography, He can show this in many different ways. If he makes sure you've eaten already, offers his coat when you’re cold, wants to take you to the doctor whenever you're sick, he truly cares about you.

These are the signs I use to tell if a certain guy is into me, and they’ve never let me down. The first one, with the advice from my own mother, is still the best! Which of these signs that he’s into you have you used before? Or is there another way you can tell? Please share!

This article was written in collaboration with editor Vanessa Salles.

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Debbie nice comments on me
Stephanie If he looks at you and smiles and its a genuine smile then he likes or loves you. Any time my bf looks at me he smiles and in turn it makes me smile.
missthang i meant friend sorry about that
missthang what does it mean when my crush says how are you to me when i say hey to him and he stares at me all the time even when he is talking to his frien?
chiann if i say hi to my crush and he says how are you and he stares at me and he smiles big at me what does that me
Charlotte Hey everyone so I'm having trouble figuring out if this guy likes me. I work in food service and my coworker had pointed out that this guy clearly likes me although I think he's just being nice. When he walks in he smiles at me and makes a lot of eye contact. He has a tendency to say my name a lot (after almost every sentence lol!) and he says it's good to see me. We've had conversations before, but nothing too serious (school and assignments). His nonverbal behavior does suggest interest but at the same time I think he's just making friendly conversation. What do you all think?
Jasmine Hi everyone! I recently met a guy online who happens to live in the same student halls as me..which was great! We started off chatting as friends and he said he wanted to come over and visit and get to know me etc, but then I came home from uni to go travelling in the states for 10 days. While I was there he'd message me back when I got wifi and it started to turn into dirty talk which I think I managed to trigger, not him. We met up and slept together but he didn't stay over because he had lectures early the next morning which I understood, I would have been the same! But he's still dead chatty and said he had a good time and he will come back over. I think after having this before and then just being cut off, I'm really scared of it happening again and I need advice not to get attached!! I'm hoping he will come back over because we're so near to each other it would be more awkward not to see each other but I just need advice to avoid 'the feelings' or paranoia!!
Kim I love the eye contact or staring at you I always get butterflies when I catch my crush staring at me☺️💕
sassy-girl Aw yea totally true
Jacqui I met a guy less than a week ago, and we've already hugged and muck around together, he asked for my number a few days ago and I gave it to him, we've been texting since :) he called me this morning for the first time and it made me so happy, it was great. I think I'm falling for him, but my friends have told me to not date him because apparently he has had over 10 girlfriends this year alone, and that apparently he is just a player. I don't know what to think of this, but I really do think I like him.
Octavia Great article.
Kristen Hey! I need help... so I met this guy.. well sorta. I have friends that live a couple hours away and know him, so we became friends on Facebook. When he asked me who I was I explained that I was good friends with some of his. So we started talking and he seemed super interested in talking to me, but the next day he never responded. He didn't the next day either. He hadn't even looked at the last message and I know he was online... am I being too paranoid? I don't have any idea what he thinks about me. He's a really good guy and super cute, so yes I might be crushing. Ideas, thoughts?
Alyssa Some one please give me some advice
Alyssa I need help with how to get my crush to notice me and ask me out. My friend is friends with him now and she showed him a picture of me. He said I was cute. Then she asked him to rate me 1-10. He said I'm a 7an a 1/2. Then she told me she has his # and he has hers. And everyone told him that they know a girl that likes him and he says that he wants to meat me. I'm afraid to even talk to him and I'm afraid that he will not like me back. I need some advice. And should I be worried about my friend HELP!!!!
