Do you wish you had the power to read minds? Well, you can come close to reading your crush's thoughts just by looking at his pupils. The eyes really are the window into the soul, which means that you can play the part of a mindreader. Here are a few ways to tell exactly what your man is thinking just by looking at his pupils:
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1. Looking to the Left
When you ask him a question and he looks to the left, it's a sign that he's telling the truth. Why? Because studies show that your pupils will look to the left when you're recalling a memory. Just don't get your lefts and rights mixed up when you're looking at him, because you don't want to accuse him of being a liar when he's being perfectly honest with you.
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Studies have shown that when someone looks to the left when answering a question, it is often a sign that they are being truthful. This is because the left side of the brain is associated with the recall of memories, and when someone is recalling a memory, their pupils will automatically move to the left. This is an unconscious reaction, and it is often a reliable indicator of truthfulness. It is important to remember that the left and right sides of the brain are reversed when looking at someone, so it is important to pay attention to which direction they are looking in order to correctly interpret their response.
2. Looking to the Right
When a person's pupils dart to the right, it means that they're trying to be creative. So if you ask your man what he was doing and he looks to the right, it means that he's creating a scenario that didn't actually happen. So remember that looking to the right means he's lying.
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3. Pupils Dilate
Pupils are known to dilate when a person sees something that they find attractive. So if you lock eyes with a guy and notice his pupils dilating, it means that he thinks you're sexy. Of course, dilated pupils could also mean that he finds something interesting, so if you're telling a great story, that could be the source of his wide eyes.
4. Pupils Constrict
Since pupils dilate when a man is fascinated by something, they constrict when a man is bored. So if you're telling him a story and his pupils get smaller, he's not very interested in what you have to say. He might've even stopped paying attention.
5. Blinking Decreases
People tend to blink less when they're lying, because their brain is working hard to think of something clever to say. So if a guy is telling you that he's single without blinking once, take it as a sign to run in the other direction.
6. Blinking Increases
Girls bat their eyes at boys they like for a reason! There's something attractive about the look, so if someone is blinking a lot in your presence, it could mean that they have a crush on you. Of course, you'll never know for sure unless you flirt back, so don't let your eyes do all the talking and start telling him how hot he is.
7. Too Much Eye Contact
You'd assume that a liar would have trouble making eye contact. However, it's usually the opposite. If a guy is making direct eye contact with you and never breaks it, he's probably trying super hard to look like he's serious, even though he's actually lying. People will naturally break eye contact every once in a while when speaking, so if his eyes won't leave yours, be weary about what he's saying.
People aren't all that hard to read once you learn how to decipher body language. Pay close attention to your man's eye movement and you could learn a whole lot about him. Are you good at reading the minds of men, or are you always confused about what your crush is thinking?
Comments
QueenJ: Helpful 😈
Sara: Its awesome😊😊😊😊😊
Hazel: Does this only work with men, or does it also apply with women?
amalia: so facinating helpful...too
lizmarkovich: when the guy looks to the left, is it his left or my left??
Emma0904: Lizmarkovich - his left
amalia: how about when he is always smiling at you and he looks at you what is the meaning of that??
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