From the first fumblings in your teen years to the smooth and steady rhythm that you get going with a long-term adult partner, it would be fair to say that the groove of your orgasm has gone on a real journey over the years! It’s strange to think that a bodily sensation that does almost the same thing every time can sometimes feel so different. I’m sure you are well aware of the fact that there are lots of factors, both internal and external, which contribute to the success or failure of reaching a satisfying climax. If you want to see just how far your own pleasure can go, then here are nine ways to take your orgasms to the next level!
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1. Know Your Body
Do lots more self exploration to get to know your body, so that when the time comes for a partner to stimulate it, you will know exactly what you like and what you don’t like, and you can give them friendly advice to help you achieve a great climax.
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One way to take your orgasms to the next level is to get to know your body. Spend time exploring your body and discovering what types of touch feel good and what doesn't. This will help you communicate better with your partner and give them feedback on what works best for you. Additionally, try different types of stimulation like using toys, varying the pressure and speed, or trying different positions. Experimenting can help you find new and exciting ways to reach orgasm.
2. Warm up
Don’t go into the act of penetrative sex without a little warm up first. A little clitoral stimulation can go a long way for a woman, so make sure not to skip on the all-important foreplay.
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Foreplay is crucial for both partners to fully enjoy the sexual experience. It helps to increase arousal, build anticipation, and enhance intimacy. In fact, research shows that women require more time to become fully aroused compared to men. This is why it is important to engage in foreplay before moving on to penetrative sex. Clitoral stimulation, whether through oral sex or manual stimulation, can greatly enhance a woman's pleasure and lead to more intense orgasms. Additionally, foreplay allows for better communication and understanding between partners, leading to a more satisfying sexual experience for both.
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3. Don’t Rush
Don’t treat reaching orgasm as some sort of race that you need to win. Instead, slow things down and take your time, allow the feelings and sensations to build up and you will enjoy a much deeper and bigger climax.
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When you savor each touch and caress, your body has the opportunity to fully relax and become more receptive to pleasure. Take deep breaths and focus your mind on the present sensations. Explore what feels good without any pressure of the clock. This is not just about delaying gratification, but about enriching the entire experience. Encourage your partner to join in this slow dance of intimacy if you're together, or if you're flying solo, trust in the unrushed exploration of your own body. The result will be a crescendo of ecstasy that was well worth the wait.
4. Take It Easy
Try not to try so hard to achieve orgasm, because this can have the reverse effect of making your body ‘clam up’ and not respond in the way that you want it to. Don’t try to over speed or overthrust, just take it easy and the pleasure will come.
5. Vibrator
If you don’t have a vibrator at this point, then what are you doing!? Clitoral stimulation is often the key to achieving orgasm, and a little clit vibe to use as you are being penetrated is a sure fire way to overdose on pleasure!
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Investing in a quality vibrator is a self-love gesture you won't regret. The beauty of these playful gadgets isn't just in their effectiveness but also in their versatility. Whether you prefer pinpoint precision or broad stimulation, there is a design out there that meets every fancy. Plus, these trusty sidekicks come in discreet and travel-friendly designs. So, ladies, consider treating yourself to a mind-blowing session, elevating your duo play, or even slipping it into your solo routine. The Os just keep on coming, and honestly, self-care never felt so good.
6. Fantasy
Why not indulge in a few fantasy scenarios with a partner? Talk about the fantasies that have always turned you on the most, and see if you have any overlapping areas that you can both have a lot of fun with.
7. Kink
Don’t be so vanilla in bed. Try out a few kinks here and there to see if you land on something that gives you that extra jolt of pleasure.
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Kink is a broad term that encompasses a variety of activities that can add a new level of excitement to your sex life. This could include role-playing, BDSM, or other forms of power play. Experimenting with kink can increase the intensity of orgasms and add a new level of pleasure. It's important to communicate with your partner beforehand and establish boundaries and safety protocols. Make sure to keep an open mind and explore in a safe and consensual way. Kink can be an incredibly fun and rewarding experience, so don't be afraid to give it a try!
8. Edging
Experiment with edging, which is the process of being brought right to the edge of orgasm and then back again without actually climaxing. Doing this more than a few times in a row builds up sensation and results in one hell of an orgasm when you can’t take it anymore!
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Edging is a technique that can help to increase the intensity of an orgasm. It involves being brought right to the edge of climax and then stopping just before the climax. This can be done multiple times in a row, and when the individual can no longer take it, the orgasm that follows is much more powerful. It is important to remember to keep breathing and stay relaxed during the process, and to communicate with your partner about what feels good. Edging is a great way to experience more intense orgasms and take your pleasure to the next level.
9. Go Again
One of the best advantages women have over men is the ability to have multiple orgasm! Don’t just stop at one, keep going and see if your next one can be even more intense than the last!
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