- Dramaticality @Alyssa, Honey there is no need to worry. I understand where you are coming from and I know exactly what you are going through. I suggest you prepare yourself, with the help of your bffs and talk to him. Start out as friends and get to know him a bit first :) I just asked my crush to the prom...i don't think he knows I like him but such is life, I'm just glad I can be close friends with him. I hope everything works out for you! Best of luck! :)
Chaimae I'm just confused . I like him so much . And everything u said is in him .but he never told me that he like me to
Angie I need some advice. I was at a party the other day and my crush kept calling the host my name.. In the car he said he doesn't know what's wrong with him.. He's fairly shy. How can I get him to ask me out? He has no experience with woman. He def smiles and kindly compliments me or stares at me. He even remembers things about me. How do u know for sure when someone likes you? Even if he's shy
Chelsea Don't be afraid to make the first move!!! Go ahead and ask for his number, he might just be a little shy, and isn't sure if you like him like that! So go ahead!! Hope this helps!
- Mikayla @Chelsea Hertz thanks so much !!
Mikayla Hey :) I'm sry but ok so this guy we talk all the time at youth group and he flirts with me and I flirt back. But like he hasn't asked for my number, but I catch him starring at me a lot. So do u think I should wait for him to ask for my number or should I ask for his?!?! Help please??!!
Confused Help! So there is this guy that I like but I'm not sure if he likes me back or I'm feeling a bit insecure. We've known each other for about 2 years already. The first year he tried so hard talking/taking me out but I was working a lot so showed no interest because I was exhausted. I would always agree to going out but cancel at last minute all the time. Well this last year I decided to give him a chance & get to know him. About 4 months into talking we talked about where we both stand & we agreed to spend more time together to see where things go. He use to text me everyday & take me out. Then after talking with friends I decided to ask again where were at 9 months & he said he was sorry, he likes me & we still needed to hang out more & he knows it was his fault that we weren't spending that much time as we use to because of working a lot more than he used to but he would still text me everyday so after that I didn't like what I was hearing so I had told him I think it would be best if we didn't talk. I regretted what I had said so apologized day after, he was upset with what I had told him so ignored my calls/texts. About a month later I decided to give him a call he answered & we talked. It's been about 2 months now that we've been talking again. I feel like it changed a lil after that. He wasn't really texting me like he use to but lately it's been everyday & we've gone out a couple of times but I just feel awkward now because it's not the same. Should I move on? Or wait a little longer & see what happens or talk to him about how I feel??
- Chelsea @Confused hey, I would just ask him...sorry I wasn't such a big help
Dstny If I guy rubs you on your head does that means he likes u
Iza Oh and one more thing: last night I recieved a prank call with no Caller ID and the voice behind the reciever mentioned that guy's name. So is there any chance at all that he also might be playing with me? I am so confused...
- Denise @Iza Sencar He's not necessarily playing with you. Maybe his friends were messing with him by calling you.... That could mean something. But like I said, it's best to talk to him. :)
Iza *what I am attracted to about guys
Iza Hello. There's this guy in my school and he's really cute, nice and smart. Although he is the exact opposite of what I am attracted to guys, I really like him and I want to get to know him better. We once talked really quickly, but the main part is that he glances at me all the time (I am not kidding). Idk if it's stalking or something, but one time in Spanish class I secretly looked his way and he was already staring at me and then he quickly turned away and started nervously clutching his hands. Now I am really confused, because at times he acts like he likes me too, but I am not sure. And FYI: I am kind of a shy person so... Any useful advices please?? 😫
- Denise Hi Iza. Talk to him again, even if it's just to ask him how he is. Get to know each other and learn to be comfortable in each other's presence.
NurArfah the flowers . :) aww
Tiitii Hi, I am Tiziri :) I guess that my boyfriend has these 7 signs and I'm glad about that, so we are together from a year and half, but I got this problem of his bestfriend (she's a girl) and when I see that they text eachother a lot I get upset :( If u can help me, I'm waiting for u :* Thank you!
megan Hi :) So i've got a big problem. I hope you can help me. There is this guy that I like so much and i think he likes me too becouse a year ago, when i first met him at a party he asked me to dance and the next day he went to my class to meet me. Since then we just said "hi" to each other now and then. But this year something happened :( he has become friends with a boy that likes me and still does...now i feel like he is not that much into me :( do you think he does not like me anymore becouse his friend likes me and he feels bad? What should i do pls help me. I really really like this boy and i feel so bad that i can not be with him :'(
- Heather Hi Megan! I'd definitely up your game on the flirting front. You want to show the guy that you are into him because maybe he doesn't know? Guys can be fickle and standoffish if they think they are being blown off. Up the flirting and see what happens! :)
Tacarra <3 <3 <3
SOMEONE He likes every girl he sees he likes me my bff and my other bff and every other girl he sees but he only flirts m=with me and my first bff.
