11 Signs He's Not the "One" and You're Better off Moving on ...


If you're dating someone and you're wondering whether or not it is worth investing your time, energy and emotion, take notice of any signs he's not the one.

If the guy you are dating is showing any signs he's not the one, it's best to pack it up and move on;

chances are that he's not going to suddenly start changing his feelings and become your one and only.

1. You Feel Judged

One of the biggest signs he's not the one is that you feel like you are being judged.

If you feel like you can't be yourself or if you feel like he's judging you when you are being yourself, it's a safe bet that he's not the one.

The right guy won't ever judge you.

No Emotion


Well....this hits home. Been with a guy now 5 years. We started fantastic. I thought then he was the one. 3 months later I found out he had a girlfriend. He told me that it was over for their relationship and he was leaving. I stayed for that reason. He finally did a few months after. Since then, its been a lot of lies, deceit, alcohol abuse. I became less of a priority. There was no care that he would lie to me over and over; no care that he knew it would hurt me. To him lieing became like a normal thing. So of course I would catch him and he would blame me somehow for why he chose to lie. Such as if I didn't freak out he would tell me the truth. I left him many times and he would always promise to not do it again...well guess what. He is still at it. Our sex life isn't one anymore. He shows no desire to be affectionate to me nor say affectionate things. I don't know why I hold on......He is most of these but except the part about the future. I guess maybe its because he found in me someone to put up with it all. He has an alcohol addiction and thinks there is nothing wrong with keeping another alcoholic as a friend. I try to tell him its not helping him having him in his life and if he is wanting to work on his addiction then he needs to stay away from that other alcoholic and put into fixing his problem. He lies to me about seeing him behind my back. Its all just one be lie...I don't trust him. I find things out and I don't think I can ever trust him.
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