Moaning and groaning (and grabbing the sheets in your fists and screaming oh god, oh yes, yes, yes) is fabulous and all that, but this is not communicating during sex. Sure it is showing affirmation, encouragement and appreciation, but in the least intensive and least open way. Yes, it’s hard to open up to verbal communication when your legs are spread-eagled. We’re at our most sensitive and vulnerable but that’s exactly why we should be talking. We don’t do it because we’re embarrassed, feel shy, are apprehensive, don’t know what to say … But, start talking and sex becomes so much better. Encourage your lover to talk and the pleasure factor can go sky high. Here’s how:
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1. Harbor a Kind Bedroom Atmosphere
Awkward silence is one of the worst things that can occur in the bedroom between you and a partner, so try to be as relaxed and as kind as possible, giving encouragement and positive feedback whenever necessary. Your partner will really appreciate the interaction and as a result, your intimacy will grow and the pleasure that you both feel will be much greater and much more authentic.
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Creating a kind and welcoming atmosphere in the bedroom is essential for effective communication during sex. This can be achieved by using positive reinforcement and encouragement, as well as actively listening to your partner's needs and desires. Studies have shown that couples who communicate openly and kindly during sex have a stronger emotional connection and more satisfying sexual experiences. Additionally, being physically affectionate outside of the bedroom can also strengthen communication and intimacy in the bedroom. Remember to always be respectful and understanding of your partner's boundaries and needs, and communicate openly and honestly to foster a deeper connection.
2. Be Crystal Clear about Your Likes and Dislikes
The heat of passion is not the best environment for you to be giving subtle hints and tips to your partner. The best way to communicate and make sure that the message has been relayed is to be a clear as possible. If you don’t like something, make it known. If you do like something, make that known too! Neither you or your lover should be trying to decode riddles during sex!
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3. Practice Makes Perfect!
Don’t be afraid to try out different ways of communication during your intimate sessions. The art of love making is all about discovering one another and finding out through practical means what makes the other person tick, so just keep going and experimenting until you both find things that you love and that you can make a regular part of the fun!
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The ability to communicate during sex is an important part of any intimate relationship. It can help to strengthen the connection between partners, build trust, and even increase pleasure. For women who want to feel closer to their partner during sex, here are some tips on how to communicate effectively.
First, it’s important to establish a safe and open environment for communication. This means making sure that both partners feel comfortable expressing themselves and talking about what they like and don’t like. It’s also important to be honest and respectful when discussing sexual matters.
Once the environment is established, it’s important to focus on non-verbal communication. Touch, eye contact, and body language can all be used to express desire and pleasure. Non-verbal communication can be especially helpful when it comes to communicating during sex, as it can help to create a more intimate connection.
It’s also important to use verbal communication during sex. This can be done in a variety of ways, such as whispering sweet nothings, complimenting one another, or even providing gentle guidance. It’s important to remember that communication is not just about telling your partner what to do, but rather about expressing your desires and needs.
4. Don’t Worry about Your Body Image
Worries about body image are a big factor in feeling self-conscious during sex, but believe me, if your partner is already there in the bed with you, you can be sure that he thinks your body is great! Try to leave your inhibitions at the bedroom door and let your body and words communicate to your man that you want him with everything that you’ve got, it will drive him wild!
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Body image concerns can greatly impact a woman's confidence and ability to fully enjoy sex. However, studies have shown that most partners are not focused on physical imperfections during sex, but rather on the pleasure and connection with their partner. By letting go of insecurities and communicating your desire and passion, you can create a more intimate and fulfilling experience for both you and your partner. Additionally, engaging in regular physical activity and maintaining a healthy lifestyle can help boost body confidence and improve sexual satisfaction. Remember, your partner is with you because they find you attractive and desirable, so embrace your body and enjoy the moment.