Asma Hi i m asma , I HAVE PROBLEM with my boyfriend his ex is alwayz into him . And he told me that he had feelings for her but they will vanish by time .help what should i do ??and realy he will get ride of this feelings !!!:O
- Heather Hi Asma! I think that you need to tell him that it is her or you. Truthfully, he shouldn't be around your boyfriend's ex if you don't want it. :)
catie So this guy and I were really close. Then out of nowhere he asks to kiss me. So we kinda kissed. Then the next few days things between us drifted apart. He put his arm around me the next day I saw him and before he left I kissed him on the cheek. Then we go from hugs to distance. My friends say he just played me. I wanna know what's going on..
- Lyndsie Hi Catie! I'm not sure that he played you, because his actions seem rather gentlemanly, especially since he asked (so sweet!). He might just be feeling shy now, or unsure. If I were you, I'd ask HIM what's going on, point blank -- it's better than not knowing.
Nichi So him not saying I love you doesn't matter?
- Heather Hi Nichi! I think that if a guy rushes into the 'i love you', it might not be sincere. It should come naturally to him. :)
Bj Question.. I have liked this guy since I was 18 im 22 now and I have never forgot him.. we didnt talk or anything. Well on Thursday he sent me a fb request and we have been talking since.. We went out Friday night and we had fun.. Well he drove me to my car and when I got in his car he said im sry I should have opened the door for u.. Well we have beeb texting everyday and his friends tell me that he said he had a good time he was laughing and having fun.. Only thing im asking him on dates im texting him first. Idoing everything first.. And I know hes into me I can tell.. By they way he is.. Question is he really into me or what.. He dont want sex til Valentines day.. And in march were going on vacation togethe.. What does then mean...
- Heather Hi! That definitely means that he likes you, but I'd say why not lay off texting him for a while and see if he texts you first? That way you can put some pressure on him to text you. :)
Taurus Persist, if you hit it off straight away, don't give up, especially if you like him. Suggest meeting up for a drink or something, cinema etc. you like him, so you want him,.....go get him ;)
- Heather So true! :)
Julia Millions of eye contacts happen but he used to love another girl for 2 years before he knew me I feel he'a into me but feel he still loves her
Laura I met a guy, and he told me that het had a crush on me. A couple of days later he met a friend of me and he couldn't stop watching her. (we have seen each other between those days, but just as friends and not alone).Two months later he sent me a msg telling me that he's in love with me. But didn't aks me what my feelings were. I liked him from the beginning, but when he told me that he might be interested in my friend, I didn't though about him like that anymore. I told him that it wasnt possible because he told me that he liked my frend. ANd that you cant change of opinion like that. He said that it's possible to like more women at the same time, but you choose one of them to start dating. I dont know what to do anymore. Any advice? (Now i can't stop thinking about him)
- Heather Hi Laura! I think that it is definitely possible to like more than one guy, but he has to make a choice and if it's you, he needs to commit to you.
M0211 There is this guy I’ve known for very long ,now he always talks to me like he likes me, loves to hold my hand, sit really close to me , he even remembers my fav food or chocolate or gets very possessive and hates every guy I find cute. Everyone around us thinks he likes me a lot, but then he suddenly becomes moody and rude for a while and then gets back to being all nice and lovey dovey. I don’t know what to make of this. Help! :)
- Heather Hi M0! I'd say that you need to talk to him, it sounds like his mood swings are things that might need to change. :)
ana When he lets you nap in his bed after your work and wakes you up with kisses and dinner...and of course, no flowers...practical man he is he thinks giving me food is more important that flowers...
Anonymous It's about my ex bf. I really don't know what he think? We broke up like 3 - 4 years already. Reason broke up was he fell in love with another girl. We actually been together for 4years since secondary school And now the girl broke up with him. He feel very sad and don't know what to do. So, he came and started talking to me again after these years. Telling me that both of them broke up and both of their stories why they actually broke up.I treated him as friend so i listened and talked to him. Without realized, we actually been talking so randomly in facebook for few months without a day missed. We shared a lot of stories together like what is happening in his university and all about his living stuffs. So yesterday i asked him, why are you keep talking to me? Don't you feel boring? Then he answered me: No i don't feel that. We really know each other so long and so well already. So I'm like Oh! you trust me thats why you are telling me everything, right? He said he don't know! Nevermind! And said me noob. Actually what does he want? And yes, I admit that i fell in love with him again. I don't know what to do? Is it ok to love him back? I need advice !! What should I do?
- Anonymous @Sheila, Thank for the advice. The point you said what if the girl comes back? Will he stick around or go back to her? It really make out my mind. I want to give him another chance, but now I will see how far things can go between two of us. Maybe you were right! He was just using me because he's lonely now.
- Sheila Hey, Welcome to AWS! Firstly, when you broke up, did he cheat on you or did was he honest about falling in love with this other girl? It's completely natural to wonder "what if" especially after 3 years because of the feelings that you've had for him in the past but you need to think from a practical point of view. What if the girl comes back? Will he stick around or go back to her? Is he just using you because he's lonely right now or does he genuinely like you? If the two of you start dating again and he breaks up with you again, will you be able to handle it? I'm all for second chances but just for a second, put your heart aside and think with your brain. If you still think you want to give him another chance, go for it. Just take things slow though. Good luck!
Amy I like this guy and: he remebers stuff I tell him, he repeats little phrases I say, he always laughs at my jokes and he always glances at me when he thinks I'm not looking and every time our eyes meet; it's so undescribable as it's awesome, electrifying and we both feel the same. But he always talks to these two other girls more than he talks to me, what should I do???
- Sheila Hey Amy, It doesn't matter if he talks to someone else more than you. All that matters is the chemistry between you. Just stay patient, flirt back and see where things go.
Kitty I really like this guy in my class. He's that guy that all the girls have a crush on. My enemy likes him too, and he used to like her, but i'm pretty sure he doesn't anymore. Recently she figured out that i like him, or at least she suspects i do. I'm almost certain that she'll tell everyone. I'm really shy, and it would be really embarrassing. My enemy is jealous of me, although i'm not sure why. Please help me! I need advice!
Anonymous So there is this guy who is super gorgeous, and super intelligent. He’s my best friend’s very very close friend. But the problem is we’ve never talked to each other. We’ve met on several(like4-5) occasions. But still he wouldn’t talk to me and acts like I am not even around and I don’t even exist. The very first day he saw me… he was absolutely smitten by me… ever since he doesn’t stop talking about me to my best friend, he keeps asking about me but he doesn’t want her to tell me this. Quite evidently she does tell me everything( come on she’s my best friend) but whenever we meet it’s like I have to act I am not aware of anything… and he acts as if I am the last person on this earth he would like to go out with. He doesn’t even look at me, no hi’s, not even an introduction, nothing. He’s on facebook, he has like 900 friends (I am sure he doesn’t even know more than half of those 900 people), but I am not on his friendlist. He wouldn’t send me a friend request. Every Tuesday when me and my best friend’s tuition classes are over, he’s always standing outside to catch a glimpse of me. He keeps telling my best friend to ask me to wear black. he loves it when I wear black… (all this he thinks I don’t know). BUT he wouldn’t talk to me. He’s very popular among girls.. and so am I among boys… and I can’t bring myself to send him a friend request. Worse, when on facebook, we do comment on the posts of our common friends(my best friend for instance) but we never interact with each other. Its like if 5 of us are chatting on my best friends wall. Everyone interacts with everyone but its like both us don’t exist for each other…. BUT I like him. I know he likes me…. What do I do now???? I think mine is the strangest situation ever…….!!