5. Stay Away from Medical Terminology
If you want to try some dirty talk, then steer clear of using the medical terminology for your fun parts. It’s kind of a boner killer and will make both of you think back to awkward sex ed lessons! Come up with fun nicknames and terms for each other’s intimate parts and areas. It makes everything less daunting and also gives you a fun intimate connection.
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When it comes to communicating during sex, it is important for women to feel closer to their partner. One way to do this is to avoid using medical terminology when engaging in dirty talk. Medical terminology can be a real mood killer and can bring up unpleasant memories of awkward sex ed classes. Instead, couples should come up with fun nicknames and terms for each other’s intimate parts and areas. This can help make the experience less intimidating and can help create a fun, intimate connection.
In addition to avoiding medical terminology, couples should also talk openly about what they want and don’t want. This can help create a safe and comfortable environment where both partners feel free to express themselves. A great way to start the conversation is by asking your partner what they like and don’t like. This will help you both get on the same page and can help create a more enjoyable experience for both of you.
It is also important to communicate during sex in order to ensure that both partners are comfortable. This can be done by asking your partner if they are enjoying themselves, if something is too rough, or if they need a break. This will help ensure that both partners are having a good time and can help create a more intimate connection.
6. Don’t Enquire about Orgasm during the Act
If you keep asking your man if he has ‘finished’ yet during sex, it will put pressure on him and make him feel like you are rushing him because you are bored. Just let nature take its course, and if you really do feel like you want things to speed up, a spot of dirty talk is always a sure fire way to get him to where he needs to be faster!
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It is important to avoid asking your partner about their orgasm during sex as it can create unnecessary pressure and make them feel rushed. Instead, try incorporating dirty talk to spice things up and help your partner reach climax faster. This tip is especially important for women who want to feel closer to their partner during sex, as it allows for a more natural and enjoyable experience. Additionally, communication during sex is key for building intimacy and strengthening the connection between partners. So, remember to focus on the present moment and let things progress naturally without putting pressure on your partner.
7. And Speaking of Dirty Talk, Go Ahead!
Trying dirty talk for the first time might seem silly and embarrassing, but you would be surprised at just how quickly it becomes natural and there are things that you can say that will drive him wild, as well as things that he can say to send you over the edge too!
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Good communication during sex is essential for a fulfilling and enjoyable experience. Dirty talk can be a great way to spice things up and make the experience more intimate and exciting. Dirty talk is a great way to express your desires and fantasies with your partner and to get to know each other better.
When it comes to dirty talk, it's important to remember to be respectful and not to say anything that could be hurtful or offensive. It's also important to be aware of your partner's boundaries and to make sure you are both comfortable with the words you are using.
When it comes to dirty talk, there are no rules. You can be as creative as you like and use whatever words you feel comfortable with. Some people like to use terms of endearment such as "baby" or "honey" while others prefer more explicit language. It's important to remember that you don't have to use explicit language to be sexy.
When it comes to dirty talk, it's important to be aware of your body language and to be conscious of how your partner is responding to your words. If you are both comfortable with the words you are using, it's okay to be more explicit and to take things further.
8. Never Talk about Previous Partners
When working on building a better connection with your current partner, it’s never a good idea to keep bringing up an ex. Even if you aren’t directly comparing them, it will definitely feel that way to him and he will become more withdrawn and introverted because of it.
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Talking about previous partners during sex can create a sense of insecurity and mistrust in the current relationship. It can also lead to feelings of inadequacy and comparison for both partners. This can hinder the intimate connection and trust that is necessary for a fulfilling sexual experience. Additionally, constantly bringing up past relationships can be a sign of unresolved feelings or a lack of closure, which can negatively affect the current relationship. It's important to focus on the present and the person you are currently with to truly build a strong and intimate connection during sex.
9. Laugh off Any Unexpected Noises!
Let’s be real. Sex is a sticky, messy and sometimes noisy business! We’re all mature adults here, so don’t make a big deal about any unexpected sounds that come from you or from him. The more you can brush them off and laugh about them, the better your intimate communication will be.
Fireworks anyone?
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