- Sheila Hey there, It does sound a little like Pride and Prejudice. I think you should ask your best friend to tell him that he needs to man up and talk to you. Maybe it would help if she also told him that you kind of liked him as well. If he still doesn't do it, I think you should take the first step. It can't go on like this forever. :) Good luck and thanks for reading.
Anonymous i like someone @ work.
lemonheadyum! now lemme tell you this.. i stated this guy that i like that i indeed like him. sadly, he said that he didnt feel the same way. BUT he now sends me texts that state that the dress i was wearing that day looked good on me AND just last friday we had an.... interesting conversation (AKA we talked dirty to each other.. and i mean dirty) WHAT DOES THIS MEAN!
- lemonheadyum! @Heather, i guess i probably should have mentioned that he is one of my good guy friends. we sit together at lunch, hung out a lot during a trip to arizona, and I've known him since kindergarten.
- Kendall @lemonheadyum!, It probably means that he has thought about it, and thinks well... maybe I do like her.
- Heather Hey Lemon! It sounds like to me that he is into you, but he also might be into you for the wrong reasons. Have you ever hung out with him? If not, it might be time to do that to see if there is a connection outside of texting!
confused Hi, I like a guy. He never called me, only texted me once, seems like never try to touch me.. But, I can feel that he can be unease when I talk about another boy, or if I'm close to another boy. Is he a shy guy type? Or he's just not into me?
- Kendall @confused girl, He might think he doesn't like you, but then he thinks why do I get so jelous when she talks to other girls. He might need sometime to think it over.
- Heather Hey Confused! It sounds like he might be really, really shy. Have you two had a conversation? What about have you hung out? If not, it might be time to do that to see if you actually have a good connection and if he really is into you!
Anonymous Also, if a guy is into you he won't stop talking about you to his friends and would never ever leave you alone. ( this is from my personal experience, sounds nice but it actually is really suffocating)
- Heather Thanks for the comment anon! So true!
Anonymous number 5 true.... a guy i really like is always looking my way, like today me and my friend were laughing alot because of something we kept saying and i caught him looking at me and trying to hide a smile...but he still blushed and smiled!!<3 but a while ago i found out he liked my friend so im not sure if he was really looking my way after all??
- Kendall He might've and he might've not. Look, and see if he stares at you. Or if he is looking and staring at your friend.
Anonymous I like this boy but so does my best friend and I'm pretty sure he likes me back! I have no idea what to do ! He is one of my way good friends too so I dot want to ruin friendships ..... Help please !!
Anonymous Okay soo i think i like my friends ex who she completely hates cuz he nvr really liked her but we used to txt all the time and now he is doing everything that he used to do with her with my other friend so i am SERIOUSLY confused !! And i dont even know how to flort so i really need some help
- Anonymous *flirt
Confused I have a crush on my friend's brother. So cliche, I know. But over winter break my friend and I hung out a lot, and her brother and I became really close. We started messaging each other constantly, and we would always sit together during movies and stuff. He even told me he liked me when my friend called me to embarrass him! When we would hang out with other friends of mine, though, he wouldn't really say much-- even though I was right next to him! He is kind of socially awkward and adorable, so that was fine. We talked about getting to know each other more before going out, but once school started again he stopped talking to me for no reason. I don't know if my friend said something to him because she felt like it was weird, or he just changed his mind. But now I see him constantly at school, out with friends, and whenever I'm at his house or with his family and I don't know how to act! I still like him, even though I told everyone that I don't anymore, and I have no idea what to do. When he sees me he acknowledges me or we talk a little bit when we hang out with friends, but nowhere near as much as before. He acts kind of odd around me, rather than how he acts around our other girl friends, and I sometimes catch him looking at me, so I don't know if he still likes me or not. Do you think he still likes me and his sister is the problem, or should I just move on and let him go? How should I act around him now? **PLEASE HELP**
- Heather Hey Confused! Personally, it sounds like to me that he does still like you, but since you are friends with his sister, he doesn't want to mess that up for you. I'd say that maybe you should talk to your friend first, maybe get her opinion on it and then, with her blessing, maybe see if you can chat up her brother a little bit. Honestly, if you like him, you should go for it! It does still seem like he likes you a lot, he's just shy and scared!
Kaitlyn I like these tips, except for #1 and #5 only because most teenage boys don't feel comfortable calling girls when they aren't in a relationship, they prefer to text or instant message because if they get rejected it is less personal. But for teens, texting is also more convenient-- it's easier to sneak a text during class or while out with friends than it it to pull out your phone and talk to someone!
- Heather Hi Kaitlyn! That is so true, this is definitely the technology age and I think that texting is absolutely fine too. It's actually a great way to flirt and for a guy to let a girl know that he likes her.
Anonymous Right, i think this guy likes me, but reading that he does half the things, but then my friend likes him too and tbh i don't think he likes her, what do i do? SOMEONE HELP ME!
- Anonymous hey, well I think you need to talk to your friend and see what she says but personally I would stay out of this whole thing because this recently has happened to my friend and she decided to go for the guy leaving her other friend completely clueless and it was going fine until her bf cheated on her . . . with her other friend so you know, I would stay out of this just incase someone does that to you.
Belle I broke up with my ex about a month ago who I've dated for a bit more than a year. Right after the break up, the first person I contacted was a friend who I've known for about a year. He was really supportive and listened to my story and comforted me even though it was 3 in the morning!! Since early this year, we meet up at Uni twice a week since we're in the same Uni club and we talk a lot and stay back to have dinner with fellow club members. When we do, we're either sitting next to each other or opposite each other. Last week, we were sitting opposite each other and we had a small quiet staring competition and he lost and we both started laughing and we looked away from each other. Our friends sitting nearby said that we're doing things that couples would usually do and we started texting each other even we were sitting opposite each other. The texting continued all the way till we arrived at the train station to go our separate ways to go home. Before I broke up with my ex, my friend wouldnt return my text messages even if it was just a simple question like "Are you going to this club event today?". But since 2 weeks ago, he's been texting me more and more. Yesterday he was having dinner with friends, he was texting me the whole time while he was waiting for his order to arrive and while he was eating dinner. I was already on my way home at the time. When he got home, he chatted to me on Skype and we ended up voice chatting for 2 hours! He likes playing the same online games as I do and he invited me to play one on one with him. I've spoken to him a lot before and he said that he isnt interested in anyone and isnt interested in dating anyone. But I cant help getting the feeling that its either that he likes me and doesnt know about it or he only sees me as a close friend. I'm really confused right now. Can anyone give me some advice about him or what I should do?
- Belle @Heather, Right now, I'm not entirely sure about how I feel about him. I only just broke up with my ex and I enjoy the company from my friend. I dont know if I'm subconsciously trying to fill the empty feeling inside with my friend's presence. I like him a lot as a friend and he is my type of guy, but I'm not sure if I'm even his type. I think I may take up on your suggestion and ask him out to a movie... Thank you so much :)
- Heather Hi Belle! Welcome to AWS! I completely agree that he likes you. I think what he was waiting for was for you and your ex to break up. It sounds like he's had a crush on you for a while! Now, the question is, do you like him that way? If so, I'd maybe approach the subject with him, see if he wants to hang out just the two of you and see how that goes!
Anonymous so i have been talking to this boy on facebook and i asked him if he knew any good songs so he send me loads of love songs back is he being helpful or does he like me back